Most of the time when I end up in arguments with Christians - it's because they make claims like this, while they also ironically find it acceptable for their god to torment the majority of humans forever after they are dead, even for very minor things, including thought crimes, consensual sex outside of marriage, and simply not loving their god in general. To me, it's like arguing with someone who is living with an abusive spouse because you want them to escape the abuse and be free, but all they do is tell you how wonderful their abuser is and how much they deserve to get beaten up.
It's sickening because the Bible pretty much says that all people are evil sinners who deserve to be tortured merely for existing, unless they love Jesus. It says that their good deeds have the same value as filthy rags, if those deeds are not being done for the purpose of pleasing the Christian god. What that means is, if you are an honest person who helps others every chance you get because you genuinely care about them, but don't love the Christian god, you'll receive the same punishment as mass murderers and rapists who
just happened to not be Christians either (but at the same time, you can be a mass murderer or rapist and get into heaven by kissing some godly ass)
. I'm really glad that I don't believe this garbage anymore because this stuff never provided me with any hope when I was a believer. All it really did was provide my depressed mind with more fuel by confirming that I was as worthless as I felt, so I just accepted it until I realized that there was no good reason to believe any of it.
I know I probably just derailed this thread by ranting about this stuff, but all I can say is that the pro-life platitudes that come from Christians make me feel like I'm going to throw up inside my mouth, even more so than when they come from other sources. They'll say things like, "You are here for a reason!" and "Jesus loves you!" and then all I want to do is tell them to go fuck themselves.