Help Booking/Getting an Escort in Netherlands

[TAW122]

From previous threads regarding my virginity problem and what not, I have made up my mind and also taken action. I booked a flight to Amsterdam, Netherlands as well as a hotel there. (Reason for Amsterdam is that it is legal and also I believe it is more accessible, affordable than brothels in various parts of Nevada. The latter is also legal, but much more expensive fwiw.) I will be going there in roughly a month from now. Now, my focus is on how I would go about booking an escort. If anyone has hired escorts before in Netherlands and/or lives in Netherlands and knows about these things, could you give me some advice such as tips and expectations for the encounter and how a typical session goes?

The challenges I run into are:

1) Knowing whether or not it is legit (both with an agency and/or independents), such as the sites, the company, and so forth. I don't want to end up getting scammed or ripped off.

2) How early/late do I have make a reservation or book? Are there same day bookings or even 1 day in advance? I want to book early rather than late.

3) How does the booking process work and also what is the screening process like? (Such as what information do I need, what do I need to prepare for, etc?) I have never booked one before so I am a first timer.

I have also looked at the Red Light District (De Wallen) and while it seems like a good area for tourists to get sexual intercourse, it doesn't have what I am specifically looking for and also due to the time limit, it would be too quick for me. I am not completely ruling it out, but I am looking for something that allows me to take my time and not rush things too quickly. Also, since I would need some intimate touch to accompany intercourse, the RLD might not be suitable for that.

 

[Wayfaerer]

Wish I had the money for that. Euros don't understand how easy they have it! I'm going to have to roll the dice...

To have your questions answered, it's probably going to require internet sleuthing because I doubt anyone here is going know any of that.

 

[Stan]

WTF!!!!!!!

 

[TAW122]

@Wayfaerer I believe so, and even then I have trouble finding reliable information around the Internet about my specifics. I suppose this isn't a good forum to seek answers to my questions, especially about escorts in Europe.

@Stan may I ask why you interjected with that? Is there something in particular that you are against, such as my decision or is it in response to something else?

 

[Wayfaerer]

@Wayfaerer I believe so, and even then I have trouble finding reliable information around the Internet about my specifics. I suppose this isn't a good forum to seek answers to my questions, especially about escorts in Europe.

@Stan may I ask why you interjected with that? Is there something in particular that you are against, such as my decision or is it in response to something else?

I say if you have the money for it, go for it. Europe is popular for prostitution in countries that have it legalized and traveling between countries is like traveling between US states (for eurozone members).

 

[Stan]

@Stan may I ask why you interjected with that? Is there something in particular that you are against, such as my decision or is it in response to something else?

What you do in this regard and for the reasons why is completely down to you and I have no grounds to judge you. But in reality I bet within 5 minutes of using google you would find a forum that you could join that would be 'expert' in this field.

Being European, I think you might have a bit of a misconception of Europe being the brothel capital of the world. Where you have booked to go, which is Amsterdam has gone through a massive clean up over the past few years and a lot of the areas that were red light are now places with family style cafes. I know this for a fact as i worked there for a while. Not saying they still don't have some red light areas but its not the Disneyland for hookers you maybe expecting. Amsterdam is a really nice tourist place and english is widely spoken. But having spent all that money on a transatlantic flight and hotel to be disappointed will be a blow to you. So my suggestion is to find a site that specialises in this topic with people who are experienced in this area.

My WTF comes from that I really didn't think I would see a subject matter like this being discussed in a suicide forum

 

[TAW122]

I say if you have the money for it, go for it. Europe is popular for prostitution in countries that have it legalized and traveling between countries is like traveling between US states (for eurozone members).

Yes, and I did save enough money to pursue such endeavors. I will continue to look at other places for more information.

What you do in this regard and for the reasons why is completely down to you and I have no grounds to judge you. But in reality I bet within 5 minutes of using google you would find a forum that you could join that would be 'expert' in this field.

Being European, I think you might have a bit of a misconception of Europe being the brothel capital of the world. Where you have booked to go, which is Amsterdam has gone through a massive clean up over the past few years and a lot of the areas that were red light are now places with family style cafes. I know this for a fact as i worked there for a while. Not saying they still don't have some red light areas but its not the Disneyland for hookers you maybe expecting. Amsterdam is a really nice tourist place and english is widely spoken. But having spent all that money on a transatlantic flight and hotel to be disappointed will be a blow to you. So my suggestion is to find a site that specialises in this topic with people who are experienced in this area.

My WTF comes from that I really didn't think I would see a subject matter like this being discussed in a suicide forum

As for finding information regarding this, I will continue looking around the Internet and other areas. As for Amsterdam, yes I do realize that the red light areas have shrunk over the last few years. If I am able to find just one hooker to lose my virginity and maybe other kinds of sexual activity, then I will be satisfied. Basically, I'm not expecting to get the best sexual experience ever, just simply to lose my virginity and also gain an understanding of what sexual intercourse feels like. I have chosen Amsterdam because prostitution is illegal in the US (except the one state, Nevada and only then in brothels where it will be much more expensive than in Amsterdam/Germany). Regarding the cost of my flight to Europe and hotel, I have spent close to 1K USD, which isn't bad at all.

In the off-topic section of this forum, just about anything that is non-suicide related are fair game.

 

[Wayfaerer]

My WTF comes from that I really didn't think I would see a subject matter like this being discussed in a suicide forum

A few of us are trying to lose our v-cards before we catch the bus, so it makes perfect sense.

 

[Stan]

A few of us are trying to lose our v-cards before we catch the bus, so it makes perfect sense.

Talking about the virtues of losing the v-card is fine and its great to get peoples opinion if they wish to offer it.

Asking 3 procedural questions on how to employ the services of an escort is a bit of a stretch for me. As I said, better forums where he would probably get the advice he is looking for

 

[Bathsheba]

There's this website

Adultwork Holland, escorts and callgirs ads directory

Holland adult guide with female escorts, callgirls and adultwork ads. Diresctory to find escort ads, catalogue of call girls and courtesans in Holland ( Netherlands )

www.adult-works.com

 

[Rachel74]

Being European as I am in the UK does not matter, we still can't legally help another to commit suicide. You have better access to N that we have and it is legal in some states in the US that allows medical euthanasia. The UK is so far behind those laws.
I wish you luck in your quest and Amsterdam is an amazing place.
Losing your V is not anything special. The first time will be terrible. Trust me. I am old and I know these things.

 

[bea1974]

Punternet might be able to help you. It's a UK messageboard for men who use prostitutes, but many who post there will have experience of Amsterdam I expect.