When it's your funeral is there a specific song you'd want played?
Funny enough this is something I think about quite often.
Ideas have come and gone but so far the two songs that have stuck are Rain Dogs followed by Anywhere I Lay My Head by Tom Waits. Idk if you're familiar with his music, I honestly could nerd out about him for hours and paragraphs on end. Definitely check him out if you haven't before, I've never seen an artist so versatile in his sound and poetic in his lyricism.
Coincidentally these two are also my favorite songs from him, they just speak to me on a really personal level. I'm sure everybody has this sort of relationship with their own favorite songs, but I feel like they "understand" me. I saw a comment about the first one, a quote, supposedly by Tom himself;
"(...) after a rain in New York all the dogs that got caught in the rain, somehow the water washed away their whole trail and they can't get back home so about 4 in the morning you see all these stranded dogs on the street and they're looking around like - won't you help me get back home, sir, please - excuse me, sir - excuse me, sir - can you help me find my way back home? all makes and models. The short ones, the black ones, the tall ones, the expensive ones, the long ones, the disturbed ones, they all want to get home."
As for the second one, I think the lyrics are pretty self-evident, but the ending is what really makes it great. What in itself sounds like an actual funeral song with a strong "send off" vibe & kind of somber lyrics is finished off with a cheerful jazz band. I saw someone compare it to these 'jazz funerals' which iirc are a big thing in new orleans, where, instead of a gloomy & solemn occasion, the funeral is treated as a sort of party - a celebration of that person's release from life's troubles and suffering.
Both are honestly so beautiful I can start to tear up any time I really start to think about them. Waits really is one hell of an artist.
I also feel like On GP by Death Grips expresses the sheer amount of frustration, anger, resentment & sadness that builds up in a life where you're just forced to go through the motions in a place you can't wait to get out of really well, but I'm not sure it's one I'd want played at my funeral.