Friend_A
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- Oct 28, 2020
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i already have things i am good at but it all dont matter. thanks anwWe are all failures in our own way and I'm not just talking about the people on this forum. Life itself is a guaranteed failure: 'un échec' as Sartre put it. No matter what we do death will wipe it out.
Don't beat yourself up over something that isn't worth it. Find something you're good at and I guarantee you won't fail. Don't try to live up to others' standards: they usually suck and haven't got a clue. Choose your own values and create your own meaning (however small) and you'll be worth more than all of them combined.
Life always involves failure, pain and difficulties. Once you realize this you probably won't care so much anymore. Which is a good thing imo. I hated being oversensitive because I cared too much and felt too deeply. Growing older helps too.
^This.I don't cry but I get really depressed about it and anxious about my future.