Does anyone else have trouble with their mother?

[SomewhereAlongThe]

My mother has things going on mentally. She probably has Bipolar like I do, except she leaves it untreated. She seems autistic, but idk, that might just be my weird misdiagnosis. I am autistic. She's also an extreme muslim. With that being said, growing up she neglected me, hit me, yelled at me, relentlessly preached to me, made me rub her knees for hours at a time and emotionally abused me. I never loved her. I remember hating her as she beat me up for things I believe were nothing. She pulled my hair out because I refused to attend school, and I never could learn properly in a school environment. She told me I was possessed by demons and treated me like scum. She left me with babysitters at a young age that neglected me and never paid me mind. Most of the time she was like that too, immersed in a religious debate in a YouTube comment section or busy yelling at her video game. She never knew what it was like to have a child, to nurture it. The last time we spoke, she called me stupid. That will be the last time we ever speak. I doubt she cares if I wind up dead. She'll never know anyways.

So yeah, I have issues with my mother. She's abusive and religiously fanatic.

 

[forgivemegod]

Fuck my mother

 

[Cyagangy]

My mother has things going on mentally. She probably has Bipolar like I do, except she leaves it untreated. She seems autistic, but idk, that might just be my weird misdiagnosis. I am autistic. She's also an extreme muslim. With that being said, growing up she neglected me, hit me, yelled at me, relentlessly preached to me, made me rub her knees for hours at a time and emotionally abused me. I never loved her. I remember hating her as she beat me up for things I believe were nothing. She pulled my hair out because I refused to attend school, and I never could learn properly in a school environment. She told me I was possessed by demons and treated me like scum. She left me with babysitters at a young age that neglected me and never paid me mind. Most of the time she was like that too, immersed in a religious debate in a YouTube comment section or busy yelling at her video game. She never knew what it was like to have a child, to nurture it. The last time we spoke, she called me stupid. That will be the last time we ever speak. I doubt she cares if I wind up dead. She'll never know anyways.

So yeah, I have issues with my mother. She's abusive and religiously fanatic.

Yeah I can relate, my mom is bipolar but not super duper religious, I'm sorry you had to go through that.

 

[SadGirl]

My mother has things going on mentally. She probably has Bipolar like I do, except she leaves it untreated. She seems autistic, but idk, that might just be my weird misdiagnosis. I am autistic. She's also an extreme muslim. With that being said, growing up she neglected me, hit me, yelled at me, relentlessly preached to me, made me rub her knees for hours at a time and emotionally abused me. I never loved her. I remember hating her as she beat me up for things I believe were nothing. She pulled my hair out because I refused to attend school, and I never could learn properly in a school environment. She told me I was possessed by demons and treated me like scum. She left me with babysitters at a young age that neglected me and never paid me mind. Most of the time she was like that too, immersed in a religious debate in a YouTube comment section or busy yelling at her video game. She never knew what it was like to have a child, to nurture it. The last time we spoke, she called me stupid. That will be the last time we ever speak. I doubt she cares if I wind up dead. She'll never know anyways.

So yeah, I have issues with my mother. She's abusive and religiously fanatic.

My mother was an alcoholic until 2019. Today, with my father deceased, it's just me and her. We have a good relationship. But ever since I started working and couldn't get back on my feet, my parents were very angry with me. And she's still like that today. We have several fights because of this, which affects me a lot.

 

[Glazed_Orange]

Jesus fucking Christ, your mom is a monster. Who the hell pulls out their kid's hair or calls them possessed for not going to school? That's next-level abuse. No wonder you cut contact—I'd never speak to her again either. She doesn't deserve to know a single thing about your life, let alone whether you're alive or dead.

Are you safe now? Or does her crazy still mess with you? Either way, I hope you've got some distance from that bullshit. You didn't deserve a single second of it.

 

[whywere]

My heart aches for you so much, as I had "parents" who could have cared less if I was alive or not, for real.

Alos having to put up with someone who gets carried away with any form of organized religion is so sad and disruptive in my book.

I knew of people who were ultra-religious, at least in their book, however, when they would go out to eat, instead of a tip for the waiter, they would leave a prayer pamphlet. Ya right like that helped pay the poor waiters bills, other words they were so cheap. So, they were religious, BUT it was about religion helping them and they could care less about others. That is not religion in my book.

That is why I believe in a higher power, but NEVER EVER any form of organized religion ever.

Walter

 

[monetpompo]

My mother has things going on mentally. She probably has Bipolar like I do, except she leaves it untreated. She seems autistic, but idk, that might just be my weird misdiagnosis. I am autistic. She's also an extreme muslim. With that being said, growing up she neglected me, hit me, yelled at me, relentlessly preached to me, made me rub her knees for hours at a time and emotionally abused me. I never loved her. I remember hating her as she beat me up for things I believe were nothing. She pulled my hair out because I refused to attend school, and I never could learn properly in a school environment. She told me I was possessed by demons and treated me like scum. She left me with babysitters at a young age that neglected me and never paid me mind. Most of the time she was like that too, immersed in a religious debate in a YouTube comment section or busy yelling at her video game. She never knew what it was like to have a child, to nurture it. The last time we spoke, she called me stupid.

i relate. i hate my mom. i've pretty much always hated her. she seems to be jealous of my body, since i'm young and attractive (i'm 6/10, no one's ever dated me) and she's obese and has a lot of health problems. she's been super controlling of me all my life and also gets aggressive over stuff for no reason, which is why me and my sister think that she's bipolar. she's never hit me but she yells/yelled at me a lot when i was younger and whenever she's angry. she likes to mock me and talk to me in a condescending way because she still sees me as a baby, and thinks it's funny when i shout at her to stop treating me like that. she has essentially no social circle besides her overseas relatives that leech off of her for money. she tells i'm a useless whore and should leave the house to live on the streets when she's mad at me. i started self harming by slapping myself in the face to cope. i wanted her to hit me because i knew i deserved it, but she knew that i could report it to the police if she did. she never left me a babysitter and i got SAed by my stepbrother (her son). she'll pretty much always think that i'm stupid and that never achieve anything until i die.

my mom was muslim too and sent me to a muslim school. i didn't care about anything i was being taught and i thought the teachers should just flunk me, but they let me graduate even though my grades have always been bad. they knew i was depressed ever since i got enrolled, but they would talk to my sister instead of me about how i was doing badly in school. i wanted the teachers to get mad at me too, since i clearly wasn't trying in class. since the school system's changed, you're not allowed to hit kids anymore, i guess. nowadays i hardly have any motivation to do anything. i hate that i have bipolar like my mom because i'll find myself crying, getting angry, or just switching my mood very quickly. it makes people take me less seriously and assume that i'm just overly emotional about stuff. i figure that i'll just die feeling stupid.