schopenh
Specialist
- Oct 21, 2019
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I guess when I write a post here I'm just wanting to leave behind some record of the individual ideas/behaviours of a person going through suicidal ideation and planning. I definitely don't think this needs sympathy or anything. It's just curious how the brain works.
Throughout most my life I was always considered very conventionally handsome. I liked the person I saw in the mirror as well and never suffered any dismorphia or anything. So it was a good situation for me in that regard. If it's vanity by definition then sure, I don't mind. I was happy with how I looked and I think most others were lol
Then I got hit with very debilitating pain three years ago. I was bed bound for ten months. Then after an operation; housebound (but I could sit and stand again with normal tolerance). I was left with unceasing neuropathic pain. Recovering wasn't happening so I tried oral corticosteroids. They didn't help and I gained a lot of weight, plus I was losing all of the muscle mass I had, which was a decent amount as I worked out and exercised a lot prior to the illness.
I still looked not too bad last summer but by March this year I was looking pretty garbage. Not just weight gain but also moon face from the steroids.
I had been planning my exit long before this, however. But the plan really became solidified this year. But I really didn't want to be found looking like this :-/ I genuinely want to look good in the casket/for the wake. And I also want to stick around for 1-2 final months of me looking good again so I'm remembered that way by my friends and family.
With that said I've already lost 10kg and a lot of the moon face has gone down. Since I can't exercise it's just been calorie cutting, which is very difficult as food is one of the few things I can get some relative enjoyment out of. I'd say if I lost another 3-4kg I'd be looking pretty good again. Although nothing like three years ago.
So there you go. My survival instinct has manifested as a drive to get 'attractive' again.
Why did I write this ? I don't know. I can't express these thoughts literally anywhere else. Maybe somebody enjoyed reading it. Have a nice day.
Throughout most my life I was always considered very conventionally handsome. I liked the person I saw in the mirror as well and never suffered any dismorphia or anything. So it was a good situation for me in that regard. If it's vanity by definition then sure, I don't mind. I was happy with how I looked and I think most others were lol
Then I got hit with very debilitating pain three years ago. I was bed bound for ten months. Then after an operation; housebound (but I could sit and stand again with normal tolerance). I was left with unceasing neuropathic pain. Recovering wasn't happening so I tried oral corticosteroids. They didn't help and I gained a lot of weight, plus I was losing all of the muscle mass I had, which was a decent amount as I worked out and exercised a lot prior to the illness.
I still looked not too bad last summer but by March this year I was looking pretty garbage. Not just weight gain but also moon face from the steroids.
I had been planning my exit long before this, however. But the plan really became solidified this year. But I really didn't want to be found looking like this :-/ I genuinely want to look good in the casket/for the wake. And I also want to stick around for 1-2 final months of me looking good again so I'm remembered that way by my friends and family.
With that said I've already lost 10kg and a lot of the moon face has gone down. Since I can't exercise it's just been calorie cutting, which is very difficult as food is one of the few things I can get some relative enjoyment out of. I'd say if I lost another 3-4kg I'd be looking pretty good again. Although nothing like three years ago.
So there you go. My survival instinct has manifested as a drive to get 'attractive' again.
Why did I write this ? I don't know. I can't express these thoughts literally anywhere else. Maybe somebody enjoyed reading it. Have a nice day.