Venting I cannot stand it when people push unsolicited “advice” onto suicidal people

[FuneralCry]

It's just so condescending to me, I cannot stand pro-lifers with their toxic positivity who worship existence so much to the point that they like to insensitively push this onto other people when it wasn't even asked for.
I even see this on here often as so many people seem to be incapable of understanding what the word "venting" means and use this place to push their unsolicited toxic positivity and interrogate the person, treating them like they cannot make decisions for themselves on what is supposed to be a safe space to vent rather than a you need help forum.
I don't get why so many people automatically assume that their so called advice is even wanted, people with the obsession with pushing "help" and see other people's suffering as something to be prolonged will always come across as blinded by delusions to me.

I just despise the whole absurd idea that suicide is a terrible thing that must be prevented, I'm never able to understand the people who want to push someone to endure this futile and harmful existence so badly, trying to stop them from finding permanent freedom from their suffering.
Wanting suicide is all that feels rational to me, I don't believe that existence was something worth enduring or desirable in the first place, all that appeals to me is a dreamless eternal sleep.

 

[Deleted User#81194]

Right, that's why we can always count on you to shut down any pro-lifer

 

[ConstantPain]

I couldn't agree more about wanting to die being the one rational thought. I'm glad some people actually love life but can't begin to understand how they are logical or realistic. Their uninvited pep talks are hollow and based in some imaginary world.
I don't walk into churches and declare that it's made up or walk around saying that life sucks. I respect other people's rights and beliefs and only want the same.

 

[MBG]

All some people do is talk ("vent"). Look at how long they've been a member and the number of posts they've made to avoid members who just like whining. Do this by clicking on their username and clicking "Ignore." I recommend others do the same. It makes life easier & more pleasant. :)

 

[Jan1193]

I understand it. Personally, I hate ANY KIND/ALL advices that I haven't ask from any kind of people. I hate when people tell me what to do, I'm not ok with authority. I've decided to not talk with my family, my neighborhood and the disgusting people of my city from nothing at all, just answer questions like a robot and then f*cking go. No one understand my depression, neither yet my suicidal throughts. My boyfriend understand and support me, but he live so far away from me and I don't want to hurt him more, so... I feel completely trapped, and f*ked. Sometimes I have hope to go out with my love and forget all from here, but I suposs that the death would be easier after all. I feel so tired too

 

[haibane]

Fr, people are talking to me like they can understand how i feel. Nah u cant, nobody can actually. Feeling completely empty is something we can't understand before living it

 

[R_N]

I try to comfort people when I can and if I had similar experiences I also offer advice on how they could make their existence less painful. I don't see anything wrong with this, after all if someone wants an echo chamber and only certain types of replies they can ignore people.

Life is hard as it is, I don't think trying to cheer someone up a little is that "evil". Even here.

That is my take and I am ok with others having their own.

 

[tfnb]

I think advice is fine, pushing agendas is a no no. If you're pro life this is a weird place to be a member