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mapletree
Student
- Aug 22, 2020
- 199
I feel like the longer I put this off, the worse it's going to be. Over time steadily the people I have known even casually have fallen away like leaves, and as my social circle contracts the few people remaining become tired of the bullshit and I can't totally blame them. It's hard to describe, it's like a terminal illness but socially, for you as a person interacting with the world, and once you go past a certain point you can't come back from it, it's a positive feedback loop to complete isolation and I'm terrified if I keep waiting I'm going to lose my last few family members (small family to begin with) as well. I'm trying to juggle studying and researching things and trying and failing to procure things and the mental strain of my brain folding in on itself and the panic setting in that this is it, things are spiraling down, I need to find the emotional maturity to do it before I ruin other people's lives and or die alone in terror rather than with a few people left who remember me as a person and not an obnoxious malignant bloated miserable cow of a person.
Basically I have a feeling of impending doom that never goes away- like the moment before you're getting called into a supervisors office and you know you're going to get written up and you're just waiting with that sinking feeling, or right before you get horrible news but it's also news that carries some kind of social consequences...but the feeling is there 24/7. I don't have the option to leave. The panic, the finality of being in my 30s and being alone, never had any meaningful relationships, never had a long term dating thing, don't really have friends, barely have acquaintances, and now I'm staring down the barrel of a resurgent hardcore social reactionary movement blossoming that is going to kill women like me in ways that are neither dignified nor peaceful. I'm in physical pain every day. Im exhausted. I want an out. Every time the sun goes down and another day goes by I feel like the clock is ticking. It's like being buried alive
welp thanks for listening
Basically I have a feeling of impending doom that never goes away- like the moment before you're getting called into a supervisors office and you know you're going to get written up and you're just waiting with that sinking feeling, or right before you get horrible news but it's also news that carries some kind of social consequences...but the feeling is there 24/7. I don't have the option to leave. The panic, the finality of being in my 30s and being alone, never had any meaningful relationships, never had a long term dating thing, don't really have friends, barely have acquaintances, and now I'm staring down the barrel of a resurgent hardcore social reactionary movement blossoming that is going to kill women like me in ways that are neither dignified nor peaceful. I'm in physical pain every day. Im exhausted. I want an out. Every time the sun goes down and another day goes by I feel like the clock is ticking. It's like being buried alive
welp thanks for listening