Have you ever wanted to meet someone in person from SS?

[EyeBeyond]

Maybe for a suicide in group

 

[hikikomorizombie]

i haven't rlly been on here long enough to find 'my ppl', but there are def some users i wouldn't mind meeting :) for a hangout or mass suicide, either or's cool w me.

 

[Slow_Farewell]

meeting people crossed my mind, but i shrugged it off because..well, i might end up interviewing them and might accidentally ask something that's offensive.
Group suicide, not really considered it but would have to pass. It's just i don't trust myself enough to NOT interfere when the time comes, or I might mess it up in some way for the rest of the group.

 

[inaminute]

Mass suicides crack me up like when people seek a partner - I just couldn't trust someone enough to die with for some kind of weird predatory gratification - Jeffrey Dahmer style creepyness lol but yeah I've known someone from a former Google groups forum (ASH/ASM) for over 20 years however never met irl

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I won't mention their username but, yes, I do want to meet somebody, not to ctb but in hopes to have a chat or vent about how shitty life is. I think they're the only one who could truly understand me and temporarily make me feel less insane about everything. Though, if I had access to a peaceful method, I'd still choose to meet that same user but I'd instead give them the peaceful method, whether that be sn or n but ideally the latter. I think they deserve it more than me

 

[Lost in a Dream]

There's a few people who I would like to meet in person, but not for suicide, even though I've considered looking for a partner in the past. I'd rather get a pizza and hang out with them while we complain about all the BS in life. That would be fun to do that lol.

 

[Leavesfromthevine]

I've done it before. It's such an extreme risk that I can't say I'd do it again but definitely don't regret it. I feel that I just got lucky in meeting a person that I enjoyed being around.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Parroting my past again: in September 2020, I had a chance to meet someone who promised to be my lover and was attracted to me specifically because I was/am an incel. It turned out she miraculously only lived about 20 miles from me too. Unfortunately this was during peak pandemic lockdown measures so by the time I could arrange something she gave up on me. Her reason was that she thought I had a much more promising future than her and she was afraid I'd get too attached to her due to my INFP personality.

I don't think I'd ever want to meet anyone from SS again, not even if they were really nice and lived so close to me that it isn't inconvenient. I don't think I could handle that level of abandonment trauma again. If it somehow turned out that people I already know happened to be SS members I'd also be wary but that's only because I'd be afraid of their suicide somehow being an obstacle towards my own.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

I've met a few people from here whom I consider friends. But I've talked with them for a long time before meeting up

 

[fuzzy-clown]

Not for group suicide because it can land someone in prison, which would be worse than death. But for friends, sure.

 

[Lulzacruel]

I am not very interested on meeting up in life.
I like to keep what happens on my disks on the disks and not infect my regular life

 

[Gonnerr]

Yes 2 times , one time its me that backed out because the girl was 18 and im 44 , i thought it would be wrong be maybe i was stupid. Her name is crossed but didn't saw any goodbye thread.

The other one was a guy about my age , he said he would think about it and I respect that, i believe he is still alive.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

No

 

[Abyssal]

Yeah, some people in the chat I'd meet with if I could. Maybe a very VERY select few in the main forum. I never will though.

 

[SVEN]

Gosh, no.

 

[leavingthesoultrap]

Idk but I am definitely NOT interested in group ctb o_O

 

[soft-flower345]

Initially, aside from meeting a suicide partner, no. Though through talking to people on this site I met my now girlfriend. Had no intentions of being anything but friends, but after months of talking everyday and building a friendship together we started to develop feelings and eventually wanted to meet irl. She has brought me inarticulate closure and solace to pain I never could cease alone. We respect each others decision to ctb and have been able to provide an emotional safe place for each other I've never had in my entire life.

If you're reading this 恋人, 好きぢお.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

No, I haven't met anyone here in person yet. Most of the people I've chatted with long enough to consider a potential meeting irl have CTBed and they lived in different countries. That would've made a possible meeting even more difficult.

 

[rozeske]

I would have loved to meet the mods and spend time with. They all seem pretty cool people to hang out with. Maybe in another life :)

 

[mortuarymary]

Unsure.
If they are in Scotland want a cuppa then I would meet outdoors.
not into group suicide or partners, thank you.
I tell someone where I was going incase you are batshit crazy.

 

[trashhologram]

There are a few very amazing people I wouldn't mind having a chat with but a suicide partner? Not for me. I don't want anyone to witness my final moments, it's way too personal. But a cup of coffee and a chat? Hell yeah!

 

[cosmic_traveler]

My ideal suicide partner died when we were 18. I think most of the people on this site are pleasant and would enjoy sitting down with for a moment.

We wish you all peace.

 

[LaVieEnRose]

Some people. I'm always taken more seriously online though.

 

[UKscotty]

No, first of all we all have serious mental health issues, that's a warning already. Normal sane people don't want to CTB.

Then making friends with people either in recovery or not is a risk as they could literally CTB at any moment, been there too many times. One minute they are getting well, the next you are at their funeral.

 

[hopeless08]

Maybe for a suicide in group

Yes I did want to meet someone on here that I had built a friendship with and unfortunately I think they're gone.
Last I heard from them, they had taken SN and haven't heard anything since.
She left a big void.I truly hope she's at peace.

 

[FutureHanger]

then there's the shock of having whatever you imagine the person to look like being completely different

well you're funny and your pfp gives a sneak peak

 

[logi3535]

some people seem really neato to chat with irl in the chatrooms, not sure i'd feel comfy with a group suicide