Do you look normal?

[dandan]

I am intrigued how I do look normal. I work as an employee, go to the office everyday, hang out with my roommate every now and then. No one knows I'm suicidal, just you guys. And my mom and brother, but ain't talking to me or me to them.

Damm, maybe that's the scariest part? Real suicidals look normal and one day they just end it?

What do you think?

 

[Dead beat dad]

Is there a 'classic' look? Given the amount of suicides there are I doubt there is a stereotypical look.
I'm normal, right now I'm reading Guns and Ammo, masturbating in my own faeces, you know... Normal stuff... (Sorry I couldn't resist).
Peace brother.

DBD

 

[NoOneKnows]

i dunno, maybe this is off topic but my glasses that I have for 8 years just broke on one side, and I cant afford new and acnt wear contacts, so hopefully Monday I finally ctb goddamit

 

[Cookiedough8956]

I look "normal" - hence a lot of people think I'm an attn seeker when I do decide to blurt out anything.
Sadly, ppl say I'm the opposite of what I truly am just cause of my outer appearance.
That hurts- and at this point, I have no energy to even say anything back. Don't care as much as I used to.

 

[throwaway777]

i really look miserable... i dont think plp will be surprised when i kms

 

[uiop]

Yes, appearances are everything. We should all strive to look "normal", blend in with society, and make it seem like we don't want to kill ourselves, even though we are hurting inside. Otherwise we get labeled, ostracized, and stigmatized. I feel that this is the most difficult part of being suicidal: pretending everything is okay.

 

[throwaway777]

Yes, appearances are everything. We should all strive to look "normal", blend in with society, and make it seem like we don't want to kill ourselves, even though we are hurting inside. Otherwise we get labeled, ostracized, and stigmatized. I feel that this is the most difficult part of being suicidal: pretending everything is okay.

one of my reasons to kms

 

[Psilo]

I look like a wandering hopeless piece of trash.

 

[throwaway777]

I look like a wandering hopeless piece of trash.

u look like me ));

 

[TheGoodGuy]

Well I haven´t gotten a haircut in 8 months but I don´t look sad or depressed to people I just put my "mask of illusion on" and act like society wants me to I also go tanning so I don´t look pale or sick. A lot of people will be shocked when I commit suicide because there haven´t been any warning signs.

 

[Chalken]

I probably look miserable with my terrible hygiene, asociality and unapproachable attitude. No wonder I'm always alone.

 

[F_ckthisplace]

Bruh i look like an extra-terestrial

 

[WOODESITY]

I look weird, I mostly can't keep my head up and look in eyes which is worst part of me, always looking mad and angry and rarely smile and if i do I feel bad

 

[Jc40]

Yeah I've been keeping it all inside, nobody knows, I look like anyone else, though I only have my 2 front teeth left and some bottom ones. I say when my 2 front teeth go I'll go but have time frame otherwise. But yeah there's not a look I don't think.

 

[GeorgeJL]

Yeah no I look pretty normal. Depression and anxiety isn't partial, but bad looks probably are to a degree for suicide.

 

[myrtaryniel]

I know close people notice i'm in a very bad place 'cause I never leave my house or hang out with friends anymore. I dropped my classes but I know no one will miss me there either.
Apart from that I've always been a little weird socially and depressive and it showed, but just not all the time. I guess people just think i'm a little shy and that's it.

 

[Sick Boy]

Some people tell´s me i look sad,i think i have a low energy depressive look

 

[DepressionsAHo]

Sigh yes
I'm traditionally a very attractive person. I am very pretty but it doesn't help anything. When you're good looking, that's all people ever think of you as. I had a 70 year old landlord who used to hit on Me constantly. He called every young girl "a fine piece of pussy". When I went to sue him for multiple things he had done to me, I told the judge about an instance where he offered to take nude pictures of me and he shrugged it off and said quote "well maybe he only hits on the pretty ones"

 

[elizabeth.luck]

No, I don't think I do. I never brush my hair. I don't look people in the eye. I have weird facial movements. No one would ever make the mistake of thinking I'm normal.

