Going on (romantic) dates before leaving this world -- yay or nay?

[SexyIncél]

It feels all shades of fucked-up to go on dates. Pretending to be a happy-go-lucky normie -- whilst I have a boomstick near my bed waiting to end me!

But it's like a last chance to enjoy such a moment. And hopefully be the kind & caring gentleman I've always wanted to be, the kinda lòver that someone would really enjoy

But is it a lie, a cruelty to be such a person -- then perhaps die & yank it away?

But then again, deeply sad people get to go on dates too & try to be fun. And it's better than being some usual disappointing jerk that people meet... If my motivations & confidence are purified by impending nonexistence -- could it be a wonderful experience for all involved?

(If we didn't have scammers, predators & NPCs lurking about this forum, maybe we could do such things with likeminded people... alas)

 

[I want to end it]

I say it depends what you do with the person. Dates can be a casual thing where you don't see each other again or it can be very serious leading to marriage.

I am going to visit an escort before I ctb (the type you have sex with, not the type of car). You could try that instead? Escorts will go on dates with you too. You can pretend its a date but without the need to see her again.

 

[Final-push123]

That depends on if you are an attractive guy(6foot +, jacked, model teir face) or not. If you are go for it you probably have a good time. If you are not the I wouldn't recommend it. You probably gonna get ghosted or be a foodie call

Love is a battlefield, it best to just do something you love instead

 

[I want to end it]

That depends on if you are an attractive guy(6foot +, jacked, model teir face) or not. If you are go for it you probably have a good time. If you are not the I wouldn't recommend it. You probably gonna get ghosted or be a foodie call

Love is a battlefield, it best to just do something you love instead

Thats why I am going to an escort. I cant get a date even if I tried hard and if I got one, I would be ghosted or used for free food like you say. Women have never liked me. I don't blame women. I was never attractive to them sadly.

 

[Final-push123]

Thats why I am going to an escort. I cant get a date even if I tried hard and if I got one, I would be ghosted or used for free food like you say. Women have never liked me. I don't blame women. I was never attractive to them sadly.

Oh yeah go for it, heck if you get a real good happy ending you might find yourself wanting to stay a bit longer lol.

Also don't feel too bad about not being liked by women. Most men who ever lived through out history of humanity never was liked by women or even reproduce.

My only wish more men would accept that and either get a sex toy or an escort and simply live life without women.

 

[I want to end it]

Oh yeah go for it, heck if you get a real good happy ending you might find yourself wanting to stay a bit longer lol.

Also don't feel too bad about not being liked by women. Most men who ever lived through out history of humanity never was liked by women or even reproduce.

My only wish more men would accept that and either get a sex toy or an escort and simply live life without women.

Isn't that from hundreds of years in the past? I think most modern day men reproduce, don't they?

 

[Darrenloses]

I'm doing this too.. Speaking to a few girls at the moment that are interested in meeting.. I think my career Is going south and I have SN on hand.. I'll wait until after meeting them if it happens

 

[akana]

go for it

 

[theboy]

Yes, why not? you're going to die anyway

 

[Final-push123]

Isn't that from hundreds of years in the past? I think most modern day men reproduce, don't they?

Yes but we are returning to the historical evolutionary dating market (only the biggest males get to reproduce), we are seeing this with the tinder and other online apps. Dating as we know it is dead, we as a species are back to Cheiftains and their harems structure

 

[Forgotten]

I'm talking to some girls on Tinder but I'm already dreading it and wondering why I even bothered.

 

[Final-push123]

I'm talking to some girls on Tinder but I'm already dreading it and wondering why I even bothered.

Don't bother Just get a escort, girls on tinder are there to either to get a self esteem booast, a step daddy, or a chad

 

[Spyro24]

I honestly wouldn't even bother. I lack the confidence and attractiveness to even talk to a girl irl or on dating apps and I don't see that changing at all. Even then I don't really know why I'm having such a hard time.

 

[I want to end it]

Don't bother Just get a escort, girls on tinder are there to either to get a self esteem booast, a step daddy, or a chad

In the last year, I only got 2 girls who talked to me on tinder and they both sent 1 message and stopped replying after. Dating apps were always so bad for me. No one messaged me and I got ignored when I tried to reach out to someone.

 

[Final-push123]

In the last year, I only got 2 girls who talked to me on tinder and they both sent 1 message and stopped replying after. Dating apps were always so bad for me. No one messaged me and I got ignored when I tried to reach out to someone.

That just how the dating is now a days for the average man, it's really rough out there. Don't beat yourself up over it

 

[takemenowpls]

Seeing someone knowing clear well you still will ctb? I guess. I was hoping maybe you were asking as you could meet a person to maybe keep you here. Someone to care about and who cares about you. That's what I'm doing. I'm still looking for that possible right person in my life that could save me without even knowing. I just doubt it will happen….

 

[SCW]

I've spent the past month going on dates and generally pretending to be happy. I think I have a girlfriend now but everything still feels very hollow. I feel like it helps a bit to take my mind off of everything and just be in a moment. That said, I feel like an a-hole because I know it's not changing my outlook on things and I don't want to hurt anybody when I eventually do go.

 

[SexyIncél]

Ugh I went on 2 dates yesterday. They were dull & ugh. I'm ready to die, haha :)

I think I need a fellow discontent

 

[Fadeawaaaay]

If that something you enjoy go for it… I always found it took a lot of energy and I couldn't possibly imagine doing that now… I'm way too much of a bummer