Goodbye Sasu

[HermitLonerGuy]

Hi all as you can tell by my username i gave up on humanity a while ago and now i decided to deactivate my account. I initially joined here because i was very suicidal , after some time i decided to check in the chat section.
So i made some good connections and enjoyed talking to the people there.

Last night someone made a comment about how being prescribed medication is worse than the experience of being a literal Slave.

So i showed them how stupid that comment is and others agreed with me.

So they snapped out at me, body shamed me and called me a troll on this site and said my post history is a troll.

So basically i stood up for myself and i reported the person but nothing was done.

It was a situation where the bully is allowed to get away scott free and the victim is blamed.

I therefore cannot be in this space any longer as i have been through enough trauma with people in life and this place was my only reprieve.

But it seems everywhere people are all the same.

People in groups are terrible , they show off, show their egos .

I noticed too that they placed me on ignore so i had assumed they would forget about me but they still went on in sly comments making snider remarks to their friends " oh you got offended by a joke" : " Only a sick person gets offended by jokes"
i also noticed in chat they are blatantly lying saying "i said this and that"
i would have liked the entire chat logs to be shown for proof as i know the truth.

this person makes racial and transphobic jokes in chat and then expects everyone to just accept it and we are wrong for feeling offended which is abuse.

bear in mind this person is like 40 or so.

people are all evil, i am glad i isolated myself .

I will be on my own again and plan strongly how to end my life.

People are the same shit all over , just in different places and our society is setup to favor bullies and victim blame, and the bullies know very well how to play their game and get people on their side and gaslight.

so i guess im giving that person what they wanted like i always gave the bullies what they wanted and always left things due to people.
the ironic thing is this very person complains and says they were bullied and wanted revenge on their bullies.

the world is full of hypocrites .

its a world of abusers and the people who stand up are the ones punished.

its a cruel world by nature , and the bullies know very well how to get allies to further their agenda.
i cant wait to die and never see another person again.


The way the world works is that you gotta be evil, this is an evil world.
you have to be sadistic > you cannot stand up for anything , anyone or yourself.
you either become an abuser and a bully unknowingly yourself or be a victim.
so you join the evil side or they convince you they are the good ones.
this is the tribal nature of humans.
the world is built upon trampling over others.
I was willing to stand up for the Slaves who my ancestors and family were and showed how that person's life is far more privileged than any Slave ever had, they lead a dream life to a Slave. now i lose because the bully won.
Now they are all happy and acting as if nothing happen and the mods punished us both equally, like the teachers who punish the bullied kid for sticking up for himself.
This user was probably ashamed at their true nature being exposed.
i may search out a new chat site or forum that has one on one chats rather.

I noticed people are more genuine and lie less in one on one situations.
all the best to all of you and i wish you peace in whatever you choose.

 

[WhatPowerIs]

The moderators should see this post. Why did your report slip by them? That sounds horrible. I'm so sorry you were treated so poorly, you did not deserve that at all. Nobody should be shamed for parts of their body that they cannot control. This makes me incredibly upset, why would they do such a thing to you?

 

[pauly1963]

I have read all of your posts over the past few weeks and you have obviously been through a lot of suffering. I have also liked reading what you have written, I can relate to a lot of it, having been through it myself. I agree wholeheartedly with what you say about groups of people, it's like some kind of toxic hive mentality. Toxic people want to provoke a reaction in you, so I have always found it best not to engage with them. Also the vast majority of people on SS are really good people, who I am quite sure are on your side. This is my third account on SS over the past 4 years and I have seen some great people leave SS due to negativity towards them. Unfortunately you get this type of behaviour on all social platforms etc. Just ignore it. Sorry you are feeling like leaving.

 

[Dot]

Am srry tht ths xprnce hs givn u th/ dsire 2 leav th/ frum Hermt

If u r nt hppy wth hw th/ stuatn ws handld slf d.ms r opn s/ tht w/ cn tlk it thru

 

[Someone123]

Hi all as you can tell by my username i gave up on humanity a while ago and now i decided to deactivate my account. I initially joined here because i was very suicidal , after some time i decided to check in the chat section.
So i made some good connections and enjoyed talking to the people there.

Last night someone made a comment about how being prescribed medication is worse than the experience of being a literal Slave.

