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lofistos345

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The nice thing about the Dutch euthanasia system and law is that they respect your will and the relationship with your doctor. So many people were helped dying with dignity. Why is it so hard for other countries to understand. Let people die with dignity.
 
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SettOne1994

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i dont know either. Probably has to do with general lifestyle in their countries. If you go to countries where unemployment is sky rocket high, imagine how many would apply for it. And how many of them really just need to find a job or study in a specific field...Doctors would go nuts to verify who really is in need of this extreme method and who is just depressed that period
 
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Berlin76

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i dont know either. Probably has to do with general lifestyle in their countries. If you go to countries where unemployment is sky rocket high, imagine how many would apply for it. And how many of them really just need to find a job or study in a specific field...Doctors would go nuts to verify who really is in need of this extreme method and who is just depressed that period

Being unemployed is not seen mental illness so its not suffering at al. Its just a setback in life.

The nice thing about the Dutch euthanasia system and law is that they respect your will and the relationship with your doctor. So many people were helped dying with dignity. Why is it so hard for other countries to understand. Let people die with dignity.

I am dutch and i recently got approved for euthanasia here. I am thankful that they acknowledge psychological suffering as a part of euthanasia law.
 
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SettOne1994

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Being unemployed is not seen mental illness so its not suffering at al. Its just a setback in life.


I am dutch and i recently got approved for euthanasia here. I am thankful that they acknowledge psychological suffering as a part of euthanasia law.
the point is mental ilnesses are not like physical in the sense that a doctor is never able to guarantee you have that disease even you that got approved for euthanasia could aswell be bullshiting them and they would never be correct in their choices. This is one reason they dont make it legal. Everyone would jump claiming a mental disorder , everyone then will apply for euthanasia. This is done for moral reasons mostly they dont want people in their first missfortune like loosing their job girlfriend to go and die. Im with the dutch though
 
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the point is mental ilnesses are not like physical in the sense that a doctor is never able to guarantee you have that disease even you that got approved for euthanasia could aswell be bullshiting them and they would never be correct in their choices. This is one reason they dont make it legal. Everyone would jump claiming a mental disorder , everyone then will apply for euthanasia. This is done for moral reasons mostly they dont want people in their first missfortune like loosing their job girlfriend to go and die. Im with the dutch though
Good points and yes with mental illnesses and psychological suffering, it is very difficult to "objectively" measure the amount of suffering by the doctor. Of course, I fully agree with you that people should have the option to CTB and end their suffering if they are suffering a lot, be it physically and/or psychologically. Psychological damage is still damage at the end of the day, and people deserve to be free of suffering regardless of how bad it is. I don't really like the gatekeeping of the medical industry, but I suppose they have to have a baseline and start somewhere. After that, then work from that baseline (either to raise or lower it - appropriately).

I would think that if there was a way to "objectively" measure psychological suffering, there would be more doctors and more places that extend euthanasia towards psychological pain and suffering.
 
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SettOne1994

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Good points and yes with mental illnesses and psychological suffering, it is very difficult to "objectively" measure the amount of suffering by the doctor. Of course, I fully agree with you that people should have the option to CTB and end their suffering if they are suffering a lot, be it physically and/or psychologically. Psychological damage is still damage at the end of the day, and people deserve to be free of suffering regardless of how bad it is. I don't really like the gatekeeping of the medical industry, but I suppose they have to have a baseline and start somewhere. After that, then work from that baseline (either to raise or lower it - appropriately).

I would think that if there was a way to "objectively" measure psychological suffering, there would be more doctors and more places that extend euthanasia towards psychological pain and suffering.
indeed. Something i thinked 5 years before when suicide thoughts started is that someone else will never understand what you feel . This is both true but false....People who are successful good people can understand maybe not feel like you but i think maybe they have been in you position once or twice who knows. Something sad i noticed and realised a suicidal person wont give a shit for another suicidal person to actually go help him. Unless there is something to win there like a cbt partner with more efficient methords or a sex partner maybe? Its true that suicidal people for that period they are the most numb motherfkers out there... Them and criminals. Wouldnt give a damn if you are going through the same with him. This doesnt go to say that they wouldnt need a friend. But to provide a gun or something to someone who cant own one and go with this method unless its next door they wouldnt do it . This goes for others who are going their suicidal days to understand we are becoming a little scary careless.... If you know your pain and you are somehow 100% someone else in the same country is going through the same and would love to have instead of a cbt partner a friend to lend him a handgun wouldnt you go there and share your easy method? In this case its yes and no usually negative...As for me reasons would be the effort of travelling , maybe i wouldnt need a cbt partner , or wanting to do actual cbt myself fast. If i needed a friend to share moments id go but this shows my motives are not purely to help the others suffering..... When i realised this concept one day i got really scared and dissapointed. I knew that i pushed away the friends i had by not interacting with them for a long period of time , but i didnt know in all this hell im going through i wouldnt actually help another guy end his life with my gun just for being bored and not motivated enough to travel to that city/country
 
