Are you in a relationship?

  • Yes

    Votes: 15 21.4%
  • No

    Votes: 46 65.7%
  • It's complicated

    Votes: 9 12.9%

  • Total voters
    70
Valon

Valon

Member
Sep 14, 2020
70
Whether it be marriage or just a long term girlfriend/boyfriend.

I've been in a relationship for 5 years and tbh it's only fueled my drive to ctb, so I don't think one person alone can save you from suicide. The girl I'm with has cheated on me (maybe multiple times) and seems to be more interested in Instagram and makeup. I'm only with her because she manipulates me into staying. What a nightmare.
 
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Squiddy

Squiddy

Here Lies My Hopes And Dreams
Sep 4, 2019
5,903
I've been given chances, but I just didn't really meet anybody I truly liked and I'm beginning to think maybe a relationship isn't for me. At least not yet or ever because I really want to ctb at times
 
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Brick In The Wall

Brick In The Wall

2M Or Not 2B.
Oct 30, 2019
25,158
The survey answered alot of this. But I'd guess atleast 1/3rd. This is the most diverse community you'll find.
 
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checkouttime

Visionary
Jul 15, 2020
2,904
only relationship i want is with the angel of death, or some french kissing with a bottle of N!

I'm not anti women, just i wouldn't want to get into a relationship because of how i feel etc. i don't think it would be fair on someone, but i'm not judging others that might want to do this
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
20,726
I don't have a girlfriend right now, never have before, and probably never will in the future as much as I'd want one. :ahhha:
 
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VIBRITANNIA

VIBRITANNIA

lelouch. any pronouns. pfp is by pixiv id 3217872.
Aug 10, 2020
1,156
i want a relationship (or to feel love and to feel loved again, i should say), but i'm not ready for one. i can't deal with my problems - i don't want to end up forcing my problems onto my significant other or only talk to them when i'm feeling upset.
 
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Mr2005

Mr2005

Don't shoot the messenger, give me the gun
Sep 25, 2018
3,622
Barely. It's complicated was just made for me. 1 vote
 
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nitroautnz

nitroautnz

Specialist
Sep 11, 2020
361
Not anymore, but i was for 4years. Best time of my life. If she decided to stay with me i probably won't be here. But I don't blame her, i would be in a relationship with myself, im not a monster but my issue do cause hardship and problems on a relationship level.
 
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BitterlyAlive

BitterlyAlive

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Apr 8, 2020
1,635
@Valon, I'm really sorry you're in such a tough spot. I was only ever in one relationship and it was...not good. My ex manipulated me a lot as well. I'm too afraid to be in another relationship.
 
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Forgotten

Forgotten

Student
Aug 19, 2020
129
Nope. I'm so mentally broken that I don't think I could handle a relationship by this point anyway. I would just end up making the other person miserable.
 
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Shinkansen

Shinkansen

life is pain
Jul 14, 2020
615
I've never been in a relationship.
 
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singsreignrebuilder

singsreignrebuilder

Member
Mar 3, 2020
24
I'm not currently, but I've been in one for over a year, and that neither kept me from nor drove me towards wanting to catch the bus I think.
 
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GrumpyFrog

GrumpyFrog

Exhausted
Aug 23, 2020
1,913
I've been in relationship twice before. Both relationships were relatively long term (4.5 and 1.5 years) and ended very amicably and peacefully with an admission that I am too messed up in the head to be in a relationship and am not "fixable", so it's best to just let the other person go. As of today, I've been single for 2 years and I do not intend to give relationship a chance ever again.
 
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JustLosingMyself

Mage
Sep 4, 2018
544
Married 20 years
 
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Lilacmoon

Lilacmoon

Beautiful moon, take me away.
Sep 23, 2020
1,308
3 years. I don't want to hurt her, but she deserves better.
 

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