Discussion Does anybody else feels like nothing about life makes sense anymore?

[deadzombie6]

Nothing makes sense literally everything is made up and nothing matters in life . I find everything to be made up , the routine to follow in life , to study , to get a job , to get married , to have kids and then eventually die . Religion feels made up too like I don't understand why I'm supposed to follow made up rules when I don't want to . I'm beyond exhausted to follow these things . When I accomplish something i don't feel happy because someone else is always doing better than me it's not just good enough nothing I do is good enough for people or society in a whole . I'm tired i just wanna be free and happy is that too much to ask for ? Life feels like a dream I don't even feel real . Nothing makes sense they say I gotta be something I gotta do something why is everything so stressful ? Why the fuck does everyone leave they blame the time , they blame me , they blame the situation just why the fuck can't people stay for once . I'm exhausted I don't wanna function in society anymore but the loneliness makes me wanna change myself . Nothing makes sense anymore

 

[Forever Sleep]

I suppose people suggest these things- career, marriage, making a home, having kids, having hobbies/ interests because some people do find fulfilment in them. It's not like all of them are compulsory but I suppose the hope is that we'll have in interest in at least one of them.

A job (sadly) is almost inevitable unless you have loved ones who are willing (and able) to support you. I suppose the focus on getting a career is in the hopes a person will be interested in and partly enjoy the amount of time they will have to spend at work.

Sadly, the way I see it is- we're kind of stuck playing to other people's rules. If we can't realistically get out (suicide,) I suppose it makes a sort of sense to try and make the best out of a bad situation. I think so much of it is trying to opt for the lesser of the evils. Unfortunately though, even they can be massively unpleasant.

I do agree though. I see life as something that can suit certain people. I've not really been an entirely willing participant for several decades now but, focusing on a career was a good coping mechanism for quite a while. As to why we should feel obliged to simply put up with coping with life rather than enjoy it. I guess that's down to the individual. Lots of things hold us back from actually CTB. Fear of failing an attempt, guilt about hurting loved ones.

It's like- I agree in that- my (unwanted) life seems pretty ridiculous to carry on with. Still, the reasons I do carry on make sense. I don't want my suicide to hurt my Dad.

So do the reasons I'm trying to ensure it at least doesn't get any worse. Because that would feel even worse. So, I kind of comply to a handful of 'necessary' life things to avoid being destitute and homeless.

 

[Gangrel]

People work to survive and afford to exist. Your existence costs money; you have to pay to exist. Well i am tired of fucking paying.

 

[idelttoilfsadness21]

People are very sensitive to life because it benefits both their egos and believing it is a beautiful thing to exist, and why they feel the need to equally approach that for others, who they haven't met or known because it's the concepts of life that people live by since modernization and why it's sadly hard to equally leave this world, because they place a lot of importance on human structure than human rights, that money wasn't the foundation of society but trading and how much you had before they made it into liquid assets of wealth for people to distinguish one's high importance and their status than their education, as everyone had free access to education when it was just beginning, but everyone hadn't had the ability to meet those criteria's because the aspect of education was new and you'd still had to walk on, so people in this dumb world had always made things accessible to having selected choices of ideas in their face and took those accessibilities for people to dream on it after it became more commercial to capitalize on it once things became bigger, because it held the standards in this world for what normal was, and that's the most evil thing you can supposedly imagine to, as well.

 

[deadzombie6]

People work to survive and afford to exist. Your existence costs money; you have to pay to exist. Well i am tired of fucking paying.

For me having a job isn't even the big deal that is if i find a job in a country where even the smartest minds are unemploymed cuz there's literally no jobs left around and inflation is so high it sucks being in a third world country

 

[Hollowman]

It's all nonsense, I wish my parents would've used birth control.

 

[Manfrotto99]

Alot of people do want to have children. It's only natural to want to pass your genes on to future generations. A lot of people also view life as an adventure that they look forward to traveling with another person. Many people also don't just work to survive, they work to be productive and creative, to express themselves and receive recognition for their efforts and achievements. When these and other things that give life value and meaning have been taken from us or oppressed so much that we are unable to experience them in any way, then it's only natural to feel life makes no sense and is pointless. Despite every effort, I cannot relate to any of these things. My life is one heck of a pointless waste of time and energy.

