I've been insecure about my pp for as long as I can remember. It makes me sad I'll never have the same experience as those people with bigger dicks. Mine isn't exactly "small" but it certainly isn't big either. I know I shouldn't be worried about it but I am.
I know how you feel. Mine is below average and I've had many relationships end because the other guy (I'm gay, and the body-shaming is especially bad in my experience) thought it was "gross". Just know that there are people out there who realize that sex isn't better by default just because your penis is big.
houseofleaves
and this with thee remains.
- Jan 14, 2022
- 549
Erm… dude… big dicks are AWFUL. I'm serious. Small ones give more pleasure, because they do not push into the girl's uterus. I highly encourage you to reconsider something. Small dicks are wonderful, really.
Al_stargate
I was once a pretty angel
- Mar 4, 2022
- 738
Agree, don't be insecure it's just not worth it. Dick or any other body thing, if it can't be improved naturally, then just accept it. Convince yourself that your dick is perfect, find advantages to it. I'm an average 6 incher, maybe we should have a penis length thread. The biggest dick gets a lifetime of complaints that sex is uncomfortable.
How long is it? I always thought of me as having a normal size dick, perhaps on the small side, but on the other hand never a girl I had sex with complained about it. I even hurt my current girlfriend a little when going "all in", so if it was longer it would be worst. Mine is 15 cm btw.
roaming_soul
Member
- Dec 29, 2021
- 49
In the pornographic and hyper-sexualized culture that we live in, you're not alone in your insecurity. I've had partners comment on my size positively (at least I think so lol) yet I still think "yeah right, I wish it was bigger". And what for? To physically traumatize someone with a Monster Dick? I personally hate having sexual interactions with men who have big dicks (the type you see in porn) - it's not fun, it's painful, it causes tearing and it requires mental preparation lol.
Giving pleasure is so much more than mere penis size. I'm not just hyping you, but speaking from my heart. We need to seriously re-evaluate our unrealistic expectations when it comes to sex and our own bodies.
And at the end of the day, if you can't change your size, explore other techniques that will blow your partners mind.
It's the motion of the ocean that counts, not the size of the waves ....or however that saying goes ;)
Giving pleasure is so much more than mere penis size. I'm not just hyping you, but speaking from my heart. We need to seriously re-evaluate our unrealistic expectations when it comes to sex and our own bodies.
And at the end of the day, if you can't change your size, explore other techniques that will blow your partners mind.
It's the motion of the ocean that counts, not the size of the waves ....or however that saying goes ;)
First off, I have a largish dick, about 7 inches long (my username is really stupid and i regret it, i couldn't think of anything else at the moment), and i never got to use it without paying for it. Sure, this overpaid fake sex has been better than having no experiences at all. But I never got learn how to make a girl cum. It was always my biggest fantasy and it didn't happen, I suspect it never will. Unlike most porn movies teach us, having a big penis doesn't mean that women will automatically cum for you.
It's probably nice having a big one compared to having a small or even an average one. Not meaning a huge one, like the ones in porn, that definitely comes with it's own problems, but a relatively big one. If for no other reason, then for the self-confidence it brings. However, that hardly matters if the rest of your life is fucked. Let's see, there are things such as health, intelligence, money, looks, weight, social skills that are all far more important than your penis size. Sure, i bet having a small dick sucks ass. But then again, if that's really a major issue to you, chances are you are exactly like me and never even got to use it much in the first place. In this case, you are just trying distract yourself from your real, much more complicated problems with this one.
If your life is actually okay in all other areas except when it comes to your penis size, then i have something to say that might actually be comforting to you. There are tons of men of all ages out there worrying over their penis size, many of them of average size just like you. There are much fewer women out there worrying about their vagina tightness in comparison. The conclusion? People tend to make the compatibility of the sex organs of sexual partners 100% the man's responsibility, when it's actually logically 50/50. The one and only bird-brained reason for this, is that no-one knows how tight your vagina is, except for the people who get to stick their dicks in there, because no-one can actually see the difference!
I'm not saying that women should get picked on because of their vagina tightness/lack of it. I'm saying that when talking about this issue between adults, those with the ability to see that 1+1 makes 2, can recognize that genital compatibility is actually a shared responsibility, and if there is a lack in that compatibility, then overcoming the issue in the bedroom is also a shared responsibility.
It's probably nice having a big one compared to having a small or even an average one. Not meaning a huge one, like the ones in porn, that definitely comes with it's own problems, but a relatively big one. If for no other reason, then for the self-confidence it brings. However, that hardly matters if the rest of your life is fucked. Let's see, there are things such as health, intelligence, money, looks, weight, social skills that are all far more important than your penis size. Sure, i bet having a small dick sucks ass. But then again, if that's really a major issue to you, chances are you are exactly like me and never even got to use it much in the first place. In this case, you are just trying distract yourself from your real, much more complicated problems with this one.
