Discussion CTB in Hotel or at home ?

[Sbetto]

Why do many people prefer to CTB in a hotel rather than at home? Is it because they're afraid of being saved, or because they don't want to traumatize their loved ones, knowing they'd have to keep living in the same place where their child died?
My method will be SN. I was planning to do it at home, in my bed, while everyone else is sleeping. Do you think it's a good idea? I've been told it might be a bad idea.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I want to do it in a hotel because I'm afraid of being "saved" plus I don't want them to deal with the trauma of seeing my body. My main concern though is being "saved" since my parents are extremely light sleepers and will 100% wake up to me vomiting and will call the ambulance on me

 

[Forveleth]

Several reasons:

• Some people cannot get privacy for the necessary 8 hours at home
• Some people do not want to leave a mess at home
• Some people do not want to traumatize family members
• Some people want to physically distance themselves from home (ie, traveling to another state/country)

 

[ramon]

Planning to CTB at home.

I live alone at a rental apartment that is close to the hospital where I was born... quite symbolic, isn't it?

I just feel bad for leaving the landlord with the mess my rotting corpse will make. He's been so good to me, so far.

 

[sizzle440]

Why do many people prefer to CTB in a hotel rather than at home? Is it because they're afraid of being saved, or because they don't want to traumatize their loved ones, knowing they'd have to keep living in the same place where their child died?
My method will be SN. I was planning to do it at home, in my bed, while everyone else is sleeping. Do you think it's a good idea? I've been told it might be a bad idea.

Resale value of the house goes down. Not a good vibe for the neighbors either. I can't bear the thought of family finding my corpse. It's going to be absolutely horrible for my family. At least they can be in their home without thinking of my dead body. Depends if you hate your family or not. Suicide is a d*ck move. I'm not strong enough to keep going, but I'm not going to be an absolute monster about it. Booking a hotel or airbnb as soon my drugs arrive.

 

[areyousafe??]

I'm planning to do it in the comfort of my own apartment. I live alone, but my family has the keys to my apartment. I don't want them finding my dead body so will need to work out how to send a delayed message to authorities for someone to collect my body.

 

[ScaredOfMachines]

I would prefer a hotel, but home is the realistic option unfortunately. I'm not afraid of being saved, and I'm going to leave a note on my door telling my dad to call the police if it's on there, so he hopefully avoids finding my body. We had a relative commit suicide in our house before and we never really viewed home as being their tomb, so I think he'll be okay on that front.

 

[Roadrunner]

I'm planning to hike into the middle of a frozen forest, then drink my SN there. Hopefully when my corpse is discovered it'll just be bones?

 

[beseechgod]

I'm planning to hike into the middle of a frozen forest, then drink my SN there. Hopefully when my corpse is discovered it'll just be bones?

I wish I knew of a remote place like that around where I live.

 

[ringo99]

Home. In my country when a person ctbs in a hotel it creates a nightmare of red tape to get the body back for the funeral. There are also instances where hotel staff verbally or even physically abuse family members of the deceased. With zero repercussions of course since they're usually politically connected.......Don't want my parents to go through all that. I'm an only child so my family line ends with me. I doubt my parents will be around long enough to worry about resale value. Besides I'd rather ctb in familiar surroundings.

 

[bananaolympus]

If you live alone then you don't need other place to ctb, most do it because they don't live alone so the risk they find you is greater

 

[martinso67]

Home. In my country when a person ctbs in a hotel it creates a nightmare of red tape to get the body back for the funeral. There are also instances where hotel staff verbally or even physically abuse family members of the deceased. With zero repercussions of course since they're usually politically connected.......Don't want my parents to go through all that. I'm an only child so my family line ends with me. I doubt my parents will be around long enough to worry about resale value. Besides I'd rather ctb in familiar surroundings.

WTF.
I saw in my country's legal policy of hotels a paragraph mentioning death of a hotel guest that is used by this hotel and other hotels. It says the legal successor (who inherits you) is responsible for paying any mess the death caused and loss of rent days due to that.
That legal paragraph fact made me feel more at ease choosing the right location.

 

[JesiBel]

My house is my safe place.

I don't know how it is in other countries, but if your corpse is found by the police or another person who doesn't know you, your family must go and identify it..

The identity of a deceased person (in "strange situations") is always investigated to find their relatives or close friends.. The authorities are the ones who will remove the corpse, and whoever sees you first.

In any case, I think it is important to leave notes, and try to make the "scene" as less traumatic as possible.. It will depend on the "method" each person chooses.

