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hopelessanddisabled
The epitome of bad luck
- Feb 5, 2021
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This is more of a vent post than an actual question, sorry.
I need to do this for my own mental sake. Like, I just absolutely need to cut off all my friends, even partner etc. I have a chronic debilitating illness which a feature of is progressive hearing loss. As luck would have it, prior to this I was an avid music listener and musician myself, so you can tell where most of my friends/partner came from.
Then I got hit with hearing loss and pain out of nowhere. I have no friends with this shit. And I'm sure other sufferers with chronic pain and suicidality can relate to how it feels when it's like everybody has it better than you in every possible way. I realized that being friends with fucking normal people is what fuels my suicidality and obsessions and shit.
How am I supposed to tell people I want to stop being friends with them because of my condition? And my partner as well, our relationship was the best thing in the world until this and now I sincerely want to break up. I don't really feel much in terms of emotions or connections anymore. Genuinely everyone I personally know has it better than me and they're completely oblivious to it and are just unaware of how they keep routinely insulting me with their privilege.
Another thing that my friends constantly do is accidentally trigger my C-PTSD. Now I absolutely cant blame or fault them for that but it just fuels my urge to cut off everyone. They'll never fucking understand and I keep making excuses like "you don't have to understand" for their comfort instead of mine. I don't want to actually lie to people anymore, it feels very immoral, but so does cutting off people who have legitimately changed my life. I don't know what to do
I need to do this for my own mental sake. Like, I just absolutely need to cut off all my friends, even partner etc. I have a chronic debilitating illness which a feature of is progressive hearing loss. As luck would have it, prior to this I was an avid music listener and musician myself, so you can tell where most of my friends/partner came from.
Then I got hit with hearing loss and pain out of nowhere. I have no friends with this shit. And I'm sure other sufferers with chronic pain and suicidality can relate to how it feels when it's like everybody has it better than you in every possible way. I realized that being friends with fucking normal people is what fuels my suicidality and obsessions and shit.
How am I supposed to tell people I want to stop being friends with them because of my condition? And my partner as well, our relationship was the best thing in the world until this and now I sincerely want to break up. I don't really feel much in terms of emotions or connections anymore. Genuinely everyone I personally know has it better than me and they're completely oblivious to it and are just unaware of how they keep routinely insulting me with their privilege.
Another thing that my friends constantly do is accidentally trigger my C-PTSD. Now I absolutely cant blame or fault them for that but it just fuels my urge to cut off everyone. They'll never fucking understand and I keep making excuses like "you don't have to understand" for their comfort instead of mine. I don't want to actually lie to people anymore, it feels very immoral, but so does cutting off people who have legitimately changed my life. I don't know what to do
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