I met this crazy person online and now I can't get over him

[heretogethelp]

He broke my heart :(

 

[DarkNearDeath]

Get used to it. It's only the beginning.

 

[WornOutLife]

Sh*t happens.
People (IRL or virtually) will break your heart and you will sometimes break theirs. It's the way love and life work.

Just try to find a hobby so as not to think so much about him.

Hugs,

Matt

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Sorry to hear that. I'd offer advice but I don't have any since I went through something similar. It's almost impossible to get any real closure when your heart gets broken online. I've already succumbed to the heartbreak and become resigned to the fact it will kill me.

 

[DarkNearDeath]

Sh*t happens.
People (IRL or virtually) will break your heart and you will sometimes break theirs. It's the way love and life work.

Just try to find a hobby so as not to think so much about him.

Hugs,

Matt

It's still hard even with a hobby. If you want an advice, "acceptance" is the only one that works. It'll still hurt but it is what it is.

 

[heretogethelp]

Sh*t happens.
People (IRL or virtually) will break your heart and you will sometimes break theirs. It's the way love and life work.

Just try to find a hobby so as not to think so much about him.

Hugs,

Matt

i can't even watch the Tv show, You, or watch american psycho as he would go on about these things. They remind me of him.

 

[Bat 17]

You describe him as a crazy person what do you mean?

 

[heretogethelp]

You describe him as a crazy person what do you mean?

He would praise the taliban, go on about neo-nazi's, was obsessed with edgy movies and hitler

 

[Bat 17]

He would praise the taliban, go on about neo-nazi's, was obsessed with edgy movies and hitler

Hmmmm, I don't know you my dear but I think you can do better than that. You sound like you have a good heart

 

[heretogethelp]

Hmmmm, I don't know you my dear but I think you can do better than that. You sound like you have a good heart

thanks so much, he scared the sh-- out of me. But, he was interesting to talk to as he was so eccentric.

 

[Bat 17]

thanks so much, he scared the sh-- out of me. But, he was interesting to talk to as he was so eccentric.

Yes I can see it's off the wall, but Taliban is a monstrous organisation and neo-Nazis are brain dead and pathetic

I immersed myself in Nazi culture many years ago when I studied history and there are interesting aspects, but being obsessed with Hitler is a bit of a red flag

 

[heretogethelp]

Yes I can see it's off the wall, but Taliban is a monstrous organisation and neo-Nazis are brain dead and pathetic

I immersed myself in Nazi culture many years ago when I studied history and there are interesting aspects, but being obsessed with Hitler is a bit of a red flag

It's just that the heartbreak is hard to get over & i have frequent flashbacks about him. Life hurts, but at least i have the supportive community on SS.

 

[Bat 17]

It's just that the heartbreak is hard to get over & i have frequent flashbacks about him. Life hurts, but at least i have the supportive community on SS.

Yes I absolutely hate heartbreak and am pretty rubbish at getting over people myself. You are sensible to avoid anything that reminds you of him, immerse yourself in other things and take support here. I hope you find someone more deserving of a nice girl like you

 

[heretogethelp]

Yes I absolutely hate heartbreak and am pretty rubbish at getting over people myself. You are sensible to avoid anything that reminds you of him, immerse yourself in other things and take support here. I hope you find someone more deserving of a nice girl like you

Thanks so much, I probably will remain single though. This is as I don't want to get married & have kids :(

 

[Bat 17]

Thanks so much, I probably will remain single though. This is as I don't want to get married & have kids :(

We can work with that. And you can always change your mind later if you like

The Taliban would force you to get married and have kids, so you are better off without them in your life !