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Berlin76

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the point is mental ilnesses are not like physical in the sense that a doctor is never able to guarantee you have that disease even you that got approved for euthanasia could aswell be bullshiting them and they would never be correct in their choices. This is one reason they dont make it legal. Everyone would jump claiming a mental disorder , everyone then will apply for euthanasia. This is done for moral reasons mostly they dont want people in their first missfortune like loosing their job girlfriend to go and die. Im with the dutch though

What you dont get is that you cannot walk into a euthanasia process without any history of therapy or real things happend to you. You really need to have done everything all therapy forms before getting approved, because if you only had one year od therapy they will send you first back into therapy. They wont even talk further aboout euthanasia with you.
It all can be check in your medical history even that of family.
So bullshitting your way through a euthanasia process is not possible.

They will find inconsistenties in your past and story and reactions.
 
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SettOne1994

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What you dont get is that you cannot walk into a euthanasia process without any history of therapy or real things happend to you. You really need to have done everything all therapy forms before getting approved, because if you only had one year od therapy they will send you first back into therapy. They wont even talk further aboout euthanasia with you.
It all can be check in your medical history even that of family.
So bullshitting your way through a euthanasia process is not possible.

They will find inconsistenties in your past and story and reactions.
what you dont understand is im not saying you will lie about your history or some therapies you went do . Therapies and past trauma happens to all posibbly. Im saying that is very easy to bullshit your way through these kind of things. Its not a murder investigation that proof can be found and you can be sentenced. Its something hidden inside you and the outside appearence can be aswell be a role tha patient takes and goes through therapys and different doctors claiming something he maybe doesnt have. You cant change my mind on this. Answers like where we came from where we going or what is going on EXACTLY in a patients mind cant be proven by a regular human mind with complete accuracy. So either way this law of euthanasia cant be 100% accurate in its appliance. Not by common minds. That doesnt mean i dont approve but past records of what you might have made doctors believe after a long study of that specific disorder cant be called accurate or official results. You can even go play catatonic or just say i hear and see things and you are officially schizophrenic. Can the doctor verify the things you heard and saw? Or can he call you a liar ? Both no....
 
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Berlin76

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Aug 18, 2019
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what you dont understand is im not saying you will lie about your history or some therapies you went do . Therapies and past trauma happens to all posibbly. Im saying that is very easy to bullshit your way through these kind of things. Its not a murder investigation that proof can be found and you can be sentenced. Its something hidden inside you and the outside appearence can be aswell be a role tha patient takes and goes through therapys and different doctors claiming something he maybe doesnt have. You cant change my mind on this. Answers like where we came from where we going or what is going on EXACTLY in a patients mind cant be proven by a regular human mind with complete accuracy. So either way this law of euthanasia cant be 100% accurate in its appliance. Not by common minds. That doesnt mean i dont approve but past records of what you might have made doctors believe after a long study of that specific disorder cant be called accurate or official results. You can even go play catatonic or just say i hear and see things and you are officially schizophrenic. Can the doctor verify the things you heard and saw? Or can he call you a liar ? Both no....

You still dont get it,
You still think you can lie and play your way through, it doesn't work like that. These doctors arent that simple minded that they fall for this childish game's of lies.

I am in this process, I can tell you.
That your idea of playing this of is really delusional. But that is fine, you can think everybody can lie his way trough it.
Ow by the way they hardly approve people below 40, only in rare situations.
 
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Busdriver

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Feb 11, 2020
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I have been reading the 'N' threads ('N' from 'A' and from 'C') for a few days, because I really want to CTB ASAP because of mental problems. I am still investigating and putting peaces together.

I made an account when I saw that Berlin76 is Dutch and is eligible for euthanasia! It made me happy that there is a fellow Dutch guy out there, hating life, busy with euthanasia and actually is granted to get euthanasia!! You are very lucky! Geluksvogel!

Euthansia legislation in the Netherlands is great, but it is very hard to get, especially if you're mentally ill. You need to have gone through almost all treatment options and even then it is hard.

I want euthanasia so bad. It is the only thing I want.. I hope 'C' remains reliable with all the Corona stuff going on.

@Berlin76: congratulations!! Soon this madness of life will be over. I am jealous and happy for you at the same time
 
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