So kinda bored and curious. Is anyone into BDSM?
Real BDSM is supposed to be safe, sane and consenual.
Real BDSM is supposed to be safe, sane and consenual.
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Stan
Factoid Hunter
- Aug 29, 2019
- 2,589
I was tied to a mortgage for 20 years if that counts?
Empty Smile
The final Bell has rung. Goodbye to all.
- Jul 13, 2018
- 1,785
I was married for 10 years, I was tied down most the time, and was abused most the time. She was a bitch. I guess this qualifies.
I guess I should have worded this for a more positive meaning. BDSM is supposed to be safe, sane and consenual.
I've been in the lifestyle for 13 years. It helps me keep my sanity.
Sargasm
Compassion makes the world go 'round.
- Jun 19, 2019
- 103
I know my way around a flogger. Paddles and riding crops as well, though my personal favorite has always been a leather belt. Funniest thing I ever did was spank someone with a bible. She felt the power of Jesus, and she had the marks to prove it. Spent a couple of years as a 24/7 Dom. We even had our own little collaring ceremony. Used to be a member of a couple of groups, and I've been to my share of scenes/munches.
I've never been into the extreme/edgeplay or degradation, but I am very experienced in sensation play and gradually sending people into subspace. It takes time and practice with the right person to put them into subspace, but when it happens, it is a thing of beauty. And remember kids: Aftercare is not optional.
I've been on the receiving end a couple of times just to mix things up, but my pain tolerance was so high that they had to stop either because they were exhausted, or they had to hit me so hard they were actually causing injuries. I still enjoyed it, but not so much the next day when the bruises really came out.
My poor Fetlife account is gathering dust and cobwebs.
I've never been into the extreme/edgeplay or degradation, but I am very experienced in sensation play and gradually sending people into subspace. It takes time and practice with the right person to put them into subspace, but when it happens, it is a thing of beauty. And remember kids: Aftercare is not optional.
I've been on the receiving end a couple of times just to mix things up, but my pain tolerance was so high that they had to stop either because they were exhausted, or they had to hit me so hard they were actually causing injuries. I still enjoyed it, but not so much the next day when the bruises really came out.
My poor Fetlife account is gathering dust and cobwebs.
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Sargasm
Compassion makes the world go 'round.
- Jun 19, 2019
- 103
Like you said: Safe, sane and consenual.
I have had to clarify for more than a few people that 50 Shades is not BDSM. That is sexual assault.