 

[silentsinger]

I'm an ugly Bastard lol

Sigh yes
I'm traditionally a very attractive person. I am very pretty but it doesn't help anything. When you're good looking, that's all people ever think of you as. I had a 70 year old landlord who used to hit on Me constantly. He called every young girl "a fine piece of pussy". When I went to sue him for multiple things he had done to me, I told the judge about an instance where he offered to take nude pictures of me and he said shrugged it off and said quote "well maybe he only hits on the pretty ones"

That is disgusting behaviour. I hope karma comes around quickly for those sickos. I'm so sorry to hear about that.

 

[DepressionsAHo]

That is disgusting behaviour. I hope karma comes around quickly for those sickos. I'm so sorry to hear about that.
[/QUOTE]
Thank you, it's much appreciated. I couldn't believe it. That landlord had actually assaulted me and that's why I was suing him. The judge took literally one look at a single picture which was the smallest of the injuries, (even though I had numerous other showing the bruises he put on me), ignored every single text message that proved me right and declared me as a liar. I lost the case. I was mad about that of course but it really got to me that someone in such a high position could be so brazen as to say that to me. If you want to compliment me, that's fine and dandy but know the environment in which its appropriate. I couldn't stop crying after that cause I felt so manipulated and disgusted by that comment. @silentsinger
This is what being conventionally attractive is though.
Don't feel left out cause you think you're ugly people please. Jay z got with Beyonce

 

[FTL.Wanderer]

I am intrigued how I do look normal. I work as an employee, go to the office everyday, hang out with my roommate every now and then. No one knows I'm suicidal, just you guys. And my mom and brother, but ain't talking to me or me to them.

Damm, maybe that's the scariest part? Real suicidals look normal and one day they just end it?

What do you think?

I thought this post was going to be about physical appearance--like, "Do ugly people commit suicide more often?" But I agree with you. I know I try really hard to act normal. And I read all the time posts from other suicidal people saying the same. The world demands we seem "normal." You've probably read those reports by biologists and anthropologists about how it's hard-wired into our species to detect "abnormal behavior" as a potential threat and to isolate these threats (alienate). I think a lot of us, therefore, get the message from youth: act-right-or-else. Underscores mental health's hypocritical stance: "Open up to those around you..." HAHAHAHA! Riiiiiiiiight!

i dunno, maybe this is off topic but my glasses that I have for 8 years just broke on one side, and I cant afford new and acnt wear contacts, so hopefully Monday I finally ctb goddamit

Where did you get your avatar's gif? That is AWESOME!!!!!!!!!

I probably look miserable with my terrible hygiene, asociality and unapproachable attitude. No wonder I'm always alone.

HUG ---> {Chalken}

 

[TheFinalCountdown]

There's always been something wrong with the way I look that has destroyed my confidence. When I was younger it was acne as soon as I got over that I started to noticeably bald. I'm also quite short which has always bothered me

 

[dandan]

I ones reading replies, yeah some of us surely even loo suicidal some days, no combing, no shaving, dirty looks...

Some of us look so "normal" that people would be shock if we ever ctb...

People would be like: "what happened to that guy/girl... he/She looked so fine"

I don't have the looks of a suicidal guy but hey.... Life sucks doesn't it.... I'm trying to find a way to live.... But I'm having such a hard time...... But I'm trying...

 

[SadGirl]

I am intrigued how I do look normal. I work as an employee, go to the office everyday, hang out with my roommate every now and then. No one knows I'm suicidal, just you guys. And my mom and brother, but ain't talking to me or me to them.

Damm, maybe that's the scariest part? Real suicidals look normal and one day they just end it?

What do you think?

I always had a lonely, depressive childhood, I do not know what my problem is almost never catch people's attention, I've never been popular and this has never changed over the course of my life, some people say that I seem to be strange in some way , besides I also agree with that

Some people tell´s me i look sad,i think i have a low energy depressive look

Me too

 

[Superfluous]

Where did you get your avatar's gif? That is AWESOME!!!!!!!!!

@FTL.Wanderer Right-click the image and select 'Search google for image'