Help I need online BPD friends becsuse no one understands the pain

[elzo5678]

Please just message me, I have no one in my life who understands this hell which is BPD and its completely tearing me apart.

 

[Water-Lily]

I have BPD. I know the torutre and the pain that comes with it. One minute I can feel high on air, and then the next little mistake or situation makes me want to stab myself. How I crave to get close to people and have everyone be my best friend, and then being afraid of being hurt. How my childhood trauma left me broken and I feel nobody will like me. that after so much abuse by so many people suicide has become my crutch

 

[WornOutLife]

Not BPD but I suffer from bipolar disorder. If you're interested in talking, my inbox is always open! =)

 

[idontevenknowanymore]

Not officially diagnosed yet but psychiatrist wants to run tests bc they think it's BPD. Message me if you want :)

 

[Outofhope]

Can I ask what you guys have done to try make things better. I know it's easier said than done. Person I love the most in the world has BPD. I can't understand his feelings or even know what to suggest.

 

[paininme]

I have bpd (diagnosed 7 years ago) and always willing to talk if you need

 

[loopylou]

I have BPD

 

[elzo5678]

I have BPD. I know the torutre and the pain that comes with it. One minute I can feel high on air, and then the next little mistake or situation makes me want to stab myself. How I crave to get close to people and have everyone be my best friend, and then being afraid of being hurt. How my childhood trauma left me broken and I feel nobody will like me. that after so much abuse by so many people suicide has become my crutch

I relate to this SO HARD right now. I have this craving for a romantic relationship so I try to date but just end up getting super triggered and having wild emotional meltdowns and hurting myself and others, I feel so guilty. It's the main reason I feel suicidal right now. The pain is too much to handle and no one in my life understands.

Can I ask what you guys have done to try make things better. I know it's easier said than done. Person I love the most in the world has BPD. I can't understand his feelings or even know what to suggest.

I dont know :((( Anything can set us off and cause a huge meltdown. I wish I could help its just so hard to explain and often people with BPD are in a chronic state of dissocation and nothing even feels real. It's the most painful thing ive ever gone through in my life.

 

[loopylou]

Can I ask what you guys have done to try make things better. I know it's easier said than done. Person I love the most in the world has BPD. I can't understand his feelings or even know what to suggest.

I have been on mood stabilisers for a very long time and had therapy. Never been in a good enough place to do CBT however

 

[naiad]

I have bpd. Feel free to text me anytime

 

[rosequartzbunny]

Please just message me, I have no one in my life who understands this hell which is BPD and its completely tearing me apart.

I have possible bpd and could rlly use some friends !!!

 

[Exit-Life]

Yeah, I have BPD too. Life is hell and I have no friends. You can send me a message anytime.

 

[milk is sweet]

Text me if you want

 

[EmmaD]

Hello! I have bpd x

 

[UtopianElephant]

Hi OP, I've read from a reputable source online some time ago that Dialectical Behavior Therapy has shown to be quite effective for BPD. Unless you have an excellent cbt method and are completely set on it, please consider reaching out to either people familiar with BPD and dialectical therapy, or two therapy, if it is free or affordable.

 

[CTB Fella]

I have EUPD, and believe me, it is the most stigmatised mental health diagnosis you can get.

We are literally demonised, refused help, and treated like filth.

 

[vaguebluur]

Please just message me, I have no one in my life who understands this hell which is BPD and its completely tearing me apart.

i have bpd, d.i.d and cptsd feel free to dm me

 

[hyzenthlay96]

Bpd/cptsd/schizo here. Inbox always open