ChocolateCroissant
Life feels like wallpaper to be peeled back.
- Apr 29, 2020
- 22
I have not had this urge before and it makes me feel very bad...
I love my mother very much but she's hurt me a lot growing up. She was irresponsible and made drastically bad life choices that severely damaged me.
I know she has her own illnesses but I cannot take how I've never gotten a genuine apology from her.
I've tried 9 million ways to get her to understand how she impacted me but she dismisses it as she has the emotional maturity of a child and can't handle the issue (from what I can tell).
All I've wanted is a genuine "I'm sorry" and to know she's reflected on what she's done to me but I've never gotten it. Only "sorry" to get me to stop talking.
She is capable of depth, she showed it when one of her pets died. She could never show the same depth and reflection for me.
I am hurt and have been hurt for the entirety of my adulthood by her actions and knowing she hasn't apologized genuinely.
The other day I called her and exploded at her, because she has done MORE irresponsible things that I will have to fix or let her rot. I can barely wake up and brush my teeth but I'm supposed to fix these issues she has?
I can't take it.
Once again, she dismisses everything as I "can't stay hung up on the past".
And she can't even apologize for the past.
I love her so much but to even think of her has become tooth gritting. I am filled with rage and frustration.
I know if I just CTBd she might then have to reflect and think about her part in it.
i love her very much but I'm so hurt and frustrated.
I just wanted to vent thoughts around this and I sort of feel a bit better typing it.
I probably can't fix myself and will CTB by Fent or drowning soon regardless.
Have you ever felt similar feelings about doing it so someone understands they hurt you etc?
I love my mother very much but she's hurt me a lot growing up. She was irresponsible and made drastically bad life choices that severely damaged me.
I know she has her own illnesses but I cannot take how I've never gotten a genuine apology from her.
I've tried 9 million ways to get her to understand how she impacted me but she dismisses it as she has the emotional maturity of a child and can't handle the issue (from what I can tell).
All I've wanted is a genuine "I'm sorry" and to know she's reflected on what she's done to me but I've never gotten it. Only "sorry" to get me to stop talking.
She is capable of depth, she showed it when one of her pets died. She could never show the same depth and reflection for me.
I am hurt and have been hurt for the entirety of my adulthood by her actions and knowing she hasn't apologized genuinely.
The other day I called her and exploded at her, because she has done MORE irresponsible things that I will have to fix or let her rot. I can barely wake up and brush my teeth but I'm supposed to fix these issues she has?
I can't take it.
Once again, she dismisses everything as I "can't stay hung up on the past".
And she can't even apologize for the past.
I love her so much but to even think of her has become tooth gritting. I am filled with rage and frustration.
I know if I just CTBd she might then have to reflect and think about her part in it.
i love her very much but I'm so hurt and frustrated.
I just wanted to vent thoughts around this and I sort of feel a bit better typing it.
I probably can't fix myself and will CTB by Fent or drowning soon regardless.
Have you ever felt similar feelings about doing it so someone understands they hurt you etc?