I am like @DeathWish77 as I had beyond horrible "parents". There is plenty of postings here with the info about them. Now I am 65, much to the displeasure of a few here, and even though both have died, I still have a HUGE hole in my heart because of both of them. Now with that said, if you have parents who are great and loving and you love them, WOW !!, which is GREAT!!, then to ctb , I hate to say, would be down on my list of things to either do and/or contemplate doing. I have no family and no friends and if I had parents that i loved and adored there is no way that I could see myself doing anything of said nature. Always plenty of time after they are gone it is NOT something (ctb) that is going anywhere. Walter