have a habit with not "appreciating" someone's existence UNTIL they die.
which then they will use that opportunity to bond with eachother and gain things from one another (FOR SOME FUCKING REASON), NOT ALL PEOPLE but too many.
What is the % of grieving parents that talk about the CHILD's grief and suffering and not about their own, what's the % of parents that talk about the ways they could have helped their child cope and not how they themselves cope now that the child is gone.
don't want to start any debate so I'll leave it here. most people have self interest, pleasure and ego in mind even in the darkest of moments, I can mention a couple of industries to prove this specific point...but again, I don't want to start anything so I'll leave it here.