Do you think your suicide could be prevented ?

[saturn1402]

It's just a thought and also based on my personal experience so forgive me for my bias.

I believe that loneliness, feeling misunderstood, and a lack of love or connection are huge factors in why many (not all ofc) people reach this point. If someone had even just one person who truly saw them, genuinely supported them, and made them feel valued, it could make all the difference in so many many cases.

Just wanted to see what's your opinion on this.

 

[Michi_Violeta]

The person who broke me is the one who could also put me back together if she came back and acknowledged she made a mistake, life would make sense again: I'd believe in karma, in fairness, and my value as a partner. That would be enough for me to decide and recover in other areas of my life and would probably mean I'd give up on the idea of suicide altogether.

But life's rewarding her for what she did to me and grass was indeed greener despite all my best efforts. So fuck it, I'll probably end up ending it anyways.

 

[saturn1402]

The person who broke me is the one who could also put me back together if she came back and acknowledged she made a mistake, life would make sense again: I'd believe in karma, in fairness, and my value as a partner. That would be enough for me to decide and recover in other areas of my life and would probably mean I'd give up on the idea of suicide altogether.

But life's rewarding her for what she did to me and grass was indeed greener despite all my best efforts. So fuck it, I'll probably end up ending it anyways.

Same here, exactly same sending you hugs

 

[Forveleth]

No, but maybe? but not really? My suicide has nothing to do with any one particular thing. I am just "done" with life. There is currently a small task keeping me entertained enough to stay but once this task is complete I do not know what I will have the motivation to keep living and if I reach that point my decision is to cease being alive. This is not about making my life better or "fixing" something. I have seen enough and I am done. Unless another small fancy comes along to keep me entertained, I have had enough.

 

[Namelesa]

My suicide will probably not be prevented, only just delayed. I feel like life is a repetitive boring slog so I would eventually want to leave life no matter how I feel after I have done what I wanted to do with it. Also I don't want to live to old age.

 

[Rose Mine]

Not for me. I have all the support I need and it still isn't enough. Idk why I am truly like this

 

[brokeandbroken]

It's just a thought and also based on my personal experience so forgive me for my bias.

I believe that loneliness, feeling misunderstood, and a lack of love or connection are huge factors in why many (not all ofc) people reach this point. If someone had even just one person who truly saw them, genuinely supported them, and made them feel valued, it could make all the difference in so many many cases.

Just wanted to see what's your opinion on this.

I should say in terms of where I'm at nothing is scheduled and not matter what happens it won't ever be scheduled like a root canal. Maybe some planning but it will be when hell becomes to miserable to bear.

In terms of preventing yeah it could be. And the honest truth is there's quite a few ways.

In terms of if I think it will be. No.

The volume of evidence by society seems to be in the we aren't going to lift a finger to help you clawing and scratching doing everything you can to get out of hell. I'd argue most salivate and get enjoyment of seeing me in hell then the opposite feeling bad I'm here.

So yes it's preventable. No I don't believe it will be.

 

[Michi_Violeta]

Same here, exactly same sending you hugs

Likewise, likewise. I know how hellish it is to be so heartbroken life just doesn't make sense anymore and I really wouldn't wish it on any innocent person.

 

[FishRain3469]

I'm so absolutely sick and tired of being sick and Fckn tired... With life on life's terms.... I don't even know anymore, or care for that matter. But I suppose it's possible, Maybe?.. Fml. -

 

[Loser1989]

I feel like a wagie saying this but having a job would give me purpose, but being a NEET for 7 years has kinda F'd me in the A, I'm trying everything I can but taking a chance on me is a huge risk for future employers. I had an interview on Thursday and when I got the rejection on Friday I cried my eyes out. I'm truly thinking of making an experation date for myself. the last time I did that it worked in my favour and I had some hope. Now... I just feel like scum, moping about my days, drinking until I black out. Applying for jobs is too much, it's such a hard place to be in. If I didn't have my parents I'd be screwed, but they're in retirement, it's not fair that their daughter keeps asking for help. I feel I'm shortening their lifespan. I think, if nothing changes, then June will be my Best Before End.

