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LittleJem

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this woman is still friends with my friends, and whenever I see her posts it jolts me, as she decided not to invite me to her wedding because I am so ill with depression. Even though we had been friends for 15 years, and when her dad had cancer I was someone she called up to lean on.

I really think good riddance to her, but I would like to never see anything to do with her ever again - including when she posts on friends pages. Is there a way anyone knows how to do that?
 
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Jean4

Jean4

Remember. I am ALWAYS right.... until I’m not
Apr 28, 2019
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If you completely block a person, anything affiliated with the person you won't be able to see.
 
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LittleJem

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Jul 3, 2019
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If you completely block a person, anything affiliated with the person you won't be able to see.

Great. I really thought I had, but I will try again.
 
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faust

faust

lost among the stars
Jan 26, 2020
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I think it would be better just to delete the person from friend list. The person may sometimes appear in your recommendations, but it won't be too painful unless you go on the page.
Wish you all the best!
 
porfin1234

porfin1234

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Dec 26, 2019
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If you don't block them you could still see their posts on mutual friends feeds if they aren't your friend so.. yea blocking would be most advised.
 
Broken Chimera

Broken Chimera

The abyss also gazes into you
May 27, 2019
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Block her, spam when necessary.
 
cant cry

cant cry

I probably won't respond if you write me
Oct 11, 2019
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Wow, she sounds so calloused and ignorant. I kinda wish people judgmental of depression would get it themselves so they could see what it's really all about.
 
departing

departing

Enlightened
Jul 5, 2019
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Blocking is probably the most reliable method... but think about how much control you're letting her have over you.
 
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Reallyreallyreally

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Jan 13, 2020
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Blocking is probably the most reliable method... but think about how much control you're letting her have over you.
Emotional pain is not "letting someone have control over you." This statement is so invalidating. There is nothing unreasonable about the way he's feeling. He feels the way he feels and is asking for input on the best way to go about what he feels will make it healthier for him. The implication of this phrase is that being unaffected is how he should feel and that he's in the wrong for the emotions he has.

You're here on a suicide forum. You can kill yourself but think about how much control you're letting the world have over you. Doesn't feel so nice, does it?
 
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ReadyToFly

ReadyToFly

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Jan 30, 2020
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I'm so sorry you're going thru that... and can't she find friends of her own? Sounds like she had issues herself if she's holding tightly to YOUR friends...Sadly that's the world we live in... people would rather IGNORE the problem than to try to be a support system for people. Not saying baby a person and do everything for them... but understanding their pain is real, and they are suffering.

My husband ruined my life which wasn't exactly sturdy to begin with but it's like Jenga.. he pulled the piece that made the tower fall... I don't even want to live it anymore idc about a divorce, annulment, justice, any of it I just want to go I hate him so much and I've never hated a human being so much in my entire life.
 

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