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Fire&Ash

Fire&Ash

Specialist
Apr 15, 2020
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Hi guys. I made a new post to ask about this in particular. Death certificates. I have a debit/credit card, I have a job, a car, car insurance that I share under my dad. What else involved a death certificate? I don't know how many I will need. How do I request and pay them off ahead of time so my parents won't need to do it. Again, I mentioned in a previous post I don't want my body to be identified or autopsied, so how to get around that? Surely there is a way, because how do people with no primary/extended family get themselves identified and receive their very quickly after things like cancer etc. need some serious thought here because I refuse for my family to do this
 
UpandDownPrincess

UpandDownPrincess

Elementalist
Dec 31, 2019
833
You must let go of this. You cannot control what happens after you are gone.

You cannot prepay for death certificates. That would be clue one that you are planning to ctb.

The only thing I can think of that might be of any help is to prepay your funeral expenses, but you have said you don't want that.

People who die without family are either declared missing and never recover or their affairs simply go unfinished.

You cannot prevent an autopsy on an otherwise healthy body. And because many families insist that their loved one "could not possibly have committed suicide," autopsies are now common on suspected suicides.

There is no way to guarantee that your family will not find out about your death or have to deal with the fallout. It's just not possible. Especially since you share an auto policy with your dad. You are joined to them by paperwork in life and will be joined to them by paperwork in death. That's just how it is now.
 
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