Environment shapes us?

[absolomonisgone]

3 weeks ago I used to live in a university town environment, where everyone is so uptight, smug and feeling so special from the women faculty to first year students.
And I used to drink and ever get so bitter, drunk and angry for no reason.
Now I moved into this town of working family men working so hard to raise families...., I still drink, but can't get drunk or bitter or angry. No matter how hard I try

 

[MrDarkness]

Science has proven that the environment shapes us who we are, if a person grows up in a loving house hold, they will show that as an adult, if someone lives in an abusive household and becomes an adult, they will probably be the same as their parents, it's extremely depressing. I would be fine in the head if my family raised me right and so would've bunch of other people.

 

[absolomonisgone]

Science has proven that the environment shapes us who we are, if a person grows up in a loving house hold, they will show that as an adult, if someone lives in an abusive household and becomes an adult, they will probably be the same as their parents, it's extremely depressing. I would be fine in the head if my family raised me right and so would've bunch of other people.

What did they do to you? As for me, my mom abandoned me at birth. And had to live my childhood being tossed between aging grandparents and aunts who had their own kids and finally when everyone got tired of me, they send me to boarding school at around 9 years.

 

[MrDarkness]

What did they do to you? As for me, my mom abandoned me at birth. And had to live my childhood being tossed between aging grandparents and aunts who had their own kids and finally when everyone got tired of me, they send me to boarding school at around 9 years.

As a kid I was born in a very dysfunctional household, my dad was having a mid life crisis, we were on the verge of being homeless, my mom was always working to pay and feed us, my dad was too busy playing cod, my dad never liked me so either call me useless ignore me or beat me, later on my mom developed cancer, she was sick most of the time and sleeping, my dad finally got a job, he was working all the time, I was all alone either playing games by myself, or just being at school, I was also bullied during my school years, I had no one to talk to, I was just left in my own world

 

[absolomonisgone]

I'm what they call unwanted baby. Dictionary definition. Even my conception was wrong. My mom was a 16 when she birthed me and she was impregnated by her cousin. Talk of being never wanted in this world! She even gave birth and tried to throw me away and I was found out by a neighbour!

As a kid I was born in a very dysfunctional household, my dad was having a mid life crisis, we were on the verge of being homeless, my mom was always working to pay and feed us, my dad was too busy playing cod, my dad never liked me so either call me useless ignore me or beat me, later on my mom developed cancer, she was sick most of the time and sleeping, my dad finally got a job, he was working all the time, I was all alone either playing games by myself, or just being at school, I was also bullied during my school years, I had no one to talk to, I was just left in my own world

Very strange a dad not loving his kids