Sorry for the ramble, it's a lot, but I can't tell anyone how I feel. My mum, bless her heart, has tried everything for me, I told her "You'd get over the loss in a year, but until something changes I'll be like this for a while, and I don't want to put you through that"

Why was I chosen to be born haha. It's like some sick cosmic joke.

 

[사람이 없어]

I feel like a wagie saying this but having a job would give me purpose, but being a NEET for 7 years has kinda F'd me in the A, I'm trying everything I can but taking a chance on me is a huge risk for future employers. I had an interview on Thursday and when I got the rejection on Friday I cried my eyes out. I'm truly thinking of making an experation date for myself. the last time I did that it worked in my favour and I had some hope. Now... I just feel like scum, moping about my days, drinking until I black out. Applying for jobs is too much, it's such a hard place to be in. If I didn't have my parents I'd be screwed, but they're in retirement, it's not fair that their daughter keeps asking for help. I feel I'm shortening their lifespan. I think, if nothing changes, then June will be my Best Before End.

Sorry for the ramble, it's a lot, but I can't tell anyone how I feel. My mum, bless her heart, has tried everything for me, I told her "You'd get over the loss in a year, but until something changes I'll be like this for a while, and I don't want to put you through that"

Why was I chosen to be born haha. It's like some sick cosmic joke.

We have very similar stories. I tried so many times, work and school and failed over and over and over again. I'm either low iq or the environment is wrong for me.
Either way my CV is totally dead by now, and even though I've self-studied for years in various things like languages, psychology, medicine, development, arts etc it doesn't matter..
Pretty confident that I could cure some cancer and it still wouldn't change a thing in how employable I am.. lmao..
Then you add in an additional problem I just break easily whenever I get pressured too much. By myself I can handle things for the most part as I can use a lot of techniques to keep myself together, but when you're at the mercy of someone else I don't have that flexibility and then things fall apart..

At this point my only chance at working (beyond some dead-end minimum wage cleaning job at best) would be to be my own employer and run my own business or brand.. Definitely something I've considered, but beyond Only Fans where I do know I'd have a fan base, I struggle with what to sell, as I tend to be harsh on myself and it feels wrong to sell something I am not an expert on.

 

[derekWest]

yes, because i don't hide anything really : no pwd on my pc, poison and medications are stored in a shelf...

but, if i get stop, i will simply execute another mean but more violent : hangng or drowning for example

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

There's nothing I would ever want to live for in a hypothetical supposedly "good" life or "good" world . Much less in this evil prison world and evil life

I will always want to execute my suicide asap . Nothing will stop me. I will kill myself

 

[Loser1989]

We have very similar stories. I tried so many times, work and school and failed over and over and over again. I'm either low iq or the environment is wrong for me.
Either way my CV is totally dead by now, and even though I've self-studied for years in various things like languages, psychology, medicine, development, arts etc it doesn't matter..
Pretty confident that I could cure some cancer and it still wouldn't change a thing in how employable I am.. lmao..
Then you add in an additional problem I just break easily whenever I get pressured too much. By myself I can handle things for the most part as I can use a lot of techniques to keep myself together, but when you're at the mercy of someone else I don't have that flexibility and then things fall apart..

At this point my only chance at working (beyond some dead-end minimum wage cleaning job at best) would be to be my own employer and run my own business or brand.. Definitely something I've considered, but beyond Only Fans where I do know I'd have a fan base, I struggle with what to sell, as I tend to be harsh on myself and it feels wrong to sell something I am not an expert on.

I don't think you're low in the IQ department, I think that life is just a slog. If you've self studied you've done more than me, and you've tried your hand at everything, that is more than a lot of people can say.

