ostaja123

ostaja123

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Dec 18, 2025
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I can not start conversations. It bugs out am I only one having this problem?
 
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Not sure if they (you OP,) mean in real life or, the ability to PM people here? Here- as darksouls said, you need a certain amount of posts to unlock that I think.

In real life though? Is that what you mean?
 
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Nov 9, 2025
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Same, probably. How do you feel when you try to start a conversation?
 
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Same, probably. How do you feel when you try to start a conversation?
For many years it felt rly scary to be the one to start conversations for me. Idk why but it was always incredibly stressful.

Nowadays it feels a lot easier. One thing I do sometimes is I pretend I'm someone other than myself. Like, I imagine in my head this very confident and cool-looking person and just pretend to be that person for the 30 seconds it takes to be the first one to say something.

Also, depending on who you're trying to talk to (if it's some random person at a shop or something) you can also keep in mind that even if the conversations goes horribly wrong and you end up looking like an idiot (speaking from experience here....) you'll never actually have to see that person ever again in your entire life. For me at least, that tends to get the pressure off.
 
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Like, I imagine in my head this very confident and cool-looking person and just pretend to be that person for the 30 seconds it takes to be the first one to say something.
Who knows, maybe you actually are that cool-looking person
 
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Who knows, maybe you actually are that cool-looking person
Thank u, that's very nice of u to say :) but I dont have to be, as long as I'm delusional enough to believe I am for a few seconds hahahahhaha.
 
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Not sure if they (you OP,) mean in real life or, the ability to PM people here? Here- as darksouls said, you need a certain amount of posts to unlock that I think.

In real life though? Is that what you mean?
It seems OP means the ability to PM.
By the way I have this bug in real life... I know it comes from my genetic codes and someone please fix me
 
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