Getting ready to die

[Honigwaffel]

So I bought N two weeks ago and I am waiting for it to arrive.
In the meantime I am trying to prepare everything. I have a few family members that are extremly thin skinned and I am worried that I will hurt them alot... How can I make it easier for them?

I was thinking about writing a nice letter and basically get everything ready for my funeral etc. I had to go through that process when my father died and the aftermath of dying was the hardest part for me. Do you have any tips on "cleaning up your life" beforehand?

 

[a3nova]

I am not sure of your reasons to cbt, but when you write to them make it clear it was not coz of them. that is the only advise i can give you.

 

[DeadlyLiving]

I am not sure of your reasons to cbt, but when you write to them make it clear it was not coz of them. that is the only advise i can give you.

That is one of the things I want to make very clear in my letter as well. I don't want my grandma to think she could have changed it or that she "ignored the signs" and starts thinking it is her fault. I want to make it really clear that no one could have changed the outcome, that I wanted it for years and I just couldn't find my peace in this life time.
It will still hurt our loved ones when we die, but it is important to prevent them from feeling guilty.

Maybe this source will help you writing a "good" letter: https://archive.ashspace.org/ashbusstop.org/Note.html

 

[Honigwaffel]

Thanks for the replies!

I recently watched a film about assisted suicide and one of the protagonists broke contact with his wife to make it better for her. He said he fell in love with another girl so that she would not be so sad. Could that work?

Like emigrating to another country so that they will never hear back from you.. Or will that be worse?

 

[a3nova]

Thanks for the replies!

I recently watched a film about assisted suicide and one of the protagonists broke contact with his wife to make it better for her. He said he fell in love with another girl so that she would not be so sad. Could that work?

Like emigrating to another country so that they will never hear back from you.. Or will that be worse?

I know it would be worse, state the truth always that is what i believe.

 

[Solo]

did u order 1 or 2 bottles

 

[Honigwaffel]

did u order 1 or 2 bottles

I ordered 2 bottles from A just to be safe.