haha i'm blocked

[deadngoresurgery]

he blocked me on instagram too. before, he just removed me from followers, but now, he actually blocked me. i tried searching his user on instagram, doesnt appear. guys help, i am in a group project with him, what the fuck.

 

[TheTwelthRootOfTwo]

Blocked by whom? Sorry if I missed something but I'm confused.

 

[cookji]

Who are you talking about?

 

[deadngoresurgery]

Blocked by whom? Sorry if I missed something but I'm confused.

well, long story short, i had a "relationship" with this guy, we weren't dating because of very complicated things, but we acted like we were dating, but just recently, he cut me off and now im so fucking lost and i just wanna end it.

we hung out a lot, he took care of me and i did with him, ive tried helping him through his problems and he did too. we loved each other so much. he claims to love me and forever, but just recently, he told me that he thinks is best we don't talk anymore due to many reasons. he says he will always love me. he stopped texting me, i just found out he blocked me on instagram because i can't search up his name anywhere. im so devastated rn, i dont know what to do. he was the only one that made my life complete, that gave a shit about me, everything. it was too bad that i couldnt be good enough for him, since i ruined the relationship. he was so perfect to me, i was willing to spend my life with him, even wait for him if he ever changed his mind. i just have false hope about it now. i keep thinking he might come back, but it'll never happen. it hurts thinking he will forget about me eventually, that he will find someone else. i dont care if "i have my whole life ahead of me, i can find someone else". no, fuck that. i know he's the one. i know it. i want him, but i cant anymore. whats the point in life if you cant have the one thing that makes your life complete. and to make things worse, im in a group project with him. so we're all gonna have to talk eventually. i hate this shit so much. he told me to keep going, to keep living. i cant.

Who are you talking about?

a guy i love. i love him so much. he says he loves me too forever. i believe it, i want to. but i just dont know. he stopped talking to me recently. in the past, he's removed me from his followers. but now, he straight up just blocked me. im so fucking devastated and broken rn, i just want to end it. he made my life complete and now he's here no longer. on top of that, i am in a group project with him. it sucks.

 

[disabledlife]

He blocked you, which means you should sever ties with this person and abandon this project, which isn't going anywhere anyway. An honest person wouldn't ghost you like that, especially not in the middle of a project with the person they've blocked.

I just find it a shame that it's not possible to reciprocally block someone who's blocked you to prevent them from unblocking you in turn, for example, to harass you. This reciprocity would have been just karma.

Since Instagram is part of Meta, this doesn't surprise me. Everything that belongs to Meta (formerly Facebook) disgusts me and is especially dangerous for mental health.

 

[TheTwelthRootOfTwo]

well, long story short, i had a "relationship" with this guy, we weren't dating because of very complicated things, but we acted like we were dating, but just recently, he cut me off and now im so fucking lost and i just wanna end it.

we hung out a lot, he took care of me and i did with him, ive tried helping him through his problems and he did too. we loved each other so much. he claims to love me and forever, but just recently, he told me that he thinks is best we don't talk anymore due to many reasons. he says he will always love me. he stopped texting me, i just found out he blocked me on instagram because i can't search up his name anywhere. im so devastated rn, i dont know what to do. he was the only one that made my life complete, that gave a shit about me, everything. it was too bad that i couldnt be good enough for him, since i ruined the relationship. he was so perfect to me, i was willing to spend my life with him, even wait for him if he ever changed his mind. i just have false hope about it now. i keep thinking he might come back, but it'll never happen. it hurts thinking he will forget about me eventually, that he will find someone else. i dont care if "i have my whole life ahead of me, i can find someone else". no, fuck that. i know he's the one. i know it. i want him, but i cant anymore. whats the point in life if you cant have the one thing that makes your life complete. and to make things worse, im in a group project with him. so we're all gonna have to talk eventually. i hate this shit so much. he told me to keep going, to keep living. i cant.

a guy i love. i love him so much. he says he loves me too forever. i believe it, i want to. but i just dont know. he stopped talking to me recently. in the past, he's removed me from his followers. but now, he straight up just blocked me. im so fucking devastated and broken rn, i just want to end it. he made my life complete and now he's here no longer. on top of that, i am in a group project with him. it sucks.

