sadcherrygirl
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- Jul 25, 2024
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I have literally 3 friends and one is my boyfriend. my boyfriend is going through a lot of stuff currently in his personal life and just hasn't been able to be the sweet caring guy he usually is. that sounds extremely selfish but i've been trying to help him none stop and it just doesn't work. i just want him to be okay, i love him so much. recently i went on a trip with my family which they agreed to pay for but i think it would be selfish if i just killed my self right after coming back from a trip. my best friend whom i saw as my platonic soulmate recently decided to cut me off. about a year ago, i cut her off because i couldn't deal with her toxic ness anymore. she would criticize me and i just thought i would be best without her. in about november we got back in touch. we got close again and she turned me to the dark side. i was doing the hardest drugs imaginable and i was just not okay. i didn't know who i was, i completely lost myself. all while going through the biggest heart break of my life so i used getting into back to back relationships as well as drugs and alcohol as a way to cope. that worked until my parents found out and started criticizing me and just attacking me not realizing it was a cry for help. i just needed to be loved. i then got with my recent boyfriend and things just got better, i've been sober and happier. now it's just bad again without my best friend. i miss her so much i have to idea what i did to her. i was there for her she was raped, always cared and never left her side. now i have a few friends and my new so called best friend is always flirting with my boyfriend and i don't know what to do about that. i hate it because before him and i were together he liked her. i'm miserable and don't have anybody to talk to. i just want everything to go back to normal.