Guess I’m back. Found out that my partner has been cheating on me with multiple people since day 1

[emmarg]

I finally thought things got better. It was all a facade. I can't break this cycle of people fucking me over and hurting me without leaving entirely.

I have stuff from my last time that I'm probably going to consider using. Not going to do anything rash, but I feel like I've finally been kicked far enough into the ground to do it

 

[pain6batch9]

So sorry. It's always incredibly painful when this happens.

 

[hadenough58]

I feel you only have two choices when this happens and that is except that people are just sh*ts or find better people, I chose the former and while I am rarely disappointed by people I am the lonelier for it and find it very difficult to trust anyone.

 

[nekrofawn1]

i'm so sorry you're experiencing this, it's a pain unlike no other

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Sorry that's happened to you. That really sucks. I've been there, too.

 

[username12345]

Tbh just cause they're a hoe doesn't mean you should kill yourself. You clearly are doing more for the world and people by not being a shitty whore

 

[divinemistress36]

Its best to just stay away from people to avoid getting hurt

 

[BritishHikikomori]

Fuq that must be tough.. Being cheated on is nightmare stuff

 

[Holu]

Death or castration to all rapists, pedophiles, and cheaters :D.

Semi-jokes aside I'm truly sorry. That "person" doesn't deserve whatever affection you gave them. I hope that their bed is always too cold or hot to comfortable sleep.

 

[Grumble]

I can't break this cycle of people fucking me over and hurting me without leaving entirely.

Could these people have a trait (traits?) in common with each other that make you drawn to them as a particular type?

As an example, a socially anxious person with an aversion to intimacy could find themselves drawn to people who are emotionally unavailable because this trait corresponds with their ambivalence towards being in a relationship.

If there is an identifiable pattern in these people, it could help towards "breaking the cycle".