I feel your comment about curing cancer though, it's like your achievements don't matter, but how you look on paper. I also break easily when I'm left to do tasks alone, I remember being so overwhelmed at my last job, I was meant to be working with 2 people but then suddenly I was thrown into the deep end, alone, working with sensitive information. I had a breakdown and eventually quit.

I've considered working my own cleaning company, but there are so many in my area it would be such a waste of time and money. Being my own boss sounds great, but everyone has done it and thought of it, it's a joke. I can't drive, I can barely look after myself haha.

What would you say are your strongest assests? You seem like a very smart individual, you don't need to be an expert to have a passion, and I'd like to hear more about what you excel at :)

 

[사람이 없어]

I don't think you're low in the IQ department, I think that life is just a slog. If you've self studied you've done more than me, and you've tried your hand at everything, that is more than a lot of people can say.

I feel your comment about curing cancer though, it's like your achievements don't matter, but how you look on paper. I also break easily when I'm left to do tasks alone, I remember being so overwhelmed at my last job, I was meant to be working with 2 people but then suddenly I was thrown into the deep end, alone, working with sensitive information. I had a breakdown and eventually quit.

I've considered working my own cleaning company, but there are so many in my area it would be such a waste of time and money. Being my own boss sounds great, but everyone has done it and thought of it, it's a joke. I can't drive, I can barely look after myself haha.

What would you say are your strongest assests? You seem like a very smart individual, you don't need to be an expert to have a passion, and I'd like to hear more about what you excel at :)

Homurraaa, you're cool fr ~ <3 Makes me wanna meet you now, haha. I'd be game trying to do something together, worst case we could both just exit this world.
Sad to hear you've gone through something similar, though... I lost a job like that before.. The boss was super nice, and she really cared for me and told me to come back whenever I was ready again, but yeah. ._.;

I'd say I am generally really good at learning quickly and easily, as well as finding ways to optimize things as I am lazy and prefer doing things as efficiently as possible.
I am also extremely curious so I know about a lot of things. Not at an expert level, but I do see the connection and thread between things that others might not see because of said knowledge, and I've also helped many friends or some strangers with their lives and mental health (ironic I know), helping them feel good, get jobs, pick the proper schools and prosper that way. Even relationship advice at times, but I don't feel too secure in that one, lol.
Languages have also generally been an easier thing for me to pick up on and I know multiple languages and have considered picking up more eventually, though my motivation for that is lacking right now.
I have been good at sports and competition, but due to life circumstances I cannot do that right now, if ever again, even though I'd love to, sadly. I exercise daily, though, but that's for my own health.
I am great at making friends and talking to people, too, as I've read/learned a lot about how to do it and how to read people and understand people, lol. Therefore people generally trust me really quickly and easily as well.

Beyond that I am not sure what else I could call my "strongest assets", at least nothing I'd feel confident in calling strong, even though I have a lot of other things I can do. ^^'

How about you? You got anything? :)

 

[divinemistress36]

I think if people got the right help a lot of us could have been helped

 

[steveholt]

MIne is inevitable ...

 

[사람이 없어]

I think if people got the right help a lot of us could have been helped

Yep, think so as well. It's all about finding the right environment for you.. But that costs money, time, takes a lot of trial and error and in today's society that's not a thing you can just do.. Some places it's easier than others, though.. I've seen many things that could seriously help me, but they don't exist where I live, so that sucks..
Heck, I even had a psychologist before tell me I'd be happier not living here and that me being here was part of the issue, lol..

 

[CatLvr]

MIne is inevitable ...

Same here. Just all about timing now. I will NOT break my child's heart. He knows the mess I'm in so it won't come as a shock, but until he is "ready" to accept losing me, I am here for him, no matter how bad my pain is.

