Help Ideas how to help people suffer less after my death?

[MapleS]

I have people I love and I'm wondering how to make them suffer less.
Especially a friend who... knows I will ctb and lives with it. They are so strong <3

Maybe an album of our photos, maybe a book to read every day after my death? I DON'T KNOW
Any ideas?

 

[like-spoiledmilk]

That's very kind of you. I think a personalized, long letter that focuses on happy memories and gratitude would be kind. Maybe a last gift that they can keep with them - jewelry or something meaningful to your relationship.

Unfortunately, I think if they love you, they would feel pain regardless. Only time and living more life would heal that deep of a grief.