 

[cme-dme]

Never really thought about it before but if it is an option, I'd like to avoid my family seeing my corpse. I'd probably drive somewhere far away from home and book a hotel to do the deed. I wonder though, how long would it take for hotel staff/authorities to discover my corpse? I'd like if my corpse was found not too long after death.

 

[Monique696]

Does anyone know how long the police would confiscate the apartment after a suicide? It would be cruel if the others could not even enter their apartment or house after the act itself. Then id rather plan with the extra costs with the hotel

 

[devils~advocate]

I plan on this at my family home. I want to be where my ancestors lived & my family currently lives in.
Its honorable for me to be there....to end this on my own free will & not live to an age where I'd probably die in a hospital sometime in the future.
This is just my opinion.

I want my family to find me....along with notes & recordings that I have made for them.
I'll have it all laid out in folders...bank information, 401k, passwords, email accounts, photos, how I want the funeral set up....etc, etc..and a Will.

I know this will hurt certain ones in my family to see me that way. But I want to be with them until my last breathe.....I care for them so much.
I have guilt about all this as well. In the long run, it is best for me to do it at my family home...it makes so I have at least some control on how things end for me.

 

[Syrka]

Before I thought about doing it again at home, but thanks to this website I will do it in a hotel in my city. It is the best option to be calm and know that they are not going to catch you

 

[Well_Its_Time]

I was going to do it in the car in my garage, but I think that would bring the value of house I own with my wife that I am divorcing and I want her to have the most money from the house. Will leave notes for staff to call police before they see me. I have a thick plastic tarp for the bed. I will wear diapers and put the AC as low as it goes.

 

[Monique696]

I was going to do it in the car in my garage, but I think that would bring the value of house I own with my wife that I am divorcing and I want her to have the most money from the house. Will leave notes for staff to call police before they see me. I have a thick plastic tarp for the bed. I will wear diapers and put the AC as low as it goes.

That is very considerate of you.

 

[Well_Its_Time]

That is very considerate of you.

she is the love of my life and I take full blame for the marriage falling apart. She deserves better

 

[Monique696]

she is the love of my life and I take full blame for the marriage falling apart. She deserves better

I'm very sorry. If only there was a way back

 

[Well_Its_Time]

I'm very sorry. If only there was a way back

I take full responsibility for my reaction to things she wrote in a chat which destroyed me and with my mental health, I went all out on her and that broke our marriage. I said horrible things because I felt that I was a wounded animal being attacked. Nothing brings back time.

I take full responsibility for my reaction to things she wrote in a chat which destroyed me and with my mental health, I went all out on her and that broke our marriage. I said horrible things because I felt that I was a wounded animal being attacked. Nothing brings back time.

And then a friend of mine writes to me that she loves me and it hurt so much because that is what my wife and I wrote to each other all the time. It is the love love and not the friendship love; I told her I couldn't handle that right now.

 

[Monique696]

I take full responsibility for my reaction to things she wrote in a chat which destroyed me and with my mental health, I went all out on her and that broke our marriage. I said horrible things because I felt that I was a wounded animal being attacked. Nothing brings back time.

Words can be forgiven but I don't know what happened between the two of you. Ending yourself out of a broken heart (that can heal with time) is sad. I hope you try to rekindle what you had. Maybe not all hope is lost.
I wish you the best of luck and support.

 

[Manola]

Why do many people prefer to CTB in a hotel rather than at home? Is it because they're afraid of being saved, or because they don't want to traumatize their loved ones, knowing they'd have to keep living in the same place where their child died?
My method will be SN. I was planning to do it at home, in my bed, while everyone else is sleeping. Do you think it's a good idea? I've been told it might be a bad idea.

I would prefer to be home. But traumatizing my kids isn't on the menu. Honestly just thinking about letting this UTI go septic and refuse treatment. Maybe if it's a medical death my kids can get the life insurance.

 

[martinso67]

I was going to do it in the car in my garage, but I think that would bring the value of house I own with my wife that I am divorcing and I want her to have the most money from the house. Will leave notes for staff to call police before they see me. I have a thick plastic tarp for the bed. I will wear diapers and put the AC as low as it goes.

I will use some wrapping for the bed and anti odor diapers. But I don't know how to send a delayed message to the police and when (is 24 hours, 30, or 48 hours enough for waiting time before police/authority informed? )

 

[Well_Its_Time]

I will use some wrapping for the bed and anti odor diapers. But I don't know how to send a delayed message to the police and when (is 24 hours, 30, or 48 hours enough for waiting time before police/authority informed? )

You can do it by scheduled message on Yahoo or Gmail and send them an email