 

[Surai]

This world cant let go because the animal allows us to breath. We are just animals with conciousness bubbles that we live two lives one in our head and one moving because of our head

 

[inconstantprayer]

Nothing makes sense literally everything is made up and nothing matters in life . I find everything to be made up , the routine to follow in life , to study , to get a job , to get married , to have kids and then eventually die . Religion feels made up too like I don't understand why I'm supposed to follow made up rules when I don't want to . I'm beyond exhausted to follow these things . When I accomplish something i don't feel happy because someone else is always doing better than me it's not just good enough nothing I do is good enough for people or society in a whole . I'm tired i just wanna be free and happy is that too much to ask for ? Life feels like a dream I don't even feel real . Nothing makes sense they say I gotta be something I gotta do something why is everything so stressful ? Why the fuck does everyone leave they blame the time , they blame me , they blame the situation just why the fuck can't people stay for once . I'm exhausted I don't wanna function in society anymore but the loneliness makes me wanna change myself . Nothing makes sense anymore

Then don't follow. Learn the hard way why all these things actually do make sense. And choose how much or how little to partake of it all. Your life is a gift. I'm sorry you dont see it that way.

 

[Tired_of_myself]

I feel you… my job pays shitty so I have another job at night and now I'm collapsing… nothing makes sense in this shitty and unfair world

 

[brokeandbroken]

Nothing makes sense literally everything is made up and nothing matters in life . I find everything to be made up , the routine to follow in life , to study , to get a job , to get married , to have kids and then eventually die . Religion feels made up too like I don't understand why I'm supposed to follow made up rules when I don't want to . I'm beyond exhausted to follow these things . When I accomplish something i don't feel happy because someone else is always doing better than me it's not just good enough nothing I do is good enough for people or society in a whole . I'm tired i just wanna be free and happy is that too much to ask for ? Life feels like a dream I don't even feel real . Nothing makes sense they say I gotta be something I gotta do something why is everything so stressful ? Why the fuck does everyone leave they blame the time , they blame me , they blame the situation just why the fuck can't people stay for once . I'm exhausted I don't wanna function in society anymore but the loneliness makes me wanna change myself . Nothing makes sense anymore

I would say the question is accurate for me but... The reasons why are different. I don't understand the rules. Why are the heinous criminals given opportunity after opportunity after opportunity but the innocent robbed of all. Lost and abandoned by society. Why aren't they made whole? Why are they led like lambs to the slaughter then cast out. Why are criminals free and the victims in a kind of prison. Why are criminals who I can prove are criminals free and me the one who is innocent left to suffer. I don't understand. If the rules of the game are to be moral monsters and commit crimes with impunity why are we taught the exact opposite. Is there just some general tongue in cheek understanding the empathy is for suckers?

 

[Valhala]

People work to survive and afford to exist. Your existence costs money; you have to pay to exist. Well i am tired of fucking paying.

"People work in order to survive and afford existence". True. When they work, they usually suffer and go through problems and inconveniences, all for the sake of existing. The essence of existence is pain and suffering and, in the best case, maybe a little bit of happiness and joy that is however short-lived and fleeting, while the pain is constant. A nice perspective, really.

Then don't follow. Learn the hard way why all these things actually do make sense. And choose how much or how little to partake of it all. Your life is a gift. I'm sorry you dont see it that way.

Meaning is an extremely individual thing, and most often it is a simple mixture of fear of death, inertia of life and a deeper failure to look at the problems of existence. Of course, having meaning is a completely legitimate thing, but it is also legitimate not to see absolutely any meaning that would be worth all the suffering and pain of life. Everyone he has the right to his own opinion and everyone is a validator of his own existence. The claim that life is a gift is controversial to say the least. A gift in relation to what? And a gift from whom to whom? If if existence is a gift, then that gift was given to something (someone) that does not exist in order for it to exist, if the non-existent does not exist, there is not a single problem related to existence, there is simply nothing that would detect the problem of existence, and non-existence alone cannot be a problem.

 

[SilentSadness]

Reality is absurdity, and absurdity is reality. People wish to make sense of this world, but there is usually no sense to be found. This world is built on lies and contradictions. It's understandable to feel lost and lonely in a world like this, I hope your suffering ends soon.

 

[FoxSauce]

Yeah in this economy and today it shows how difficult to even buy an apartment.

Afford college if you want to. Life ia like a social ladder theres the employee, manager , boss , corporate CEO and so much more ( idk how that actually works) it's puppets, you gotta obey or your end up homeless or arrested, theres also the part of being shamed for not having a house, a 3k salary and a house. Ofc depends on the person but yeah.

The laws can be used to benefit those who are of power , for m*rder, you can be arrested with no chance of parole and maybe someone richer can afford bail or handed a much lesser sentence basically a slap to the face.

Also people that take advantage of the needy, like insurance, funerals , scammers and so much more they get away with it no less. Idk how the government expects people to have a house , pay bills , medical and other things with a simple salary.

I'll say despite all that theres still good people but the majority are just blinded by money and greed to see things, or stubborn or just they know but dont want change.


But basically the world and human race is doomed.


Hope yall have an good day! :>

 

[human909]

Reality is disappointing, we are forced to be trapped here and we have to pay to basically live. I don't know why we can't leave and be forced to stay here and still pay even though we just wanna leave this existent. I hate life people don't get how we feel and i don't get what life is all i get of life is just suffering.