Well, you could get all that but I read your previous thread and I know it's very difficult to do things when the past mistakes don't allow you to do so.
Anyway, if you get the strength to fight, here's some tips:
MONEY:
Money is the easiest to get. You won't be a millonaire but you could teach something online, type captchas or fill surveys. I have a friend who makes a living for him and his family just by completing surveys online.
GIRLS:
There are many different types of girls. Some will like you, some won't. You've probably just been unlucky. If you look for her, you'll find her sooner or later.
FRIENDS:
You can get them anywhere, even on SS! I've made some friends here!
FAMILY:
This one is hard. There's nothing to do but your friends sometimes become your family.
NOTHING BRINGS YOU JOY:
You gotta find that too. I thought the same but I realized alcohol and learning languages bring me lots of joy.
Anyway, I hope you can feel better.
Hugs and love,
Matt