SadGirl
Specialist
- Mar 24, 2019
- 336
Has anyone run away or left? Traveling alone, disappearing from social media and not telling anyone, any tips?
140 bpm
Glitching in reality
- Jan 26, 2020
- 134
I've vanished myself exactly year ago. Deleted all social media accounts, changed phone number (prepaid, no contract), moved out from state where I lived. Just cut it off. Not telling anyone anything. The only person who I'm in touch with - my family member from my country, where I'm originally from (I left from there 5 years ago and never came back). And it's basically just an email once in a few weeks "I'm alive, I'm ok", no details.
If you want any tips...I'll tell you, it's tough.
You gonna be 100% on your own and understand, if you'll get in trouble NOBODY will hear you. Doesn't matter how big is trouble. Not a single person. (For example, I've been arrested and I had nobody to call, so nobody could put bond for me).
If you had friends before - now loneliness your only friend. Nobody will call you/text you just to say Whats up? You're a ghost now.
All strangers, who you'll meet during your roaming (and you'll meet them a lot), just a strangers. Don't trust anyone and don't say anyone ANYTHING about your situation. Because if something will happen to you, nobody will ever get known about it. You're easy target now. You don't have to lie and make the story. You just simply don't talk if you don't want.
I don't know how's your money situation, but if you're broke. Be sure, that it's gonna be the darkest times for you. (In my case I became homeless and was living in my car for a bit, before I've crushed it...)
That's probably the best time if you're thinking ctb.
But, honestly, you can't even imagine how your SI will start working. It's hard to believe in it, but more harder reality gonna punch you, more stronger you'll be. You just won't be able feel pain anymore. You're already ghost, right? (Of course I'm not saying anything about accident, where you loose you legs/eyes or chronic diseases which don't let you live "normal life").
There's no opinions left, no friends, parents, obligations, desires, dramas etc. You left it behind. It's only you now and your surviving. If you want to run away from something - done. Another thing, which I guarantee you - you'll never run away from yourself. You'll most likely will face same old shit on a new shitty place. But, again, now you completely on your own.
Life just going and people move on. But you can't even check on anybody who you loved. You don't even check social media. It's gonna be painful to see your friends there. They having fun and not crying about you. So just don't. And don't bother anyone. It was your choice. And people maybe hurt, or maybe not. You don't know. That fckn cat still alive or ctb, right? It works on both sides in this case.
So it's you choice and you life. From my perspective, I can say, that you become stronger and open sides of you and hidden talents you never been thinking before, but you'll have to sacrifice a lot. And again it's all individual and subjective.
Good luck.
If you want any tips...I'll tell you, it's tough.
You gonna be 100% on your own and understand, if you'll get in trouble NOBODY will hear you. Doesn't matter how big is trouble. Not a single person. (For example, I've been arrested and I had nobody to call, so nobody could put bond for me).
If you had friends before - now loneliness your only friend. Nobody will call you/text you just to say Whats up? You're a ghost now.
All strangers, who you'll meet during your roaming (and you'll meet them a lot), just a strangers. Don't trust anyone and don't say anyone ANYTHING about your situation. Because if something will happen to you, nobody will ever get known about it. You're easy target now. You don't have to lie and make the story. You just simply don't talk if you don't want.
I don't know how's your money situation, but if you're broke. Be sure, that it's gonna be the darkest times for you. (In my case I became homeless and was living in my car for a bit, before I've crushed it...)
That's probably the best time if you're thinking ctb.
But, honestly, you can't even imagine how your SI will start working. It's hard to believe in it, but more harder reality gonna punch you, more stronger you'll be. You just won't be able feel pain anymore. You're already ghost, right? (Of course I'm not saying anything about accident, where you loose you legs/eyes or chronic diseases which don't let you live "normal life").
There's no opinions left, no friends, parents, obligations, desires, dramas etc. You left it behind. It's only you now and your surviving. If you want to run away from something - done. Another thing, which I guarantee you - you'll never run away from yourself. You'll most likely will face same old shit on a new shitty place. But, again, now you completely on your own.
Life just going and people move on. But you can't even check on anybody who you loved. You don't even check social media. It's gonna be painful to see your friends there. They having fun and not crying about you. So just don't. And don't bother anyone. It was your choice. And people maybe hurt, or maybe not. You don't know. That fckn cat still alive or ctb, right? It works on both sides in this case.
So it's you choice and you life. From my perspective, I can say, that you become stronger and open sides of you and hidden talents you never been thinking before, but you'll have to sacrifice a lot. And again it's all individual and subjective.
Good luck.
Life_and_Death
Do what's best for you 🕯️ Sometimes I'm stressed
- Jul 1, 2020
- 6,828
i disappeared and very few people have talked to me since (family included) and for a while no one even knew where i was at 16. of course i was trading a toxic life for a better one. i really dont advise doing it my way. i didnt even mean to its just what happened
xLosthopex
Tell my dogs I love them
- May 29, 2020
- 1,135
Considering doing this tbh, but my country is small, it's hard to hide, I would need to move to a different country and I don't think I have the means to do so, also I'm not really capable of looking after myself
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
I did traveling alone, but not run away. People speak different languages. Been some places like Panama Canal and Copan ruinas, Corn island etc. It's hard without social media if you still have smart phone. At least you are far away the toxic environment and you may find out the meaning. Who knows? Anyway, you still need some savings to run away or traveling alone.
