Dumb Question

[BecomingTired]

Have anyone here only realised you liked a dude(or girl) months after you guys stopped talking?

 

[QueerMelancholy]

Like romantically?

Hard to say. It's even harder to say the person I am imagining that person being in my mind is ever what really transpired.

Like the whole rose-tinted glasses idea.

Do I ever fall in love with who someone really is? Or do I fall in love with who I think they are OR how they make me feel?

Hindsight is 20/20 and God humans are such strange creatures. I've loved a few people in my life. People I loved more than myself but even now when I try to imagine those people I feel like I'm just imagining someone that never really existed. And it feels so strange.

 

[BecomingTired]

Like romantically?

Hard to say. It's even harder to say the person I am imagining that person being in my mind is ever what really transpired.

Like the whole rose-tinted glasses idea.

Do I ever fall in love with who someone really is? Or do I fall in love with who I think they are OR how they make me feel?

Hindsight is 20/20 and God humans are such strange creatures. I've loved a few people in my life. People I loved more than myself but even now when I try to imagine those people I feel like I'm just imagining someone that never really existed. And it feels so strange.

I understand what you mean, I was just checking the past messages we sent between eachother the past few years and realised that they weren't exactly as good of a person I remember them as; idk, I still do like them though.