highlyvolatile
I don't know anymore.
- Feb 14, 2020
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((I want to preface this by saying that you dont really have to read this. If you do i do appreciate it though. Its just different thoughts spewing out of my mind as im here. I'll be here at least another 2 hours.))
I'm sitting at a relatives funeral as I type this. I feel weird or I dont feel anything rather. I feel the same way I felt at my moms funeral. Cause people spoke so nicely about her. She is dressed up nice, has her make up done, has her hair fixed. I dont remember what she looked like before this. I see the pictures that flash by with memories of her. Im meeting people that say they can help me find jobs etc.. I didnt get to see my mom before she passed either. They passed the same way tbh.
I dont know how I feel. Im not sure how I feel. Im not sure how I should. Most people here are on their phones. I cant speak. I am also.
I wondered why we put so much effort into funerals and things. When most people go into the ground and we dont see them again. My mom looked beautiful before she was buried. We had to take pictures of her for my bedridden grandmother. It felt wrong? But I think i dont want a funeral. I'm seeing cousins and people I hadnt seen for years. Most I dont recognize. My sisters bf's dad passed and the family struggled paying for the funeral. And the other family said they'd pay the cost as long as it was paid back to them before the end of the month. It was around the 17th or so when he passed. Who has that kind of money lying around?
Planning for funerals is the worst. My mom had her plans written out and my family still fought and bickered and yelled at each other about it. That night was hell. Things havent been the same since she passed. I'm glad my cousin is in a better place, though.
I've thought about that if i did take my own life would my family honor no funeral for me. But now's probably not the time to be thinking about that right now.
Thanks to anyone who read it. Hope your day is a good one.
(Also its a flower bouquet with a bus image on it. And .. i also dont know how i feel about that.)
I'm sitting at a relatives funeral as I type this. I feel weird or I dont feel anything rather. I feel the same way I felt at my moms funeral. Cause people spoke so nicely about her. She is dressed up nice, has her make up done, has her hair fixed. I dont remember what she looked like before this. I see the pictures that flash by with memories of her. Im meeting people that say they can help me find jobs etc.. I didnt get to see my mom before she passed either. They passed the same way tbh.
I dont know how I feel. Im not sure how I feel. Im not sure how I should. Most people here are on their phones. I cant speak. I am also.
I wondered why we put so much effort into funerals and things. When most people go into the ground and we dont see them again. My mom looked beautiful before she was buried. We had to take pictures of her for my bedridden grandmother. It felt wrong? But I think i dont want a funeral. I'm seeing cousins and people I hadnt seen for years. Most I dont recognize. My sisters bf's dad passed and the family struggled paying for the funeral. And the other family said they'd pay the cost as long as it was paid back to them before the end of the month. It was around the 17th or so when he passed. Who has that kind of money lying around?
Planning for funerals is the worst. My mom had her plans written out and my family still fought and bickered and yelled at each other about it. That night was hell. Things havent been the same since she passed. I'm glad my cousin is in a better place, though.
I've thought about that if i did take my own life would my family honor no funeral for me. But now's probably not the time to be thinking about that right now.
Thanks to anyone who read it. Hope your day is a good one.
(Also its a flower bouquet with a bus image on it. And .. i also dont know how i feel about that.)
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