Well I'm not gonna sit here and give you the whole "it gets better" routine, but i do know from having been in the same situation that the feeling does subside. Even though it's unpleasant and doesn't happen over night.

 

[deadngoresurgery]

He blocked you, which means you should sever ties with this person and abandon this project, which isn't going anywhere anyway. An honest person wouldn't ghost you like that, especially not in the middle of a project with the person they've blocked.

I just find it a shame that it's not possible to reciprocally block someone who's blocked you to prevent them from unblocking you in turn, for example, to harass you. This reciprocity would have been just karma.

Since Instagram is part of Meta, this doesn't surprise me. Everything that belongs to Meta (formerly Facebook) disgusts me and is especially dangerous for mental health.

thats the logical solution right? unfortunately for me, its incredibly hard. he's helped me so much, has cared so much for me. he has his own issue too unfortuantely. i hate to see him like that. i want to keep helping him. i care so much about him, but i cant do it anymore. he was the only one who cared for me. i feel so destroyed, i want him back so bad. i wanna talk with him again. im willing to wait for him, i dont want him to be with anyone else, it hurts so bad. and its not even his fault why he did this, i messed up my chances of even dating him, which is why i still want him back. i know i messed up, but i want him, i need him. its been going on for months, im so tired

Well I'm not gonna sit here and give you the whole "it gets better" routine, but i do know from having been in the same situation that the feeling does subside. Even though it's unpleasant and doesn't happen over night.

thank you so much. it hurts so bad right now. like badly.

 

[TheTwelthRootOfTwo]

thats the logical solution right? unfortunately for me, its incredibly hard. he's helped me so much, has cared so much for me. he has his own issue too unfortuantely. i hate to see him like that. i want to keep helping him. i care so much about him, but i cant do it anymore. he was the only one who cared for me. i feel so destroyed, i want him back so bad. i wanna talk with him again. im willing to wait for him, i dont want him to be with anyone else, it hurts so bad. and its not even his fault why he did this, i messed up my chances of even dating him, which is why i still want him back. i know i messed up, but i want him, i need him. its been going on for months, im so tired

thank you so much. it hurts so bad right now. like badly.

I know hun. Been there many times. It's not pleasant being blocked by someone you are that close to. My heart is with you dear.

 

[disabledlife]

I hope things work out with this blockage issue; it's a shame he didn't offer an explanation. My solution is related to my own life, and I saw it as a dead end, but every situation is different. Have you tried seeing him face-to-face?

 

[SASU-KE]

Sorry my friend. Unfortunately, there's nothing we can do about the people that block us and move on . It happens quite a bit.

I'm sorry you're suffering so much. I hope you can heal and someone else better comes into your life.

 

[deadngoresurgery]

I know hun. Been there many times. It's not pleasant being blocked by someone you are that close to. My heart is with you dear.

thank you so much. really. your words made me cry haha. i really want him back. and i keep thinking its possible because he loves me still. i believe it. i really hope so :(

I hope things work out with this blockage issue; it's a shame he didn't offer an explanation. My solution is related to my own life, and I saw it as a dead end, but every situation is different. Have you tried seeing him face-to-face?

thank you. he has technically already provided an explanation, like im 99% sure i know why this happened (its my fault), so he didnt even need to. and itd hurt hearing that too. and i havent seen him face to face since yesterday, when he told me itd be better to stop talking. i thought he would keep his contacts open, just in case, but he blockedme on instagram. and idek about whatsapp. i dont wanna find out. im so close to just ending it, but for some reason, i still have hope that he'll come back to me. its why i dont wanna ctb just yet. i just want him to know ill always be waiting for him. the moment he forgets about me and goes with someone else is when ive lost all hope and will ctb

Sorry my friend. Unfortunately, there's nothing we can do about the people that block us and move on . It happens quite a bit.

I'm sorry you're suffering so much. I hope you can heal and someone else better comes into your life.

thank you. unfortunately or fortunately for me, i dont want anyone else, just him. but thank you so much :)