If your life is actually okay in all other areas except when it comes to your penis size, then i have something to say that might actually be comforting to you. There are tons of men of all ages out there worrying over their penis size, many of them of average size just like you. There are much fewer women out there worrying about their vagina tightness in comparison. The conclusion? People tend to make the compatibility of the sex organs of sexual partners 100% the man's responsibility, when it's actually logically 50/50. The one and only bird-brained reason for this, is that no-one knows how tight your vagina is, except for the people who get to stick their dicks in there, because no-one can actually see the difference!
I'm not saying that women should get picked on because of their vagina tightness/lack of it. I'm saying that when talking about this issue between adults, those with the ability to see that 1+1 makes 2, can recognize that genital compatibility is actually a shared responsibility, and if there is a lack in that compatibility, then overcoming the issue in the bedroom is also a shared responsibility.
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I'm sorry that it makes you insecure. Some things are sadly determined at birth.
It doesn't feel great to not be able to fit in with with the ideals. It's hard to even insecurities because it's oftentimes treated like a joke, but it's not a joke for some people.
I know I can say the old will love you for your personality stuff. But sadly, no matter what other people say, it can be hard to believe it.
It really does effect self esteem, to the point where some guys really worry about it. Dealing with these feelings is difficult when anytime it is brought up, It's most likely to be met with many small pens jokes.
It doesn't feel great to not be able to fit in with with the ideals. It's hard to even insecurities because it's oftentimes treated like a joke, but it's not a joke for some people.
I know I can say the old will love you for your personality stuff. But sadly, no matter what other people say, it can be hard to believe it.
It really does effect self esteem, to the point where some guys really worry about it. Dealing with these feelings is difficult when anytime it is brought up, It's most likely to be met with many small pens jokes.
Angst Filled Fuck Up
Visionary
- Sep 9, 2018
- 2,916
I wish I could donate some of my beast to those in need. My dick's so heavy it's caused a drop in my city's elevation over the past few years.
Dr Iron Arc
Into the Unknown
- Feb 10, 2020
- 20,697
You think having an average dick is bad, try having a micropenis on for size. 
Once people find out, it becomes the only thing they can attribute all of your negative behavior to. All of your struggles become invalidated by "smol PP". I've already ascended past the phase of being too bothered by it though so now I'm just upfront about that detail of mine so that people don't get the wrong idea that I'm not freakishly inferior to most other men.
Once people find out, it becomes the only thing they can attribute all of your negative behavior to. All of your struggles become invalidated by "smol PP". I've already ascended past the phase of being too bothered by it though so now I'm just upfront about that detail of mine so that people don't get the wrong idea that I'm not freakishly inferior to most other men.
motel rooms
Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
- Apr 13, 2021
- 7,086
Heavy =/= long, people! This freak's wiener is grotesquely fat & short. I was hugely disappointed, but I gave him a reach-around anyway.
https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/having-a-big-penis-is-equivalent-to-have-1-trillion-dollars.76261/
liberty_222
psychotic
- Nov 28, 2021
- 361
I'm sure it's fine, I went through life thinking if you didn't have black pornstar size dicks the size of arms then you were useless as a man plus society and tv didn't help matters either. So I held off on sex till I was 25. I made my ex squirt pretty much every time, that and I have a good head game as well. I thought it was a fluke but subsequent lovers I've had always came and always claimed they were sore after. Tip though, not every woman is the same, just ask what she likes and everything else is cream cheese.
whatevs
Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
- Jan 15, 2022
- 2,914
I wish I had never destroyed my sexuality trying to get a bigger dick. Trust me that there are worse things than having an average or small dick. Ejaculatory anhedonia is one of them.
Of course, it still sucks, but if you think about it things can always be worse, much worse. We are better off appreciating what we have than coveting what will never be achievable.
Of course, it still sucks, but if you think about it things can always be worse, much worse. We are better off appreciating what we have than coveting what will never be achievable.
I agree, having a small sick sucks and as a gay man, I have guys actibely reject me for that. It DOES make me less desirable.
I am also upset about the fact that i have some form of erectile dysfunction, probably due to anxiety, that makes the act of having sex extremely difficult if not impossible for me.
I also cum extremely quickly and therefore don't last long in bed if my penis is stimulated much.
I am also upset about the fact that i have some form of erectile dysfunction, probably due to anxiety, that makes the act of having sex extremely difficult if not impossible for me.
I also cum extremely quickly and therefore don't last long in bed if my penis is stimulated much.
Weebster
Everyone is alone. Everyone is empty.
- Mar 11, 2022
- 1,683
"My dick is like super size.
Your dick is like two fries.
My dick is like an M16.
Your dick, broken vending machine."
Your dick is like two fries.
My dick is like an M16.
Your dick, broken vending machine."
ojinzo
Specialist
- Feb 21, 2022
- 304
again_noidea
Experienced
- Apr 22, 2021
- 254
you know that vaginas differ like penises, so some vaginas are made for small dicks and some are made for big ones... you just need to find someone that fits
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