So i showed them how stupid that comment is and others agreed with me.

It seems like you rubbed each other the wrong way, and it went badly. Even if a comment seems stupid it is best to not call it stupid- it seems that they were making a comment about something that had caused harm to them, some medication, and they exaggerated how bad it was, though it sometimes can be very bad. A lot of people do exaggerate to make a point, this is very common, and it is best to not take this exaggeration seriously in a literal way. Just understand that they don't like that prescription medications are often harmful- that's the point they are really trying to make.

There are clearly a lot of people who care about you here and it may be worth considering staying. You may want to consider not taking comments so literally that really weren't meant that way, and to try to avoid such harsh criticisms as saying someone is stupid. It seems that both parties had some fault in this disagreement. You may want to consider staying to connect with people here who do care about you.

 

[Rocket]

i have been through enough trauma with people in life and this place was my only reprieve.

It's heartbreaking to see you say this. You are a beautiful soul and I hope you'll think about reconsidering. The vast majority of people I've seen here are compassionate and loving. Hope a few insensitive people (who should be looked at by the moderators) don't deprive you of the abundance of support and love here. Whatever your choice, major respect to you and wishing you well and peace in all you choose to do. Big hug to you.

 

[FuneralCry]

Your feelings are completely understandable. Nowhere in this world offers relief from cruel human behaviours. This site is no different even though people go on about it being a 'supportive' community. Wherever there are people there is potential for such harm to be inflicted onto others, it's simply inevitable. There is also the fact that the internet often brings out the worst in people. It also comforts me the thought of being free from this nightmarish world and all of the cruel, insensitive people that exist in it. Life is already horrific enough without people making things worse for us.
But I wish you the best.

 

[SamTam33]

When we're already raw and emotionally traumatized, situations like this hold much more weight than they otherwise should.

I've had complete breakdowns for days when something embarrassing has happened to me or if someone poked fun of me.

We're just... raw. And any jab to the wound feels amplified.

I would like for you to stay.

Because while that other person has made you want to leave, YOU could be the reason that someone else wants to stay.

 

[almaranthine]

unfortunately, there isn't a single place on the internet that is a perfect utopia... there's always (at least) a few bad seeds and it sounds like you happened to run into one. sorry this confrontation has led you to this decision. you did everything you could do by reporting that user and explaining yourself in this post. I honestly hope you do reconsider and don't let this one person ruin the forum for you and take away that support from you. Best wishes.

 

[CTB Dream]

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[👁️👃👁️]

Hi all as you can tell by my username i gave up on humanity a while ago and now i decided to deactivate my account. I initially joined here because i was very suicidal , after some time i decided to check in the chat section.
So i made some good connections and enjoyed talking to the people there.

Last night someone made a comment about how being prescribed medication is worse than the experience of being a literal Slave.

So i showed them how stupid that comment is and others agreed with me.

So they snapped out at me, body shamed me and called me a troll on this site and said my post history is a troll.

So basically i stood up for myself and i reported the person but nothing was done.

It was a situation where the bully is allowed to get away scott free and the victim is blamed.

I therefore cannot be in this space any longer as i have been through enough trauma with people in life and this place was my only reprieve.

But it seems everywhere people are all the same.

People in groups are terrible , they show off, show their egos .

I noticed too that they placed me on ignore so i had assumed they would forget about me but they still went on in sly comments making snider remarks to their friends " oh you got offended by a joke" : " Only a sick person gets offended by jokes"
i also noticed in chat they are blatantly lying saying "i said this and that"
i would have liked the entire chat logs to be shown for proof as i know the truth.

this person makes racial and transphobic jokes in chat and then expects everyone to just accept it and we are wrong for feeling offended which is abuse.

bear in mind this person is like 40 or so.

people are all evil, i am glad i isolated myself .

I will be on my own again and plan strongly how to end my life.

People are the same shit all over , just in different places and our society is setup to favor bullies and victim blame, and the bullies know very well how to play their game and get people on their side and gaslight.

so i guess im giving that person what they wanted like i always gave the bullies what they wanted and always left things due to people.
the ironic thing is this very person complains and says they were bullied and wanted revenge on their bullies.

the world is full of hypocrites .

its a world of abusers and the people who stand up are the ones punished.

its a cruel world by nature , and the bullies know very well how to get allies to further their agenda.
i cant wait to die and never see another person again.


