notuntilperfection
Member
- Apr 3, 2020
- 25
My family do not believe in cremation but i am determined to get cremated. I want to write a note but they will no doubt dismiss my wishes. Is there anyway i can make sure i'm cremated? I live in the UK.
Write it into your will and last wishesMy family do not believe in cremation but i am determined to get cremated. I want to write a note but they will no doubt dismiss my wishes. Is there anyway i can make sure i'm cremated? I live in the UK.
Since I can't edit my post or delete it I'm a bit concerned so I'm adding this. If you are a minor I suggest you try talking to your parents or a therapist about how to communicate more effectively with them. I know you may have already done this and may very well be tired of hearing it and feeling as if everyone is telling you what to do . I realize I know zero about your relationship with your parents or what it's like to be you but I also don't want to be telling a minor how to outsmart anyone either. You may not like your parents and they may very well not be good at parenting but they're probably a lot better than you think they are too. I have to give them the benefit of the doubt here. My younger sister is a horrible parent and her 20 year old daughter (my niece) died last year of overdose but her son is doing pretty well in life just being himself and enjoying life. I'm not prying but would you mind telling us how old you are ? I'm 55 so I'm ancient as far as you're concerned I'm sure! If you're under 18 you might consider giving yourself more time in life because you deserve it . When I was in high school it was horrible. I would never go through it again and , in looking back , I should have dropped out . Back then , suicide wasn't nearly as common in teenagers but I'm surprised i didn't consider it . As recently as last year I thought about suicide almost daily but somehow I seem to have leveled out and do not nearly as often for now . We all go through phases that we're not aware of often times I think. I hope some of this makes sense and doesn't tick you off!