toro
dr pepper drinker
- Feb 11, 2023
- 119
idk, looking for advice i think?
for context, im 18 years old, female (maybe), and formerly an agoraphobic with chronic anxiety which lead to me dropping out of college.
im struggling to make friends, weirdly enough, i had way more luck with friends and social life in general before i was medicated and 'stable', now that i regularly take meds and have a routine (job, sleep schedule) it feels like everyone has just abandoned me entirely and i dont know what i have done wrong? i was fucking insufferable before i was medicated, constantly spiralling and twitchy/paranoid, so i dont know why once i got my shit together, all the people in my life that werent tied to me by blood have left?
actually, once i started medication and recovery in general all my friends got really agitated with me, one of them in particular (my bestfriend) at the time seeming to be specifically pissed about the meds, they constantly mocked me for taking them and would suggest skipping out constantly despite knowing what they were for (we are IRLs and partially grew up together, so they knew my history fair enough). anyway, this all eventually culminates to the two of us drifting apart after i asked them about the constant insults/suggestions to stop taking my medication even when i wasnt around to defend myself/when they allowed and encouraged people i didnt even know to think/say the same things about/to me. i thought we had ended things on amicable terms considering we still spoke semi regularly with them initiating the conversations a lot of the time, until i see them post on twitter just straight up saying they wish id man up and kill myself already LMFAO. i just closed the app and pretended i didnt see anything because at that point my acct was basically abandoned anyways, so i assume they thought i had just uninstalled it.
i honestly couldve moved past the whole wishing id kill myself thing, at best it was just a sort of fucked up one sided joke, but then i got a message from one of the people they would get to tell me to skip out on meds and its just. my home address and threats/like.. schizo-posting stuff?? saying that they knew where i was and that they were coming and that they were already in my house. i am VERY careful about how i handle my location online, i use a VPN constantly and the only reason my IRL knew my address was because we were IRLs who grew up together, plus the person that sent me the threats quoted pretty explicitly something i had said in a private conversation with my IRL, so it progressed beyond silly kys stuff on twitter to them giving out my private info and getting people to try and set off my anxiety which feels a lot more serious and upsetting to me (i think thats pretty fair for me to feel though, lol)
im just upset, i dont understand why once i began recovering, people started pulling away?? maybe ive changed too much and not noticed it, has anyone else noticed themselves/their friends change significantly once they begin treatment? sorry for the long thread, i have noone else to talk about this with, as im sure you can assume.
bleh, whatever, TLDR: i started meds and lost all my friends, anyone else feel similar?
for context, im 18 years old, female (maybe), and formerly an agoraphobic with chronic anxiety which lead to me dropping out of college.
im struggling to make friends, weirdly enough, i had way more luck with friends and social life in general before i was medicated and 'stable', now that i regularly take meds and have a routine (job, sleep schedule) it feels like everyone has just abandoned me entirely and i dont know what i have done wrong? i was fucking insufferable before i was medicated, constantly spiralling and twitchy/paranoid, so i dont know why once i got my shit together, all the people in my life that werent tied to me by blood have left?
actually, once i started medication and recovery in general all my friends got really agitated with me, one of them in particular (my bestfriend) at the time seeming to be specifically pissed about the meds, they constantly mocked me for taking them and would suggest skipping out constantly despite knowing what they were for (we are IRLs and partially grew up together, so they knew my history fair enough). anyway, this all eventually culminates to the two of us drifting apart after i asked them about the constant insults/suggestions to stop taking my medication even when i wasnt around to defend myself/when they allowed and encouraged people i didnt even know to think/say the same things about/to me. i thought we had ended things on amicable terms considering we still spoke semi regularly with them initiating the conversations a lot of the time, until i see them post on twitter just straight up saying they wish id man up and kill myself already LMFAO. i just closed the app and pretended i didnt see anything because at that point my acct was basically abandoned anyways, so i assume they thought i had just uninstalled it.
i honestly couldve moved past the whole wishing id kill myself thing, at best it was just a sort of fucked up one sided joke, but then i got a message from one of the people they would get to tell me to skip out on meds and its just. my home address and threats/like.. schizo-posting stuff?? saying that they knew where i was and that they were coming and that they were already in my house. i am VERY careful about how i handle my location online, i use a VPN constantly and the only reason my IRL knew my address was because we were IRLs who grew up together, plus the person that sent me the threats quoted pretty explicitly something i had said in a private conversation with my IRL, so it progressed beyond silly kys stuff on twitter to them giving out my private info and getting people to try and set off my anxiety which feels a lot more serious and upsetting to me (i think thats pretty fair for me to feel though, lol)
im just upset, i dont understand why once i began recovering, people started pulling away?? maybe ive changed too much and not noticed it, has anyone else noticed themselves/their friends change significantly once they begin treatment? sorry for the long thread, i have noone else to talk about this with, as im sure you can assume.
bleh, whatever, TLDR: i started meds and lost all my friends, anyone else feel similar?