Venting I just hurt myself for the first time. I’m scared.

[flowersofthesoul]

I've never really self harmed before. Tonight, someone who I thought was my friend triggered me. He triggered me so bad I scratched my arm until it was red and swollen.

I've calmed down, but I'm looking at the damage I've done and I'm scared. I thought I was above this, but here I am.

 

[white_car]

Well obviously they're not a friend.

Managing to actually catch the bus is one thing (we're all considering it here, and it's a thing that actually ends the suffering), but hurting one's self should be avoided at all costs!

So OK, it did happen this one time, but make sure to not do it ever again. Ever.

Just makes things uglier! Zero benefit!

 

[Dot]

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[avalokitesvara]

Well obviously they're not a friend.

Managing to actually catch the bus is one thing (we're all considering it here, and it's a thing that actually ends the suffering), but hurting one's self should be avoided at all costs!

So OK, it did happen this one time, but make sure to not do it ever again. Ever.

Just makes things uglier! Zero benefit!

It's also OK if you do it again. I think expressing your pain is fine to do however you want to. What we do doesn't always have to be beneficial or useful. This person may not understand about self harm and therefore has a judgemental tone. You are OK and you will be OK even though you hurt yourself. I'm sorry you were in such distress.

 

[Dot]

Well obviously they're not a friend.

Managing to actually catch the bus is one thing (we're all considering it here, and it's a thing that actually ends the suffering), but hurting one's self should be avoided at all costs!

Tru bt if choic = betwn SH & ctb thn SH = temprry & recovrble

Agree tht = gd 2 b avoidng if pssble tho & hpeflly rsourcs abve cn hlp in dffclt momnts

 

[white_car]

Wasn't judging.

I understand that I don't understand. I also understand that one has to be in a very bad place to self harm.

But to me, catching the bus while more scary and irreversible, does at least bring an end to all suffering, while hurting your self just makes things, well more painful.

Also, expressing literally means "to put outside". This is more like "impressing". Meaning adding more pain *inside* one's self.