DoNotLet2
Wizard
- Oct 14, 2019
- 684
Hello
Ok so disclaimer: mentioning suicide, this is merely my rumination. And of course I know there are people here who have unbearable problems. This is mostly a thread about "normal" people with "normal" lives and relatively "normal" problems who go commit suicide.
tl;dr our brains are simply not made to deal with nowadays' problems.
There is something that bugs me and doesn't let me sleep. Why are we suicidal? Yes we have problems but people hundreds of years ago had worse problems and they weren't suicidal. People in the first and second world are suicidal even though third world has it worse and people aren't so suicidal there.
7% of Polish teenagers have tried to commit suicide. That's a statistic I have heard and that's a lot. 10% of people are supposed to suffer from depression during their lifetime.
I know nothing but I have been overthinking this. The answer seems simple. We were animals we lived like animals so that's why everything was okay. Now we are still animals but we have problems like humans and that's too hard for our brains. What do I mean? We speak much more sophisticated languages than animals and we look differently but our way of thinking is essentially the same.
For example we think that all outsiders are bad. Because ages ago outsiders were really dangerous. Now they aren't but we are still afraid. Or the very visible thing is our inability to think much time ahead. We choose poorly when it comes to long term advantage. Sacrifice a bit to have a lot later. We do destroy our environment even though we know that destroying our world may mean death to almost all of us. But we can't imagine it. We think it will be okay. Because ages ago we didn't have to think 30 years ahead. We only needed to answer the question "how will I survive this winter?" without caring about next winter. We can't deal with a lot of stimuli and we ignore information that we need because we can't filter information properly. Ages ago even at the worst times we had much much less stimuli to deal with.
There are more problems. Democracy is good but our brains aren't made for this. Few people would be intelligent enough to analyze and understand problems the rest would listen. Now people aren't even humble enough to care about smart people's opinions and as a result we hear from the Right "there is no discrimination" (excuse me?) or from the Left "socialism would solve discrimination" (dude socialism is discrimination by definition! you can't solve flood by flooding!). And as a result people voted for lifting the limitations caused by coronavirus "I don't care that some old people will die, I just hate those masks I can't party hard in a mask".
But which one of the problems causes us to be suicidal? Ability to deal with problems. When we all lived in villages we didn't have so many problems as today and many of those problems were split between all of the villagers. If someone's husband died, it was a moral obligation to help the widow and saying "who gives a shit, get yourself a new man" was a sin. Loneliness wasn't a problem unless you were in dungeons or living alone in a forest. And now? Which one of you feels like they have to carry the entire world on their back? We have so many responsibilities and we have to fight for every fuckin relationship! They expect us to be godlike! Of course you can say "I don't give a shit I won't work more than I feel like" but it will result either in you becoming homeless or you relying on socialism from the Left and the help isn't enough for you to live decently...
Our brain is used to deal with constant threat of starvation but it can't sit home alone for a few months because it gets sick! We are having an epidemic of depression and OCD from coronavirus because most of us becomes sick after just a few months of not meeting friends. And that's why we are suicidal. We have too many responsibilities and it's too hard to have relationships. Ages ago those relationships weren't best but they were!
What do you think? Do you agree or disagree?
Ok so disclaimer: mentioning suicide, this is merely my rumination. And of course I know there are people here who have unbearable problems. This is mostly a thread about "normal" people with "normal" lives and relatively "normal" problems who go commit suicide.
tl;dr our brains are simply not made to deal with nowadays' problems.
There is something that bugs me and doesn't let me sleep. Why are we suicidal? Yes we have problems but people hundreds of years ago had worse problems and they weren't suicidal. People in the first and second world are suicidal even though third world has it worse and people aren't so suicidal there.
7% of Polish teenagers have tried to commit suicide. That's a statistic I have heard and that's a lot. 10% of people are supposed to suffer from depression during their lifetime.
I know nothing but I have been overthinking this. The answer seems simple. We were animals we lived like animals so that's why everything was okay. Now we are still animals but we have problems like humans and that's too hard for our brains. What do I mean? We speak much more sophisticated languages than animals and we look differently but our way of thinking is essentially the same.
For example we think that all outsiders are bad. Because ages ago outsiders were really dangerous. Now they aren't but we are still afraid. Or the very visible thing is our inability to think much time ahead. We choose poorly when it comes to long term advantage. Sacrifice a bit to have a lot later. We do destroy our environment even though we know that destroying our world may mean death to almost all of us. But we can't imagine it. We think it will be okay. Because ages ago we didn't have to think 30 years ahead. We only needed to answer the question "how will I survive this winter?" without caring about next winter. We can't deal with a lot of stimuli and we ignore information that we need because we can't filter information properly. Ages ago even at the worst times we had much much less stimuli to deal with.
There are more problems. Democracy is good but our brains aren't made for this. Few people would be intelligent enough to analyze and understand problems the rest would listen. Now people aren't even humble enough to care about smart people's opinions and as a result we hear from the Right "there is no discrimination" (excuse me?) or from the Left "socialism would solve discrimination" (dude socialism is discrimination by definition! you can't solve flood by flooding!). And as a result people voted for lifting the limitations caused by coronavirus "I don't care that some old people will die, I just hate those masks I can't party hard in a mask".
But which one of the problems causes us to be suicidal? Ability to deal with problems. When we all lived in villages we didn't have so many problems as today and many of those problems were split between all of the villagers. If someone's husband died, it was a moral obligation to help the widow and saying "who gives a shit, get yourself a new man" was a sin. Loneliness wasn't a problem unless you were in dungeons or living alone in a forest. And now? Which one of you feels like they have to carry the entire world on their back? We have so many responsibilities and we have to fight for every fuckin relationship! They expect us to be godlike! Of course you can say "I don't give a shit I won't work more than I feel like" but it will result either in you becoming homeless or you relying on socialism from the Left and the help isn't enough for you to live decently...
Our brain is used to deal with constant threat of starvation but it can't sit home alone for a few months because it gets sick! We are having an epidemic of depression and OCD from coronavirus because most of us becomes sick after just a few months of not meeting friends. And that's why we are suicidal. We have too many responsibilities and it's too hard to have relationships. Ages ago those relationships weren't best but they were!
What do you think? Do you agree or disagree?