The way the world works is that you gotta be evil, this is an evil world.
you have to be sadistic > you cannot stand up for anything , anyone or yourself.
you either become an abuser and a bully unknowingly yourself or be a victim.
so you join the evil side or they convince you they are the good ones.
this is the tribal nature of humans.
the world is built upon trampling over others.
I was willing to stand up for the Slaves who my ancestors and family were and showed how that person's life is far more privileged than any Slave ever had, they lead a dream life to a Slave. now i lose because the bully won.
Now they are all happy and acting as if nothing happen and the mods punished us both equally, like the teachers who punish the bullied kid for sticking up for himself.
This user was probably ashamed at their true nature being exposed.
i may search out a new chat site or forum that has one on one chats rather.

I noticed people are more genuine and lie less in one on one situations.
all the best to all of you and i wish you peace in whatever you choose.

What???? Are you serious????

 

[ge0rge]

 

[WhatPowerIs]

It seems like you rubbed each other the wrong way, and it went badly. Even if a comment seems stupid it is best to not call it stupid- it seems that they were making a comment about something that had caused harm to them, some medication, and they exaggerated how bad it was, though it sometimes can be very bad. A lot of people do exaggerate to make a point, this is very common, and it is best to not take this exaggeration seriously in a literal way. Just understand that they don't like that prescription medications are often harmful- that's the point they are really trying to make.

There are clearly a lot of people who care about you here and it may be worth considering staying. You may want to consider not taking comments so literally that really weren't meant that way, and to try to avoid such harsh criticisms as saying someone is stupid. It seems that both parties had some fault in this disagreement. You may want to consider staying to connect with people here who do care about you.

I think there is only one party at fault here and it is the person who called Hermit a troll, his post history was a complete troll, and bodyshamed him.

 

[Someone123]

I think there is only one party at fault here and it is the person who called Hermit a troll, his post history was a complete troll, and bodyshamed him.

Calling them stupid is what started the negative interactions, and that was also troll behavior. A person can express disagreement without being so mean about it.

 

[Nirrend]

Hi all as you can tell by my username i gave up on humanity a while ago and now i decided to deactivate my account. I initially joined here because i was very suicidal , after some time i decided to check in the chat section.
So i made some good connections and enjoyed talking to the people there.

Last night someone made a comment about how being prescribed medication is worse than the experience of being a literal Slave.

So i showed them how stupid that comment is and others agreed with me.

So they snapped out at me, body shamed me and called me a troll on this site and said my post history is a troll.

So basically i stood up for myself and i reported the person but nothing was done.

It was a situation where the bully is allowed to get away scott free and the victim is blamed.

I therefore cannot be in this space any longer as i have been through enough trauma with people in life and this place was my only reprieve.

But it seems everywhere people are all the same.

People in groups are terrible , they show off, show their egos .

I noticed too that they placed me on ignore so i had assumed they would forget about me but they still went on in sly comments making snider remarks to their friends " oh you got offended by a joke" : " Only a sick person gets offended by jokes"
i also noticed in chat they are blatantly lying saying "i said this and that"
i would have liked the entire chat logs to be shown for proof as i know the truth.

this person makes racial and transphobic jokes in chat and then expects everyone to just accept it and we are wrong for feeling offended which is abuse.

bear in mind this person is like 40 or so.

people are all evil, i am glad i isolated myself .

I will be on my own again and plan strongly how to end my life.

People are the same shit all over , just in different places and our society is setup to favor bullies and victim blame, and the bullies know very well how to play their game and get people on their side and gaslight.

so i guess im giving that person what they wanted like i always gave the bullies what they wanted and always left things due to people.
the ironic thing is this very person complains and says they were bullied and wanted revenge on their bullies.

the world is full of hypocrites .

its a world of abusers and the people who stand up are the ones punished.

its a cruel world by nature , and the bullies know very well how to get allies to further their agenda.
i cant wait to die and never see another person again.


