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Jun 26, 2022
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Does anyone else ever think about who would even go to their funeral?.. Family, yes. But is there even anyone else in my life that cares enough to attend??

I think about this all the time.
 
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Wizard
Jul 26, 2020
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I've thought about it on/off for quite a while. I know there are a lot who would go because "they should" but in reality there's really not many that I would want to be there, as in "this person knew me and what I was going through".
 
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Seeking_Peace

Arcanist
May 18, 2022
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Make a living will that you want a cremation and no funeral. If you have a place to spread your ashes designate it as well.

I don't think about it as I don't want a funeral.
 
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Wizard
Jul 26, 2020
660
I'm looking at having one of those "green funerals" where they bury you in a field and let nature take you. I have to start making calls and get prices, etc.
 
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nightnightnitrite

baby blues
Apr 17, 2021
483
Yes I do. I am requesting no funeral and everyone just do what reminds me of them the most as a 'celebration of life'. I'm hoping the word doesn't get out if I do CTB because I don't want a bunch of people who are the reason I'm 6 feet under to be watch me actually go 6 feet under.
 
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Seeking_Peace

Arcanist
May 18, 2022
476
I think those green burials are cost effective since no casket nor extras are needed.
 
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Wizard
Jul 26, 2020
660
Ya the little I've read about local ones look that way. Plus I just don't see the point in spending hundreds or thousands of dollars for me to go in the ground that nobody goes to see. And either I'm somewhere else or nowhwere and just not existing so why have a piece of ground for it. I'd rather anyone coming just go out and eat or whatnot.
 
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Slimetae

Slimeent🎲
Apr 23, 2022
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Probably my mom and siblings and id probably be cremated I hope so but no one else really cares .
 
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outatime_85

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May 17, 2022
774
I do not matter to any of the people in my world, but those same people would attend my funeral/service not out of any love for me but out of respect for my mum.

I am not a real loss to my family unit.

To them, my funeral/service would be something you attend because society says you should.

Most of them would just phone it in if they could.
 
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TheLastFemaphrodyke

Student
May 25, 2022
130
Does anyone else ever think about who would even go to their funeral?.. Family, yes. But is there even anyone else in my life that cares enough to attend??

I think about this all the time.
There is no one to be at my funeral, no family, no friends, no one on here will even know I go, besides, who on here would go to my funeral anyway, no one really knows me, I am autistic with no filters, bad timing and inappropriate speaking/writing, I am pretty diversive and not much liked by anyone I am sure, there will not be anyone but Ben at my funeral.
He is instructed to not to have one for me, just cremate me, have my ashes made into pebbles and stones, he can make them himself if he wants, he likes to do pottery, then go places I loved, or wanted to go and never got the chance, leave little pebbles in all the places I loved, my garden if I ever have one, the mountains we hike and everywhere all over the world he finds I would have loved.
 
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Dead Ghost

Mestre del Temps
May 6, 2022
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I have written in my advance directives (which I have not yet had validated by a notary) that I want to be put in the common grave in the cemetery, where no one can ever find me. I want neither a ceremony nor to be buried with a name or surname.
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Jo he escrit al meu redactat de voluntats anticipades (que encara no tinc val·lidat per un notari) que vull que em possin a la fossa comuna del cementiri, allà on ningú em pugui trobar mai. No vull ni cerimònia ni ser enterrat amb nom o cognoms.
 
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FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
37,138
I do not want a funeral personally, I just want to be forgotten about, like I never existed in the first place, but I guess it would not matter to me if there is a funeral for me or not as I will not be alive at that point.
 
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Shu

As above, So Below.
Jan 21, 2022
2,487
Aum Namah Shivaya.
 
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RedHarlequin

Mage
Jul 8, 2018
530
I have a list of people who I would like there, and I can only hope my family doesn't invite a lot of people of little relevance to me (people I don't like or relatives I haven't seen in 15 years).
I know that funeral is more for the ones left behind, but still, I'm oddly specific about these things.

I would like a nice graveyard, nothing over the top, but one where my remains can have their peace.
 
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jamie_

Specialist
May 21, 2022
330
i fear the one person i really want to go want care enough to do so
 

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