Edit: Unlike a lot of people, I have his "permission" or "approval" to take whatever path I choose. He is a wonderful man and I am proud to be his mother. But just because he "approves" doesn't mean he is ready to let me go. So I stay. It's sounds so funny but I would die for that kid! Lol Guess I will live for him, too! What a conundrum! Lol

 

[FuneralCry]

For me I simply just don't want to suffer in this existence, I see existence as the problem, existence to me is an abomination that just causes harm and suffering, it's just so horrific to me how a human can suffer for so long just to face the agony and extreme torture of old age, I'd just never wish for that, I only wish for the peace of an eternal sleep instead, for me suicide would be suffering prevention. I just want to never suffer ever again, in this futile, torturous existence where there is all this endless unnecessary suffering all for the sake of it non-existence really is all that's positive for me.

 

[LostLily]

I have tried so hard to find the desire to live. Even if I don't do it this year, I will do it eventually. I might die in my 30's or in my 60's. Either way, I don't want to grow so old that I am so feeble that I need help to go to the washroom.

 

[Loser1989]

Homurraaa, you're cool fr ~ <3 Makes me wanna meet you now, haha. I'd be game trying to do something together, worst case we could both just exit this world.
Sad to hear you've gone through something similar, though... I lost a job like that before.. The boss was super nice, and she really cared for me and told me to come back whenever I was ready again, but yeah. ._.;

I'd say I am generally really good at learning quickly and easily, as well as finding ways to optimize things as I am lazy and prefer doing things as efficiently as possible.
I am also extremely curious so I know about a lot of things. Not at an expert level, but I do see the connection and thread between things that others might not see because of said knowledge, and I've also helped many friends or some strangers with their lives and mental health (ironic I know), helping them feel good, get jobs, pick the proper schools and prosper that way. Even relationship advice at times, but I don't feel too secure in that one, lol.
Languages have also generally been an easier thing for me to pick up on and I know multiple languages and have considered picking up more eventually, though my motivation for that is lacking right now.
I have been good at sports and competition, but due to life circumstances I cannot do that right now, if ever again, even though I'd love to, sadly. I exercise daily, though, but that's for my own health.
I am great at making friends and talking to people, too, as I've read/learned a lot about how to do it and how to read people and understand people, lol. Therefore people generally trust me really quickly and easily as well.

Beyond that I am not sure what else I could call my "strongest assets", at least nothing I'd feel confident in calling strong, even though I have a lot of other things I can do. ^^'

How about you? You got anything? :)

Depending on where you are in the world that would be cool. It's a vast place though!

Ah yeah, I'm like that too! I like to learn a lot of new things, then I file them away and the knowledge just becomes a faint memory haha. Oh yeah, I do the same thing too, we are very similar, I try my best to help people with their mental health, and friends and family be secure in decisions they make. I'm like the sound board they need haha.

Oooh what languages do you know? I've got weeb level knowledge of Japanese (I can hold a conversation though, something I discovered in Japan when a store clerk kept talking to me haha)
Exercise is good, its meant to release dolphins or something. I'm glad you're keeping up with that, it's something to be proud of, I go on daily walks, but sometimes my knees act up. lol

Being a people person is a stong asset to have, a lot of people say they are but they're just lying. You do seem like a lovely person to be friends with.

I'm caring, I like to buy people small gifts to let them know I'm thinking of them, my mum loves marzipan covered in chocolate and my dad likes liquorice so whenever I go out I try to buy them something. I like to compliment strangers on their appearance, I've struck up many conversations that way and they always react positively. "I like your shoes!" is a cure thing.

Want to move this to PM's so we don't clog OP's thread? :) <3

 

[사람이 없어]

Depending on where you are in the world that would be cool. It's a vast place though!

Ah yeah, I'm like that too! I like to learn a lot of new things, then I file them away and the knowledge just becomes a faint memory haha. Oh yeah, I do the same thing too, we are very similar, I try my best to help people with their mental health, and friends and family be secure in decisions they make. I'm like the sound board they need haha.