The way the world works is that you gotta be evil, this is an evil world.
you have to be sadistic > you cannot stand up for anything , anyone or yourself.
you either become an abuser and a bully unknowingly yourself or be a victim.
so you join the evil side or they convince you they are the good ones.
this is the tribal nature of humans.
the world is built upon trampling over others.
I was willing to stand up for the Slaves who my ancestors and family were and showed how that person's life is far more privileged than any Slave ever had, they lead a dream life to a Slave. now i lose because the bully won.
Now they are all happy and acting as if nothing happen and the mods punished us both equally, like the teachers who punish the bullied kid for sticking up for himself.
This user was probably ashamed at their true nature being exposed.
i may search out a new chat site or forum that has one on one chats rather.

I noticed people are more genuine and lie less in one on one situations.
all the best to all of you and i wish you peace in whatever you choose.

Hi sweet @HermitLonerGuy

I'm really sorry you went through this.. this is awful and yes,

When individuals form a group, it is no longer the individual who thinks but the group...

Morals change and sometimes for the worse

I'm really sorry, I know you're having a hard time with it but I assure you that there are still wonderful people like you ❤

If you ever change your mind, know that we love you ❤

Human beings are sometimes abject...

Love ❤

 

[WhatPowerIs]

Calling them stupid is what started the negative interactions, and that was also troll behavior. A person can express disagreement without being so mean about it.

Hmm, okay, maybe I was too quick and jumped the gun there lol I don't really think that is troll behavior but it is possible he is telling us something we are not seeing and we cannot see, and the other party shaming him for things he has no control over is worse than anything he did

 

[BornToFail]

Can someone fill me in

 

[jodes2]

Not everyone is evil please don't go

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Calling them stupid is what started the negative interactions,

I didnt call them stupid , i showed them how what they said was stupid. How harsh life was for a Slave. Please reread carefully and stop spreading that. im just so done with people .

"So i showed them how stupid that comment is and others agreed with me."

Not everyone is evil please don't go

just so done with people.

all the worlds problems have 1 common denomintor and thats people.

all the hurt was caused by people.

people also are tribal and they form biases and know how to get others on their side, im just so done with humans and leave i wana be totally alone and die alone.

 

[Someone123]

I didnt call them stupid , i showed them how what they said was stupid. How harsh life was for a Slave. Please reread carefully and stop spreading that. im just so done with people .

"So i showed them how stupid that comment is and others agreed with me."

To me it's basically the same thing- you did treat them too harshly. I know you get your feelings hurt by others, but you hurt other people's feelings too- whether you used the word stupid or just demonstrated that they were stupid doesn't make any real difference.

 

[👁️👃👁️]

To me it's basically the same thing- you did treat them too harshly. I know you get your feelings hurt by others, but you hurt other people's feelings too- whether you used the word stupid or just demonstrated that they were stupid doesn't make any real difference.

Were you there to winess what happened?

 

[Someone123]

Were you there to winess what happened?

No, I am going based on what was posted on the first post on this thread - the sentence "So I showed them how stupid that comment is and others agreed with me." is a harsh, troll-like statement no matter what the context is- so both people had some fault in this argument.

 

[NeverEndingPain]

I hope you reconsider and decide to stay. I enjoyed chatting with you in the chat a few nights ago. I'll be thinking about you.
xoxoxo

 

[WhiteRabbit]

No, I am going based on what was posted on the first post on this thread - the sentence "So I showed them how stupid that comment is and others agreed with me." is a harsh, troll-like statement no matter what the context is- so both people had some fault in this argument.

Comparing taking prescription medication to literal slavery is pretty stupid, TBH. I don't see how calling that out is troll-like.

 

[Someone123]

Comparing taking prescription medication to literal slavery is pretty stupid, TBH. I don't see how calling that out is troll-like.

Many people have died from prescription medications- for example the opioids. There are numerous cases of people being severely damaged by prescription medications. If a person is going to state an opinion harshly by calling it stupid they shouldn't complain when the other person treats them harshly back- if you can dish it out then you should be able to take it. But it's better to be able to communicate more res[pectfully that you disagree- to de-escalate rather than then escalate. If a person escalates things they shouldn't be surprised or upset that the other person escalates things back. It's better to state differences of opinion more tactfully.

