wildflowers1996

wildflowers1996

Mage
Oct 14, 2023
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I know that it's probably not real, and it's just a coping mechanism for me, but I just need to try to believe it right now to stop myself going completely insane.

I am trying to tell myself, if I can try to do good things in this life, maybe in the next life I'll have a life where I can have the things I want.

I have been looking online at all the people I am so jealous of and I want to try to be happy for them but it's also so painful and I just want to tell myself maybe in another life I'll be like them.

Can anyone give me some reason to believe that, please. :(
 
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Darkover

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whether or not we only get one lifetime is beyond the ability of humans to understand the fundamentals are we are just machines hardwired to live the fundamental reality is that we going into the void after we die, who knows if we ever live again or we just stay in the void of nothingness forever, the fundamental reality is nothingness where do you think all this stuff came from nothingness, desire to live a life worth living is only apart of the machine that you are for it desires to live a better life even if none ever comes
 
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Unspoken7612

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Given that this is a forum for suicidal people, it would feel irresponsible to romanticise death.

What I will say is that depressed people often overestimate the gap between them and other people. You can probably take steps towards having a life you want in this life.
 
wildflowers1996

wildflowers1996

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Oct 14, 2023
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whether or not we only get one lifetime is beyond the ability of humans to understand the fundamentals are we are just machines hardwired to live the fundamental reality is that we going into the void after we die, who knows if we ever live again or we just stay in the void of nothingness forever, the fundamental reality is nothingness where do you think all this stuff came from nothingness, desire to live a life worth living is only apart of the machine that you are for it desires to live a better life even if none ever comes
I appreciate that, but right now I'm looking for comfort rather than truth :(
Given that this is a forum for suicidal people, it would feel irresponsible to romanticise death.

What I will say is that depressed people often overestimate the gap between them and other people. You can probably take steps towards having a life you want in this life.
it's definitely not my intention to encourage people to ctb by believing this! I really don't want that to be the case. I've said I know it's probably not true. It's just something I need to believe because I definitely cannot have the life I want in this life
This is an interesting article about suicide and reincarnation: https://psi-encyclopedia.spr.ac.uk/articles/suicide-and-reincarnation

However I cant give you a guarantee, it's just what I look up to cope.
thank you, I will have a look
 
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AnderDethsky

AnderDethsky

After all it you'll feel peace and all will b fine
Oct 19, 2024
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I highly recommend reading my translation of one work devoted to an overview of a concept similar to reincarnation, called open individualism.

IMHO this concept is currently on S Tier compared to other afterlife concepts.

This will definitely give you a reason to reflect on the fact that you can very well be whoever you want to be.
romanticise death.
Damn it. If it's inappropriate to do this also here, then where the hell else can it be done?
 
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divinemistress36

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Watch ndes on youtube . Theres an Afterlife sub on Reddit where people discuss reincarnation. From what they say we all live many different lives from easy to really rough and some lives we are evil . If we do reincarnate hopefully its less challenging next time around
 
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CantDoIt

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There's also a sub dedicated specifically to reincarnation. The reddit sub asks specific questions about it and people supposedly experience past life memories.
 
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divinemistress36

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There's also a sub dedicated specifically to reincarnation. The reddit sub asks specific questions about it and people supposedly experience past life memories.
I love looking at these. Doesnt matter if its real or not
 
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