Just thought this might be an appropriate place to offer up something I discovered during my years enslaved by lady H. In case you weren't aware, it eliminates the libido and sensitivity. Anyone experiencing similar issues due to antidepressants or another reason, could safely give it a try.
I'm not usually one for herbal remedies or supplements, but I swear, this overcame the numbing effect of opiates, so might be of interest.
It's called Avena sativa oat oil. You can buy it from health food stores. It's not magic, so you need to stick with it for a couple of weeks before it gets going.
It has a pipette which you use to add 2-3 drops to a small glass of water morning and night.
Ignore the brand in the image.. it's just an example.