 

[WhiteRabbit]

Many people have died from prescription medications- for example the opioids. There are numerous cases of people being severely damaged by prescription medications. If a person is going to statet an opinion harshly by calling it stupid they shouldn't complain when the other person treats them harshly back- if you can dish it out then you should be able to take it. But it's better to be able to communicate more res[pectfully that you disagree- to de-escalate than then escalate. If a person escalates things they shouldn't be surprised or upset that the other person escalates things back. It's better to state differences of opinion more tactfully.

Taking medication can be dangerous for sure, but I don't see how it's similar to being owned and forced to work

I agree on the tactfully part. I haven't seen the post hermit is talking about so I can't see exactly what they said.

 

[Dot]

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[Someone123]

Taking medication can be dangerous for sure, but I don't see how it's similar to being owned and forced to work

I agree on the tactfully part. I haven't seen the post hermit is talking about so I can't see exactly what they said.

I think the similarity is that people are exploited for money, even if it wrecks their health or leads to their own death.

Speculatn = nt genrlly hlpfl bcse opinns cn b mde of ppl w/o all of th/ relvnt infrmatn

The point is that in the opening comment on this thread the OP complained about harsh things said against them but they also referred to something harsh that they said, so it was clear from this post that both people contributed to the issue.

 

[Dot]

I think the similarity is that people are exploited for money, even if it wrecks their health or leads to their own death.

The point is that in the opening comment on this thread the OP complained about harsh things said against them but they also referred to something harsh that they said, so it was clear from this post that both people contributed to the issue.

= ok am refrrng 2 th/ thrd as a whle

 

[Exact Change]

Hi all as you can tell by my username i gave up on humanity a while ago and now i decided to deactivate my account. I initially joined here because i was very suicidal , after some time i decided to check in the chat section.
So i made some good connections and enjoyed talking to the people there.

Last night someone made a comment about how being prescribed medication is worse than the experience of being a literal Slave.

So i showed them how stupid that comment is and others agreed with me.

So they snapped out at me, body shamed me and called me a troll on this site and said my post history is a troll.

So basically i stood up for myself and i reported the person but nothing was done.

It was a situation where the bully is allowed to get away scott free and the victim is blamed.

I therefore cannot be in this space any longer as i have been through enough trauma with people in life and this place was my only reprieve.

But it seems everywhere people are all the same.

People in groups are terrible , they show off, show their egos .

I noticed too that they placed me on ignore so i had assumed they would forget about me but they still went on in sly comments making snider remarks to their friends " oh you got offended by a joke" : " Only a sick person gets offended by jokes"
i also noticed in chat they are blatantly lying saying "i said this and that"
i would have liked the entire chat logs to be shown for proof as i know the truth.

this person makes racial and transphobic jokes in chat and then expects everyone to just accept it and we are wrong for feeling offended which is abuse.

bear in mind this person is like 40 or so.

people are all evil, i am glad i isolated myself .

I will be on my own again and plan strongly how to end my life.

People are the same shit all over , just in different places and our society is setup to favor bullies and victim blame, and the bullies know very well how to play their game and get people on their side and gaslight.

so i guess im giving that person what they wanted like i always gave the bullies what they wanted and always left things due to people.
the ironic thing is this very person complains and says they were bullied and wanted revenge on their bullies.

the world is full of hypocrites .

its a world of abusers and the people who stand up are the ones punished.

its a cruel world by nature , and the bullies know very well how to get allies to further their agenda.
i cant wait to die and never see another person again.


The way the world works is that you gotta be evil, this is an evil world.
you have to be sadistic > you cannot stand up for anything , anyone or yourself.
you either become an abuser and a bully unknowingly yourself or be a victim.
so you join the evil side or they convince you they are the good ones.
this is the tribal nature of humans.
the world is built upon trampling over others.
I was willing to stand up for the Slaves who my ancestors and family were and showed how that person's life is far more privileged than any Slave ever had, they lead a dream life to a Slave. now i lose because the bully won.
Now they are all happy and acting as if nothing happen and the mods punished us both equally, like the teachers who punish the bullied kid for sticking up for himself.
This user was probably ashamed at their true nature being exposed.
i may search out a new chat site or forum that has one on one chats rather.

I noticed people are more genuine and lie less in one on one situations.
all the best to all of you and i wish you peace in whatever you choose.

Hermit, I hope you change your mind and remain in the forum.