Bye for good guys

[Zeus35]

I've been on this group since April. And there have been times people in this group have unnecessarily goaded me into a reaction. I have a mood disorder, I'm on the autism spectrum, I have another disability and PTSD. It's difficult not to react when someone starts on me on this site for absolutely no reason. I posted a picture of self-harm because I needed support. I was then called an attention whore randomly by a member I had never interacted with before. Yes I should nt have said what I said but this forum literally has mentally ill and disabled people on it. Maybe people need to watch what they say before poling people who've literally done nothing to them. I had one admin who was understanding to me and the other who I woke up to giving me a warning.

I'm not having it! This group isn't for me and quite frankly it's not suitable for those on the autism spectrum due to the goading and sheet spite from some people here which then lands us in trouble when we react. I liked this group because I felt I could speak to people about how I felt. It genuinely saved my life. Just a word of advice "if you haven't got anything nice to say keep your mouth closed" you don't know what disabilities or mental illnesses someone has so there's no point going onto their post just to insult them and then expect no reaction. Goading the disabled and mentally ill and then trying to get us into bother from admin. I'm done with this group. Thank you to those who have supported me like Ecka and Cathy amongst alot of other good members. And for the ones who scroll on my post saying horrible things, watch what you say. I don't know you and your not a victim because you can dish it out but can't take it.

 

[FuneralCry]

It's a fact that in this life nowhere is really free from the cruelty of people. Sometimes it's best not to open up about suffering in my opinion, as it will just make things worse. Others can never really understand as they are not living our lives. This website isn't a comforting place at all to be honest. I've seen many insensitive and awful things on here. Your feelings are understandable. I hope that you are able to find support elsewhere. Best wishes.

 

[Theanswer]

I've been on this group since April. And there have been times people in this group have unnecessarily goaded me into a reaction. I have a mood disorder, I'm on the autism spectrum, I have another disability and PTSD. It's difficult not to react when someone starts on me on this site for absolutely no reason. I posted a picture of self-harm because I needed support. I was then called an attention whore randomly by a member I had never interacted with before. Yes I should nt have said what I said but this forum literally has mentally ill and disabled people on it. Maybe people need to watch what they say before poling people who've literally done nothing to them. I had one admin who was understanding to me and the other who I woke up to giving me a warning.

I'm not having it! This group isn't for me and quite frankly it's not suitable for those on the autism spectrum due to the goading and sheet spite from some people here which then lands us in trouble when we react. I liked this group because I felt I could speak to people about how I felt. It genuinely saved my life. Just a word of advice "if you haven't got anything nice to say keep your mouth closed" you don't know what disabilities or mental illnesses someone has so there's no point going onto their post just to insult them and then expect no reaction. Goading the disabled and mentally ill and then trying to get us into bother from admin. I'm done with this group. Thank you to those who have supported me like Ecka and Cathy amongst alot of other good members. And for the ones who scroll on my post saying horrible things, watch what you say. I don't know you and your not a victim because you can dish it out but can't take it.

I'm sorry that people are giving you crap. Tell them to fuck off. I do get this and it's not easy and is harmful to everyone. There are a lot of people on here who are sensation seekers, like to "sound" like they know sooo much. I just ignore and focus on people who are helpful and kind. Ain't easy but I don't even respond to their reply posts anymore. Not much else to do but ignore them, after telling them to fuck off, of course.

 

[StarlightDreamer]

I'm sorry you've had such a rough experience on the site. As much as one might recommend to ignore those users, I'm sure it isn't easy.

That's okay. There are other communities you can discover, and flourish in. If you ever need us again, we will be here.

 

[Unworthyoflove]

its so sad that these bullies are given so much power. and yes, these evil people are everywhere. what a bullie world we live in. hope you can find a nicer place to have some comfort. have you thought about creating your own telegram group ? there you can be the admin and kick out the bullies yourself ;) best wishes

 

[Zeus35]

Thank you I'm back now. I want to stay here.

 

[Theanswer]

Thank you I'm back now. I want to stay here.

Great, you are welcome here. Like I said, ignore them and don't respond. Like I said, ain't easy but that's your only option. The ignoring and no effect on you will get much easier the more you practice it. And the immature "ones" will move onto something else.

 

[Zeus35]

Great, you are welcome here. Like I said, ignore them and don't respond. Like I said, ain't easy but that's your only option. The ignoring and no effect on you will get much easier the more you practice it. And the immature "ones" will move onto something else.

Thank you x

Thank you x

Just watching a movie. Its enjoyable actually. Probably one of the best movies x

 

[WhatPowerIs]

Thank you x

Just watching a movie. Its enjoyable actually. Probably one of the best movies x

What movie?

 

[Arrow]

remember if people are being mean just hover over their name on PC and hit "ignore" (or click their name and then ignore if you're on your phone) and that way you won't see messages from that person ever again. they should know better than to talk to fellow members like that. sorry about your negative experience.

 

[Pluto]

Unfortunately there are so many people here who have been abused or have their own psychological traumas that can cause them to lash out when triggered. With maturity and age, we become better at knowing when it is or isn't appropriate to 'vent'. But clearly not everyone is at that stage.

We used to have a lovely girl from Ukraine and she was attacked by someone here even while having to deal with the outbreak of war and seeing her friends killed. She left after that and now I don't even know if she's still alive. Makes me sad.

Anyway, hopefully you can find support, here or elsewhere, and not be affected by the negative side of the site. Of course, the best thing would be not needing this place at all.

 

[Zeus35]

What movie?

Split with James Macavoy in it

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

Hi there,
Sorry to hear about what happened to you. As others have said, you can always ignore them. I don't use the ignore button, I just don't respond. I do like to make jokes sometimes. It helps me deal with life but if I do say something that hurts someone else I do apologise.
It irritates me more when someone else is attacked than myself. I try to stay out of arguments especially between members I like. Honestly I can't think of anyone I don't.
Anyway, take care of yourself.

 

[Ecka-26]

I will alway's have your back Gem, don't ever listen to any haters!!

 

[Zeus35]

I will alway's have your back Gem, don't ever listen to any haters!!

Thank you x