Venting Community

[Life_and_Death]

So i recently joined this server.
My friend would prefer that i didnt. And hes not exactly wrong. He doesnt know everything and just doesnt like it for what it is. I on the other hand am kinda concered, expecially with the backup server they want us to join. Lets just say the problem we have here, being fasly accused of minors and encouragment, well this place is. But i like it and i feel like i can fit in here. I know its wrong and unhealthy for me. Thats clearly obvious considering id choose to be in pain, even though my husband got me what i need to stop it, just so i dont lose a competition.

I know its an unhealthy place for me, but i dont want to leave it

 

[Pluto]

The non-judgemental atmosphere here is something that is unavailable virtually anywhere else. Of course that carries with it the risk of pushing good people going through temporary turbulence towards a tragic and final end. Perhaps the niche of this website must always exist in our dysfunctional society, and it's up to each of us to try to make the community as constructive as possible.

 

[Life_and_Death]

The non-judgemental atmosphere here is something that is unavailable virtually anywhere else.

the last thing i would call this place (ss i assume you meant) is "non-judgmental"

 

[Pluto]

the last thing i would call this place (ss i assume you meant) is "non-judgmental"

Perhaps that's the wrong term. But where else can one vent freely or openly contemplate end-of-life thoughts without being censored or shot down? This is what I meant.

 

[Life_and_Death]

Perhaps that's the wrong term. But where else can one vent freely or openly contemplate end-of-life thoughts without being censored or shot down? This is what I meant.

im still not exactly sure what you mean by your comment in general. youre specifically talking about this website. while im sure im being vague in the OP i wasnt talking about here, i just dont want to give away anything about the other place

 

[Pluto]

im still not exactly sure what you mean by your comment in general. youre specifically talking about this website. while im sure im being vague in the OP i wasnt talking about here, i just dont want to give away anything about the other place

My bad. I was referring to this place. Not sure about any others!

 

[Kattt]

It's human nature to fear that which we don't understand

 

[Life_and_Death]

It's human nature to fear that which we don't understand

i dont fear anything, do you mean my friend? he doesnt fear anything either and has a good reason to feel the way he does.

 

[Kattt]

i dont fear anything, do you mean my friend? he doesnt fear anything either and has a good reason to feel the way he does.

fear becomes hate

 

[Life_and_Death]

fear becomes hate

what hate? are you sure you read the OP. or even better, understood what it was about?

 

[Kattt]

he doesn't understand the fuction of the community,thus he fears it-dislikes it

 

[Life_and_Death]

he doesn't understand the fuction of the community,thus he fears it-dislikes it

its a community where i starve myself, like i said

has a good reason to feel the way he does.

you shouldnt make assumptions, when most people do theyre typically wrong

 

[Kattt]

its a community where i starve myself, like i said

you shouldnt make assumptions, when most people do theyre typically wrong

I see your point. He still doesn't understand any of it-education is the key to reducing hatred. Unfortunately, some tings are just too ingrained in people's minds

 

[Life_and_Death]

I see your point. He still doesn't understand any of it-education is the key to reducing hatred. Unfortunately, some tings are just too ingrained in people's minds

please stop commenting on this. all youre doing is proving to me how little you understand this specific case, which really makes what you say completely useless. this is the last time im going to repeat myself

has a good reason to feel the way he does.

this isnt an education thing, this is him concerned about my health and well being. theres a very big difference here so please stop thinking you know everything

 

[Kattt]

please stop commenting on this. all youre doing is proving to me how little you understand this specific case, which really makes what you say completely useless. this is the last time im going to repeat myself

this isnt an education thing, this is him concerned about my health and well being. theres a very big difference here so please stop thinking you know everything

Sorry I have offended you. I won't bother you again

 

[Life_and_Death]

Sorry I have offended you. I won't bother you again

im not offended, just a little annoyed that you werent listening (which sums up most people that talk to me. they never listen and they always misunderstand (and somehow sometimes thats my fault to them) so i get a little more snappy then i probably should) just try to listen a little better next time