Venting I am obsessed with women

[Busticket]

Eversince puberty (I am now 29) all I can think or care about is women and wanting to f them.
Literally nothing else in this world matters to me.
I used to have an interest in video games and sports teams as a kid, now I don't give a damn about it.
The problem is am very shy with women so I never had a gf.

 

[Rayzieka]

When I'm nervous around someone I like I try to remember that if they feel the same about me then they're probably just as nervous. They're just humans too so no need to be so shy.

 

[S like suicide]

I honestly can't believe there isn't a woman in the world for you!
I mean you are a 29 year old boy, you are at your full potential ... do you know how many girls are looking for a boy like you?
I can't believe nobody wants you ... the world is full of girls...that are you looking exactly for a boy like you!!!

 

[lovelyheartz]

Maybe get off porn. I'm a massive hypocrite for giving that advice because I still watch porn. But, in my experience, porn kind of destroys the ability to see others as human beings.

Sex usually only brings temporary relief from the pain though.

 

[Busticket]

Maybe get off porn. I'm a massive hypocrite for giving that advice because I still watch porn. But, in my experience, porn kind of destroys the ability to see others as human beings.

Sex usually only brings temporary relief from the pain though.

From tomorrow I am going to start the nofap.
No porn and no masturbation.

 

[lovelyheartz]

From tomorrow I am going to start the nofap.
No porn and no masturbation.

Good luck.

 

[MountKecske]

Eversince puberty (I am now 29) all I can think or care about is women and wanting to f them.
Literally nothing else in this world matters to me.
I used to have an interest in video games and sports teams as a kid, now I don't give a damn about it.
The problem is am very shy with women so I never had a gf.

Eversince puberty (I am now 29) all I can think or care about is women and wanting to f them.
Literally nothing else in this world matters to me.
I used to have an interest in video games and sports teams as a kid, now I don't give a damn about it.
The problem is am very shy with women so I never had a gf.

"Care" about women and wanting to "f" them in the same sentence. I think this is where your problem lies.

 

[QueenShrike]

I didn't know this was an incel forum now...

For real though, a change in outlook might help. Focusing on yourself and finding hobbies/communities, outside of the internet especially, will help you find a lot in meeting new people, including women, who might be attracted to you. You'll probably find yourself a lot happier in general even if it doesn't get you laid quickly.

 

[Marktheghost]

Forget about wanting to f them, and think of them as potential friends.

Not that trying to get to know women as friends is working for me though. :-(

 

[hʚll]

i think that's a degrading way to see another person. i hope you will be able to overcome that and maybe realize the darkness behind it (?)

 

[ClairyFairy]

Eversince puberty (I am now 29) all I can think or care about is women and wanting to f them.
Literally nothing else in this world matters to me.
I used to have an interest in video games and sports teams as a kid, now I don't give a damn about it.
The problem is am very shy with women so I never had a gf.

I'm the exact same. I've had to hide it all my life. Makes f ing someone tricky

 

[ShellofmyFormerSelf]

As someone who's AFAB, I think maybe half of your problem comes from the fact you haven't been in a relationship before. I'm 22 and only lost my v-card this year, but it's taken away my obsession over sex. Your mind just needs to be readjusted. Have you tried finding someone before? It would help if you try and control your urges though, as it can cause women to feel uncomfortable around you. They don't want to be objectified and hearing that a guy only wants to, y'know, makes it harder to have an emotional connection.

 

[All Things Must Pass]

From tomorrow I am going to start the nofap.
No porn and no masturbation.

How about you stop making excuses and start NOW?

 

[Superdeterminist]

Bro, I feel that. For me it's not women generally, but one woman. I always get obsessed with one specific woman and then just obsess about her for who knows how long. Seemingly, it has always been the thing that has given me the best feeling, the most excitement and motivation for life, but it has never gone anywhere (lol). I've found it to really be a double-edged sword, because it's been both a source of happiness, but also unhappiness.

 

[Meditation guide]

I can't imagine being obsessed with something you are not even able to interact with. You have my sympathy.

 

[SosoruzeDosukoi]

Stopping porn really helps, man. I think I posted the easy peasy method in another one of your threads. Highly recommend it.

 

[Meditation guide]

there was some guy who used to go driving around holding up a sign when stopped in traffic to girls in other cars that said WANT TO FUCK? PULL OVER.

so yeh, stopping porn is a first step.

 

[Busticket]

I can't imagine being obsessed with something you are not even able to interact with. You have my sympathy.

It's a...mental and physical TORTURE.