Oooh what languages do you know? I've got weeb level knowledge of Japanese (I can hold a conversation though, something I discovered in Japan when a store clerk kept talking to me haha)
Exercise is good, its meant to release dolphins or something. I'm glad you're keeping up with that, it's something to be proud of, I go on daily walks, but sometimes my knees act up. lol

Being a people person is a stong asset to have, a lot of people say they are but they're just lying. You do seem like a lovely person to be friends with.

I'm caring, I like to buy people small gifts to let them know I'm thinking of them, my mum loves marzipan covered in chocolate and my dad likes liquorice so whenever I go out I try to buy them something. I like to compliment strangers on their appearance, I've struck up many conversations that way and they always react positively. "I like your shoes!" is a cure thing.

Want to move this to PM's so we don't clog OP's thread? :) <3

Sure let's do that. Sorry OP for hijacking the thread!! The more I learn about you, the more I want to meet you, haha, though knowing my luck you're probably on the other side of the globe. The Japanese skill sounds super cool, and omggg, that's so sweet of you!!! And YES complimenting strangers definitely is a big W. It's something I like doing myself, though anxiety definitely does get to me at times, so it can take me a minute or two, circling around my "target" before I compliment them. Though there's a high likelihood it ends in a hug as well, haha. (I love hugs!)
As for me, I know Danish, English, Polish, Korean, though only kinda fluent in English/Danish—English being the strongest language I know. ^^" Do plan on learning Japanese, Chinese and maybe Thai in the future, though, and even tried, but due to lack of motivation I usually burn out within a month. /blerp

 

[livingonlytodie]

Unfortunately no. No matter how much money I have, clothes & shoes I own , I will always want to ctb. The world we live in is not a kind one. People say life is a gift but it's a gift that costs money?? YOU LITERALLY PAY FOR EVERYTHING IN LIFE !!! "the cost of living" is a normalized yet oh SO fucked up phrase smh.

 

[Promised Heaven]

A handful of things can prevent me from wanting to end my life, but as it stands, it's unrealistic...but not impossible.

Simple words aren't enough to make me choose life. "You're not a burden" is possibly the biggest lie I've ever been told for the past decade, I've lost friends, social support, family respect, and a sense of community and belonging for being a burden, and the only reason I haven't lost my job is because I keep my head down and keep to myself, but it doesn't deny I am, in fact, a burden.

But despite it all, I'd like to think my suicide is preventable, I know how it can be, but if I am a burden to everyone, and I am in constant emotional distress...it'll take a lot for me to choose life for the long term.

 

[soledad.virgen]

maybe if my favorite person forgave me for all my wrongs, but at the same time my life and well being is not her responsibility, so i have to commit to my plans anyways. i will always feel empty, i will always feel lost, ill always hate the state that the world is in, just how much casual cruelty and acceptance of suffering there is. i will always hate myself above it all

 

[-nobodyknows-]

In theory. Realistically though… no, I don't it can be at this point.

 

[DarknessAtNoon]

Delayed? Yes. Prevented entirely? No

 

[plan c]

If I succeed in splitting my personality. Or if I have a powerful enough distraction from reality.
There could be some chance. but not much

 

[lawr]

It's just a thought and also based on my personal experience so forgive me for my bias.

I believe that loneliness, feeling misunderstood, and a lack of love or connection are huge factors in why many (not all ofc) people reach this point. If someone had even just one person who truly saw them, genuinely supported them, and made them feel valued, it could make all the difference in so many many cases.

Just wanted to see what's your opinion on this.

Yup, it's exactly like this for me, word for word. I'm sure if I had someone like this I wouldn't even think about suicide at all. The times I (thought) I had this were the only times in my life I was ever happy at all. But it is true that despite anything, I don't have that intrinsic instinctual excitement about life that they say we're supposed to have. The only thing that seems special to me or gives life any meaning at all is love and romance. Sometimes art. But it's still largely meaningless to me in the absence of someone to share it with.