amarillo
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- Jan 30, 2021
- 76
My time is supposed to come very soon. Everything is in order, just waiting for the right circumstances. I'm all ready. Except maybe I'm not?
Last night I had dinner with my friends for the last time. It was really nice, nicer than it has been in ages. I actually had fun, and I feel like I was able to add value for them as well. It's probably just the fact that I knew it was the last time and that I had to make the most of it that made me able to leave behind my struggles for the night, but then my brain started telling me that maybe I still have it in me. To be a friend to others, to experience joy, to be a functioning member of society. Rationally, I think that's bullshit and I hate that my mind is telling me these things because what if it stops me from going through with it and will bring me right back to the eternal state of limbo between death and actually living? It's happened to me before and nothing actually improved in my life (despite me really trying) and I'm too tired to go through that again.
I know you can't tell me what to do and I'm not asking you to, but I just need to get out of my head and figure out if this is just the SI talking. Perhaps you may have an idea on just the general question of how to distinguish between SI and real doubt. I appreciate any of you reading this and/or responding, thanks!
Last night I had dinner with my friends for the last time. It was really nice, nicer than it has been in ages. I actually had fun, and I feel like I was able to add value for them as well. It's probably just the fact that I knew it was the last time and that I had to make the most of it that made me able to leave behind my struggles for the night, but then my brain started telling me that maybe I still have it in me. To be a friend to others, to experience joy, to be a functioning member of society. Rationally, I think that's bullshit and I hate that my mind is telling me these things because what if it stops me from going through with it and will bring me right back to the eternal state of limbo between death and actually living? It's happened to me before and nothing actually improved in my life (despite me really trying) and I'm too tired to go through that again.
I know you can't tell me what to do and I'm not asking you to, but I just need to get out of my head and figure out if this is just the SI talking. Perhaps you may have an idea on just the general question of how to distinguish between SI and real doubt. I appreciate any of you reading this and/or responding, thanks!