IsThisTheEnd?

IsThisTheEnd?

Mange
Aug 6, 2020
575
I think one of the most isolating things is not having friendships etc but what if you knew some-else who was depressed this might be great?
 
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CuddleHug

CuddleHug

Back, but with less enthusiasm. Hugs~
Feb 22, 2020
259
Most of my friends are depressed or even suicidal. Everyone else has left. Only those who understand my struggles stay with me because they can share their deepest, darkest thoughts with me as well. It is good to be able to talk about it without being judged, but it can also be a bit suffocating because almost every conversation ends up being sad in one way or another.
 
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miguel6565

miguel6565

Arcanist
Apr 5, 2020
421
i dont have friends
 
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Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ Right now, I'm stressed
Jul 1, 2020
6,897
basically the only friends i have are depressed. all my non depressed friends are the ones that helped my parents make me depressed soooooooooo. the good thing about depressed friends is they understand you. the upsetting part is watching them struggle and doing as much as you can even though its not always enough.
i dont have friends
youre my friend :)
 
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Good4Nothing

Good4Nothing

Unlovable
May 8, 2020
1,865
None of my friends are depressed. Earlier this year I met a depressed girl and tried to be her friend, but she decided I needed to be destroyed Instead. Now I think I'm done even trying to make new friends.
 
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GravityUtilizer

GravityUtilizer

Born to lose
May 22, 2020
737
Yeah but she's currently ignoring me and I don't know why and it sucks but maybe she's too depressed. Can't help but feel it's me though. Which is just great for my depression!
 
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BitterlyAlive

BitterlyAlive

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Apr 8, 2020
1,635
Yes, three of my friends struggle with varying degrees of depression. It's kinda nice because we can all relate and support one another.
 
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Aug 27, 2020
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I mostly had non-depressed (not cronic, at least) friends most of my life, but i had one friend that was heavily depressed, but kind of in a different way than me.
I enjoyed talking with him for hours. Suicide could be freely talked about, and most of the dark sides of our personality, but i also couldnt stand being with him too much in a row (meaning 1 hour of direct contact would burn me, and also remind me of how i probably burn others the same way). I loved him much, but we ended badly.

I also long for depressed friendships xD but from the desire to connect. If i look at it reallistically, in my case, i believe we would burn up from the inability to fill our friendly needs, or deal with our social awkwardness

PD: i see how this line of thought will leave me alone forever xD
 
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RottenDeer

RottenDeer

Rotten to the core.
Feb 29, 2020
157
My friend circle is dealing with mental health issues as well. I can only get close to someone who knows my struggle.
 
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IsThisTheEnd?

IsThisTheEnd?

Mange
Aug 6, 2020
575
how can I meet someone with a similar mindset to mine?

I feel very alienated.
 
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deadgirlahsatan

deadgirlahsatan

Specialist
Jun 5, 2020
373
Irl i have no friends. My cat is my friend. Just no human friends.
 
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IsThisTheEnd?

IsThisTheEnd?

Mange
Aug 6, 2020
575
same my Dog is my bf - it's got to change a bit though, I wish I had chosen to work with animals I think I could of met some nice people doing that.
 
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deadgirlahsatan

deadgirlahsatan

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Jun 5, 2020
373
same my Dog is my bf - it's got to change a bit though, I wish I had chosen to work with animals I think I could of met some nice people doing that.
I wish i could have a job working with animals too.
 
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Breadbfra

Breadbfra

Specialist
Jul 16, 2020
374
Actually I'm scared I may have too many
 
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Shinkansen

Shinkansen

life is pain
Jul 14, 2020
615
my parents always been depressed: my mother attempted suicide when I was 6 but failed.
 
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AllReturnsToNothing

I'm useless
Aug 5, 2020
222
Being surrounded by other depressed people isn't as great as you'd think. My whole family is mentally fucked up. My abusive mom having schizophrenia gave my siblings and I all depression and in High School I just tended to gravitate towards other depressed people. It all seems well and good until you start realizing your just burdening them further by trying to vent about how you feel. Like I got in touch with a close friend from how school to tell her I was suicidal. She told me she was suicidal in high school and just reminded me just how much i'm not helping her by burdening her with my problems. Not having friends is isolating but not being able to talk to any of the people in your life about anything might be even more isolating.
 
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alexit

Mage
Jun 3, 2020
509
I think one of the most isolating things is not having friendships etc but what if you knew some-else who was depressed this might be great?
I avoid friendships at all cost. But yeah I've met other depressed people.
 
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BPD Barbie

BPD Barbie

Visionary
Dec 1, 2019
2,361
The only other properly depressed people I know are on this website. In my personal life I don't know anyone who has genuine depression outside the usual off and down days people have. I also don't really have many friends so not many people to compare it to.
 
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Myforevercharlie

Myforevercharlie

Global Mod
Feb 13, 2020
3,103
Three of my closest friends are struggling with depression , so is my son, my mom has BPD, and I know about 12 from my former therapy group with diverse diagnosis
 
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fat feet

Throw away.
Sep 1, 2020
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mathieu

mathieu

Enlightened
Jun 5, 2019
1,090
I have no friends. But of all the ones I've had in the past, most were depressed and anxious like me.
 
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Sinai Silence

Sinai Silence

I think I'ma die alone inside my room
Jul 6, 2020
810
People come to me telling me about their problems and offloading all their baggage of mental turmoil onto me. But when it comes to me trying to open up to them they wont give me the time of day. I know people who are depressed but I don't have friends who are depressed. Friends are meant to be there for each other.
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,031
Almost all of my friends are depressed in some way, except for the ones in relationships. Imagine that...:shy:
 
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deadgirlahsatan

deadgirlahsatan

Specialist
Jun 5, 2020
373
The only people I actually speak to are now here or on you tube about politics.

I don't have any friends either.

I am thinking today if I make it out of this depression I will get a pet.
Hope u can get an animal friend. :heart: :happy:
 
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